New Year's Resolution - 2016

[Bookishleigh]

Come on, I know you have them - most of us do it every year. We make promises we know we probably won't keep like go to the gym more, eat healthier, quit smoking. So what are yours? I'll go first (and I mentioned two of these in a different thread):

1. Quit playing nice to people I just don't give a fuck about.
2. Quit doing things I just really don't want to fucking do.
3. Have sex with someone other than myself - 2015 sucked for that. I'm not cut out for extended periods of celibacy. I'm not going to fucking doing that anymore either (the celibacy part, hopefully there is fucking).

And that's all I got. I have some lofty ambitions... I know.

 

[beachbaby179]

Wow. I only have two.

Get divorced. Finally and unequivocally. No more derailment or delays.
Not fall apart when my youngest leaves for college (that's a stretch goal. I fully expect to fail at that one).

 

[Bookishleigh]

Wow. I only have two.

Get divorced. Finally and unequivocally. No more derailment or delays.
Not fall apart when my youngest leaves for college (that's a stretch goal. I fully expect to fail at that one).

If/when you get divorced, please know I'm here for you. Even if you're the one doing it, it still sucks and is awful (but you know you'll be happier in the long run).

And I'll be here for you too WHEN you fall apart with your youngest leaving for college. I joke that because I enjoy scrapbooking I will be chasing mine all over campus getting candid shots of him. Yeah, he's going to hate me.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Resolution!

To finish this divorce that's been dragging out all this year, without taking anymore crap from him.

To begin dating again...I've waited long enough, keeping my vows even through separation...I'm done!

Move back to California, and enjoy my family and my life!

 

[zydrate]

Just...you know... survive....

 

[Bookishleigh]

To finish this divorce that's been dragging out all this year, without taking anymore crap from him.

To begin dating again...I've waited long enough, keeping my vows even through separation...I'm done!

Move back to California, and enjoy my family and my life!

Okay - same with you on the divorce front. If you need to vent, cry, celebrate I am here for you!

And love the goal of moving back to California!!!

 

[beachbaby179]

Lol. I'm sensing a theme here.

OK, sistas...time to get moving!
FD...thank you. Did you get my pm????

 

[Bookishleigh]

Just...you know... survive....

I think I have FINALLY started coming out of survival mode. Now I need to start living. Hope your next year is filled with more than survival

 

[zydrate]

I think I have FINALLY started coming out of survival mode. Now I need to start living. Hope your next year is filled with more than survival

hehe, I just mean I don't really make resolutions... usually I end up breaking them so I just live... take what the day gives me and run with it...

weeeeeeee!!!

 

[Bookishleigh]

hehe, I just mean I don't really make resolutions... usually I end up breaking them so I just live... take what the day gives me and run with it...

weeeeeeee!!!

Oh, I don't really make them either - I think mine are all totally attainable this year though so I'm going for it.

And I feel like I should have put (Not a Roleplay Thread) in the title because it really does sound like it COULD be a RP

 

[zydrate]

Oh, I don't really make them either - I think mine are all totally attainable this year though so I'm going for it.

And I feel like I should have put (Not a Roleplay Thread) in the title because it really does sound like it COULD be a RP

lol, we already have two ladies getting a divorce...that role is filled...

 

[Bookishleigh]

lol, we already have two ladies getting a divorce...that role is filled...

And mine was finalized in August so.... woohoo!!!!!

 

[Iceprincess12]

Here are some lit resolutions
~stop responding to random pm's
~tell people that take up too much of my time to go away
~post in more threads
~do a good deed on lit once a week
~be even more sarcastic
~stalk people so I can post yes in the stalking thread

Here are some that I will never keep
~play with playgrounders
~tell every guy he is gorgeous and irresistible
~flirt with every guy that posts with me so I can say "you like me, you really like me". (Bonus if you know who said it, subtract the bonus if you pm me
~change my avatar to a model so I can get more pm's
~stop procrastinating and start working on my list

 

[lowphat]

Here are some lit resolutions
~stop responding to random pm's
~tell people that take up too much of my time to go away
~post in more threads
~do a good deed on lit once a week
~be even more sarcastic
~stalk people so I can post yes in the stalking thread

Here are some that I will never keep
~play with playgrounders
~tell every guy he is gorgeous and irresistible
~flirt with every guy that posts with me so I can say "you like me, you really like me". (Bonus if you know who said it, subtract the bonus if you pm me
~change my avatar to a model so I can get more pm's
~stop procrastinating and start working on my list

Thanks, now mine seems kinda weak.

