need some advise

[JoCool]

I have be dating this women I really like, but there is a problem that has come up during sex, it really freaks her out for some reason. She squirts when she cums sometimes and she thinks its something revolting. I really like it but she seems to think it is a problem. She is starting to hold back when she gets close to orgasam and makes me stop. how do I tell her it is really a turn on without sounding wierd. This has only happened with me, she says. Any advise would be greatful...

 

[Angel]

Uh. Just say

"Don't stop doing that, it's a turn on"

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

You've already done it. You've already told her you like it and that it's okay.

But...

She's going to need some time to accept that. If she's always hated it's become habit to hate it. So, let her tell you how awful it is and how many guys she's been with who don't like it, etc, etc. Just keep being positive and eventually she'll (er) come around.

 

[Angel]

I don't know about that. The first time I ever *squirted* I was like WTF? And the guy I was with wigged out. I hated that I did it for awhile, and then a year ago I squirted into a guy's face and he was like "OH MY GAWD DO THAT AGAIN" so after the three hours I spent blushing, I no longer hate it.



Probably just depends on HOW LONG she's hated it, or if someone in the past made her feel horrible about it. Just not only tell her, but SHOW her how much you like it.


Isnt there a thread about this over in How-To?

 

[teresafannin]

Give her lots of time, it has taken me awhile to get used to it. My guy loves it, but the first time, we both just about freaked. We are in our 40's & had been together for nearly 4 years the first time it happened. Sex just gets better & better for us, it is just kind of messy-lol.

 

[JoCool]

thanx for the help.......joe