PinkOrchid
Anal Whore™
- Joined
- Oct 29, 2002
- Posts
- 12,582
Need some advice..
- Thread starter StaceyR
- Start date
Amfig
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Apr 16, 2002
- Posts
- 452
Lust Engine said:While technically it's not illegal, it would cause all kinds of speculation over his career. The rumors of did he give you any special priveleges while you guys were "dating" would arise big time. It would also cast doubts about your own abilities as a ball player. He has a role to play as coach and you have a role as player now. Wait months afterwards and then see if there's still anything. Right now to initiate anything would seriously harm both of your integrities. While the both of you guys might deny everything, the court of public opinion will still cast you both in a negative light. Keep it up front; be professional about your attitudes within the sports realm.
I don't want to rain upon your parade, but you still have much more ahead of you. Don't ruin any reputation you might have already worked hard for over a simple crush or misunderstanding.
Good luck!
Some places it is pure illegal. Several states have laws that make any sexual contact between a person acting in a custodial relationship to another a sex offense of some degree. Such statutes make the contact an offense on the part of the custodian without regard to the ages of the persons involed and without regard to "consent." Schools, or their employees, at least at the primary and secondary levels, since they act in loco parentis, are custodial when a student is enrolled.
Lust Engine
Literotica Guru
- Joined
- Jul 20, 2002
- Posts
- 18,009
Stacey...
Great choice you made here. Like PinkOrchid said... years from now I think you'll look back and giggle about you having a crush on this guy, which is perfectly normal. Heck I still think back to my second grade teacher & thought that she was a hottie (not that I could then or now do anything about it!). Keep your own self dignity intact here and keep it as a fantasy. There are certain fantasies that are better left alone; this might be one of them.
We still drool over super models & porn stars. Are we ever going to act out any of those fantasies? Doubtful and highly unlikely but they're fun to fantasize about. Keep it as such and look towards guys your age for a fun stable relationship.
You deserve a solid loving relationship free of all the innuendo & gossip.
Good luck, Stacey!
Great choice you made here. Like PinkOrchid said... years from now I think you'll look back and giggle about you having a crush on this guy, which is perfectly normal. Heck I still think back to my second grade teacher & thought that she was a hottie (not that I could then or now do anything about it!). Keep your own self dignity intact here and keep it as a fantasy. There are certain fantasies that are better left alone; this might be one of them.
We still drool over super models & porn stars. Are we ever going to act out any of those fantasies? Doubtful and highly unlikely but they're fun to fantasize about. Keep it as such and look towards guys your age for a fun stable relationship.
You deserve a solid loving relationship free of all the innuendo & gossip.
Good luck, Stacey!