Drink more beer and less water

 

[Leigh81]

I haven't really made any.
Definitely want to make some Lit resolutions though when I return on Jan 4th.
- opening up more since I keep people at a distance.
- I have major trust issues here which I'd like to be a little more relaxed with
- don't let being called a bitch bother me when both guys & gals get mad because I don't play here on Lit.
- change my profile
I can probably think of more......

L

 

[Porkwarrior]

1) Quit smoking cigarettes. Cigars are here to stay though!

2) Drink less. I can put away embarrassing quantities of whiskey. I've been switching to wine this month, even started another hobby making my own wine, the first 10 gallons came out perfect BTW!

3) I divorced three years ago...then moved back in with the Ex. Still friends, but this shit can't go on.

4) Buy a sailboat I can live on and start a life of semi-retirement. I deal with Ontario, for 6mos a year. It's long past my time to leave.

Lit Resolutions:

1) Post more, regularly, and be less of a snarky dick.

2) Get Leigh in a bikini drunk on my boat. You can even bring the hubby & GF.

 

[base10]

Just one resolution here,

make more friends with the lovely people around here

 

[AKentuckyLady]

Lol. I'm sensing a theme here.

OK, sistas...time to get moving!
FD...thank you. Did you get my pm????

I'm going to join this ladies club...

1. Get the divorce over and done with. Get him out of my life once and for all.

2. Move out of this house with so many sad memories. Downsize severely, start spending my time and money on experiences and new memories rather than stuff.

3. Take at least one trip overseas in 2016. Just got my very first passport in my entire life the day before Thanksgiving. I *will* put a stamp in it during 2016.

Merry Christmas, all

 

[igoliquid]

1. Learn a language
2. Really, learn a language

 

[base10]

1. Learn a language
2. Really, learn a language

which one do you want to learn most?

 

[Mayberrygirl]

1. Learn a language
2. Really, learn a language

Ewww...that is a good one...something I have always wanted to do myself! I may use your resolution as well if you do not mind!!

 

[ydahecnot]

Find more time to describe sizzling things to a woman here for hours.


Er, I meant "exercise more"

 

[Bookishleigh]

Lol. I'm sensing a theme here.

OK, sistas...time to get moving!
FD...thank you. Did you get my pm????

I am so sorry!!! I did get your PM and started to respond and must have gotten sidetracked. I won't lie - this Christmas season has been tough for me. My memory seems to be horrific. The other day I couldn't find my pill organizer (since I still take a ton of meds from being sick) only to find it in the refrigerator!!!!!!

I LOVED the coasters. Those are really awesome. And who can't always use some champagne in their life???? You are incredibly sweet and amazing. Thank you!

Find more time to describe sizzling things to a woman here for hours.

Er, I meant "exercise more"

And every conversation I have had with you has been sizzling! Of course, not in a sexual way, but just in that fun, sense of humor way. Anyway, hope you get the sizzle you are looking for (or exercise more)

And I love reading EVERYONE'S resolutions. Thank you for keeping this thread alive for more than one day

 

[Iceprincess12]

Thanks, now mine seems kinda weak.

Drink more beer and less water

Your resoultions are way more attainable! A good deed once a week?
I'll be lucky not to stab my eyes out 2nd week of January

(Be more sarcastic...nailed it!)

 

[babeee]

Here are some lit resolutions
~stop responding to random pm's
~tell people that take up too much of my time to go away
~post in more threads
~do a good deed on lit once a week
~be even more sarcastic
~stalk people so I can post yes in the stalking thread

Here are some that I will never keep
~play with playgrounders
~tell every guy he is gorgeous and irresistible
~flirt with every guy that posts with me so I can say "you like me, you really like me". (Bonus if you know who said it, subtract the bonus if you pm me
~change my avatar to a model so I can get more pm's
~stop procrastinating and start working on my list

This post made me smile