New Dom?

[Demon_in_love]

My boyfriend and I have been toying with dom/sub stuff for a while now. I'm naturally more to the submissive side, but he wants me to try being dom, just to try it. I'm not sure what I should do. Any ideas?

 

[Mr.G]

Take His Tv Remote

and don't give it back.





OK .. seriously ... TALK to him. Find out what his fantasies are. Wait a while and then spontaneously DO 'EM. Small steps. Don't expect to do EVERYTHING the first night.

Or just climb on his face one night and ride like the entire Commanche nation is chasing you and wants your scalp.

Use your imagination.

Be careful. Usually when you see large quantities of blood it's time to back off a bit. Common sense is good.

 

[Chicklet]

there are also LOTS of threads in the BDSM section with this topic in mind: Boyfriend/Lover wants me to be a Dom, what do I do?

check out the BDSM library for ideas, and you shouldn't have to search too hard for threads on exactly this topic.

 

[Demon_in_love]

Usually. Unless that's one of his fetishes.

 

[CutieMouse]

BDSM Talk is a good place to start.

The New Topping Book

&

The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners

(both available through amazon.com or www.greenerypress.com) are both good starters on the subject...