I am new to trying, after some research have come to learn that I have seen d/s relationships everywhere, but didn't understand it to be that. I am continuing to learn, and want to step into a relationship of this sort, though I like the idea of switch. My question, though, is can someone that has been the "too nice" guy be a dom? And do you have to change the kindness factor, or redirect it maybe? I saw some hints in earlier posts, but would much like any direct input.
Thank you,
Joe
Thank you,
Joe