I appreciate your willingness to share what you think would be best. I don't see yet how tipping my hand softens the blow. Can you elaborate?...I would suggest before structuring your alternate Second Life play zone with any side pieces to come straight out with your wife about what you sexually need and what you are definitely gonna do with others in order to achieve that satisfaction and happiness. Lay down that law and tell her, Darling, we ain't gotta get divorced or nothing, but this is what I want and need because even if you don't want or need it, I ain't getting younger as the years go by and I don't want unnecessary regrets in this world before catching that one-way ticket to the other one.
If she doesn't pay any attention to your moves and is fine with her own private Idaho, then disregard that. But you really don't want that sneak mess fucking with your shit at the worst moment if you can put it all in check beforehand.
