Need Anal Advice????

[Rashashea]

Hi,
Hubby is always begging to let him go in the backdoor, but I can't relax enough and to be honest I just don't think it feels good. I let him use his finger every once in a while. Would like to make him happy, any tips? Also this is kinda gross but it bothers me so I have to ask. We watch alot of adult movies and I have noticed some women whose back doors are kinda open and I definatly do not want that any comments on that? Thanks
Rasha

 

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[Belilica]

Before trying actual penis-in-bum penetration, you could always try a small dildo or butt plug, and as Em said, use a lot of lube. Your butthole will go back to size. He will have to "loosen you up" though, using his fingers. Basically it is to get you used to the sensation so when his penis enters it's not so much of a surprise. One thing that worked for us first time we tried it was lying flay on the bed with legs hanging off, and a vibe on my clit for distraction. It really helped me relax. We also have an anal toy that is similar to beads but has progressively bigger balls as it gets closer to the base. This works great for loosening me up (it's great for double penetration too).

Good luck!

Bel

 

[DevilBoy79]

http://very-koi.net/tutor/anal/anal.htm

that was on one of the previous boards figured it would come in handy cause there are so many posts about this, so start reading