My "Waiting for Her" Thread

[slyc_willie]

Politics, religion, semantics on the values of literature . . . we see a lot in this forum. I truly do love to see the play of it all, even if I do not always post.

This thread is about the most important things in life. Warmth. Comfort. The knowledge that there is someone who wants to be with you, someone who sees something in you that you, yourself, may not. It is about acceptance, about patience and understanding. Basic tenets that could be applied to any human endeavor.

There is a woman in my life. A very special woman. We both have our pasts, we have our pains and tragedies. Between the two of us, I think, we could just about write the whole of human experience.

I am here to say that I accept her, and hope she accepts me. That, together, we will learn all we can about one another, and when all is revealed, we will understand it and move on. Grow together.

She is the woman I am waiting for. I am glad that she is real, and that we will be together again soon.

 

[perfect_deb]

Politics, religion, semantics on the values of literature . . . we see a lot in this forum. I truly do love to see the play of it all, even if I do not always post.

This thread is about the most important things in life. Warmth. Comfort. The knowledge that there is someone who wants to be with you, someone who sees something in you that you, yourself, may not. It is about acceptance, about patience and understanding. Basic tenets that could be applied to any human endeavor.

There is a woman in my life. A very special woman. We both have our pasts, we have our pains and tragedies. Between the two of us, I think, we could just about write the whole of human experience.

I am here to say that I accept her, and hope she accepts me. That, together, we will learn all we can about one another, and when all is revealed, we will understand it and move on. Grow together.

She is the woman I am waiting for. I am glad that she is real, and that we will be together again soon.

sweetheart i would never have picked you as a squishy at the centre romantic - i'd wish you luck but with the right attitude you dont need it

 

[S-Des]

sweetheart i would never have picked you as a squishy at the centre romantic . . .

I would have, he's utterly transparent (or is that just naked? ). Very nice sentiments, Slyc . . . I agree wholeheartedly. If only that person could be close for me as well. I'm quite jealous.

 

[impressive]

 

[buxxxom]

You've a beautiful soul inside, slyc.

 

[Guest]

Beautiful.

 

[Selena_Kitt]

You made my heart sing with this post.

I dreamed last night I left my husband and went back to my ex. I woke up in a cold sweat. What was I thinking!? (That damned subconscious!)

One night last week, we stayed up until 4 am talking about life and love and God and everything... and he got up at seven and still went to work.

You know, better than most, how short and precious it all is. I know you won't take a moment for granted.

She's blessed with the gift of you.

 

[MagicaPractica]

God Bless the two of you and bring you together with all the joy and fullfillment you desire.

 

[ABSTRUSE]

Swoooooooooon.

 

[slyc_willie]

Every conversation with her brings a new revelation. We learn more about one another every day. It's electric. It's addictive. I can't wait to talk to her again.

I'm not here to gloat, I just want to share. I'm glad that there are others on Lit who know of which I speak. Sharing the joy is no fun when you're the only one enjoying it. Which I am not, I know.

But, it's like . . . I've felt passion, I've felt lust and desire . . . now, however, I feel all that, plus . . . something more. Something promising. That excites me as much as it scares me.

Selena, I'm glad you know how I feel. Des . . . well, you have insider information Thanks for keeping mum (for now).

Magica, Imp, Deb, Sarahh, Buxxom, Abs . . . You're all part of the Lit family. If and when the invitations are sent . . .

But I can't be the only one. Tell me who you're waiting for.

 

[slyc_willie]

You made my heart sing with this post.

I dreamed last night I left my husband and went back to my ex. I woke up in a cold sweat. What was I thinking!? (That damned subconscious!)

One night last week, we stayed up until 4 am talking about life and love and God and everything... and he got up at seven and still went to work.

You know, better than most, how short and precious it all is. I know you won't take a moment for granted.

She's blessed with the gift of you.

Those moments are the best, aren't they? Sharing time . . . sharing your heart. Give me a choice between that and sex, and it's an easy choice.

I don't know if she feels blessed; I wouldn't presume to think so.

But I sure as hell am. Not to sound full of myself, but it takes a special woman to seduce me as she has.

 

[starrkers]

But I can't be the only one. Tell me who you're waiting for.

I'm waiting for him to return.

I married a fun, caring, happy man, not a classically handsome man (he'll tell you he's too short for that ). I love him dearly and I miss him immensely.

