Need advice- my guy's half into anal but still nervous

[NightJaguar]

I"ve had some anal play with my husband, and he's definately into it. THe only thing is before long (About 2 minutes with my fingers) he says I"m hurting him.

Is there any way I can make this more comfortable and increase the adventure for us?
I"ve got a good get-away plan going for Saturday and I"m mining for knowledge!

I"m new here too, so hi, hello, howdy ect

I figured to edit and add this: He's a roughly straight barely bi curious male, I"m female and he's 6'5 I"m 5'1. First time posts.. argh, lol, don't mind me

, Jaguar

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

LUBE!!! MORE LUBE!!!

Use a whole tube if you have to, reapply every 2 minutes...and don't even stroke for the first 2 minutes, just let him get used to it.

 

[Lust Engine]

I"ve had some anal play with my husband, and he's definately into it. THe only thing is before long (About 2 minutes with my fingers) he says I"m hurting him.

Is there any way I can make this more comfortable and increase the adventure for us?
I"ve got a good get-away plan going for Saturday and I"m mining for knowledge!

I"m new here too, so hi, hello, howdy ect

I figured to edit and add this: He's a roughly straight barely bi curious male, I"m female and he's 6'5 I"m 5'1. First time posts.. argh, lol, don't mind me

, Jaguar

I guess my question is HOW is he being hurt? Could he describe the pain? Are you just massaging one place too much & he's now raw? In that case, like Johnny says...LUBE! MORE LUBE!! Did you do anything different between the first two minutes up to the pain part? I guess we almost need a few more details here.

But it sounds as though you've got one lucky husband!

And welcome to the Boards here; hopefully we can help and if you ever feel inclined to post & help someone else, go right ahead!

 

[NightJaguar]

I would classify it as a can't get a comfortable position / raw feeling.

Tried a few differet positions, and I think its shopping time before Sat.. Now, to make sure to leave right after he goes to work...

 

[Lust Engine]

I would classify it as a can't get a comfortable position / raw feeling.

Tried a few differet positions, and I think its shopping time before Sat.. Now, to make sure to leave right after he goes to work...

I'll assume it'll be a shopping trip for lube?

Have fun!

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

II think its shopping time before Sat..

Mayhap N.J., while shopping, you might pick up a toy or two to help out? Perhaps something that is slender, smooth, and vibrates??
Whew! Just the thought of that has me wanting it!

Good luck in your quest N.J.!


-kym- thinking of her toy box

 

[NightJaguar]

Not a bad idea, at all

I'll keep you all updated.

 

[James G 5]

Might be a good idea to pick up soem latex or nitryl gloves....most drugstores & supermarkets sell them CHEAP
Not only do they ease cleanup, but they hold the lube better (your skin can absorb it) and if you have long nails you can put a cotton balkl in the tips of the fingers before you put the glove on, covering the nail & preventing irritation

 

[sheath]

Might be a good idea to pick up soem latex or nitryl gloves....most drugstores & supermarkets sell them CHEAP
Not only do they ease cleanup, but they hold the lube better (your skin can absorb it) and if you have long nails you can put a cotton balkl in the tips of the fingers before you put the glove on, covering the nail & preventing irritation

Hmmm...is it just me, or does that sound suspiciously like the lad speaks from experience?



S.

 

[James G 5]

Hmmm...is it just me, or does that sound suspiciously like the lad speaks from experience?



S.

Heh
Not from having it done TO me
I like to be rimmed but penetration with even fingers doesn't do anything for me
HOWEVER
I play guitar (badly) as a hobby & have long nails on several of my fingers to facilitate finger-plucking (there's pics somewhere in my thread of both the nails and one of the guitars)
So I read some tips in a book on fisting for covering the nails
And I've had a BIT of practice putting my fingers in ladies' bottoms