New to the BDSM world, how did it start for you?

[Meral]

Hello

i'm new to this board but also i never had a BDSM relationship
i'm curious so i started talking to a few people about it online, but most of them in my opinion arent really serious
reason for joining this board for me is just to learn more about it

and i was wondering is it weird to first talk and learn about it online than in real life?
how did you start?

xxx Meral

 

[Rrrosyn]

Hello

i'm new to this board but also i never had a BDSM relationship
i'm curious so i started talking to a few people about it online, but most of them in my opinion arent really serious
reason for joining this board for me is just to learn more about it

and i was wondering is it weird to first talk and learn about it online than in real life?
how did you start?

xxx Meral

I brought it to RL with emails to the intended male. Mostly it was just play. No true sumbission or anything, just a little bondage in the bedroom. Most guys don't mind the idea of tying them up. It's the other stuff, paddlings, worshipping their lady, etc that makes them a bit cautious. then again most guys don't want anything up their ass, but a little finger during a blowjob really turns them on. (Generalizing here.)

I've always been into bondage. My poor Ken dolls suffered so. When I was around eight I used to chase a neighbor-boy (playmate) around with an old sheet, catch him, wrap him up and tell him he was my love slave. I think I got it from a mix of old sci-fi TV shows. We'd also play mermaid in bunk beds and I would drown him and keep him wrapped in "kelp" forever. I'd even feed him the lunch his mother made us. Nothing sexual, just kept him as my toy and pet. Mine to take care of and him totally dependant on me. (Wow, just like a dog.)

Not sure what you meant by "how did it start" so just thought I would address how it started in my mind and in my RL "play"... I hate that word, it isn't play anymore but it was at first.

 

[Meral]

thank you for your reply
english isnt my first language so i hope you will understand what i mean
but yes i did mean it that way

for me it started the same around that age only i always asked the other kids to 'keep me prisoner' or playing police and things like that

but i never had anyone to talk to about these feelings so thats why i'm searching for more experienced people to chat with