You see, he's currently MIA. The man who comes home each night wears his face, but not his heart. The self absorbed, hostile creature I live with is not the man I married.

Now his medical condition is diagnosed, and the treatment will begin in the next couple of weeks. And maybe my man will come back.

I'm hoping so, anyway. I want him back.

 

[ChilledVodka]

Has she left her husband yet?

 

[slyc_willie]

I'm waiting for him to return.

I married a fun, caring, happy man, not a classically handsome man (he'll tell you he's too short for that ). I love him dearly and I miss him immensely.

You see, he's currently MIA. The man who comes home each night wears his face, but not his heart. The self absorbed, hostile creature I live with is not the man I married.

Now his medical condition is diagnosed, and the treatment will begin in the next couple of weeks. And maybe my man will come back.

I'm hoping so, anyway. I want him back.

I know you do.

I could say that faith would help you now. Or patience. I imagine you've subscribed to your fill of both.

I suppose it all comes down to love and acceptance. I hope you have enough of both.

 

[perfect_deb]

Every conversation with her brings a new revelation. We learn more about one another every day. It's electric. It's addictive. I can't wait to talk to her again.

I'm not here to gloat, I just want to share. I'm glad that there are others on Lit who know of which I speak. Sharing the joy is now fun when you're the only one enjoying it. Which I am not, I know.

But, it's like . . . I've felt passion, I've felt lust and desire . . . now, however, I feel all that, plus . . . something more. Something promising. That excites me as much as it scares me.

Selena, I'm glad you know how I feel. Des . . . well, you have insider information Thanks for keeping mum (for now).

Magica, Imp, Deb, Buxxom, Abs . . . You're all part of the Lit family. If and when the invitations are sent . . .

But I can't be the only one. Tell me who you're waiting for.

i wait with breathless anticipation every friday for my soulmate and he does for me. work keeps us apart during the week but the weekends are ours.
we've been together for nearly 25 years and we've been doing this for 17 of them - how we've survived i dont know but what i do know is that i love him more every day.

sometimes he gives me the shits, sometimes i want to scream and hit him, most times i want to curl up in his arms and just breathe in his smell and when we make love he becomes my very existence.

we really should get married...

 

[slyc_willie]

i wait with breathless anticipation every friday for my soulmate and he does for me. work keeps us apart during the week but the weekends are ours.
we've been together for nearly 25 years and we've been doing this for 17 of them - how we've survived i dont know but what i do know is that i love him more every day.

sometimes he gives me the shits, sometimes i want to scream and hit him, most times i want to curl up in his arms and just breathe in his smell and when we make love he becomes my very existence.

we really should get married...

So you should.

I wonder if my lady and I are to meet the same wonderful fate of union. I wonder if I really want to. I mean, I've been down the aisle. And it was not her fault -- it was no one's fault, though I blamed God for a while -- that she was taken from me.

If we are . . . and that is a serious 'If' right now . . . I don't know how I feel about that possibility. I just know that, as of now, I want her more than anything. And I don't see that changing.

 

[impressive]

Every conversation with her brings a new revelation. We learn more about one another every day. It's electric. It's addictive. I can't wait to talk to her again.

I'm not here to gloat, I just want to share. I'm glad that there are others on Lit who know of which I speak. Sharing the joy is no fun when you're the only one enjoying it. Which I am not, I know.

But, it's like . . . I've felt passion, I've felt lust and desire . . . now, however, I feel all that, plus . . . something more. Something promising. That excites me as much as it scares me.

Selena, I'm glad you know how I feel. Des . . . well, you have insider information Thanks for keeping mum (for now).

Magica, Imp, Deb, Sarahh, Buxxom, Abs . . . You're all part of the Lit family. If and when the invitations are sent . . .

But I can't be the only one. Tell me who you're waiting for.

And I'll be there -- with bells on (and nothing else, if it's that kinda wedding)



And, no, you're not the only one. I have experienced the feelings of which you speak.

 

[kiten69]

There is a woman in my life. A very special woman. We both have our pasts, we have our pains and tragedies. Between the two of us, I think, we could just about write the whole of human experience.

I am here to say that I accept her, and hope she accepts me. That, together, we will learn all we can about one another, and when all is revealed, we will understand it and move on. Grow together.

She is the woman I am waiting for. I am glad that she is real, and that we will be together again soon.

That's beautiful, sweets!

As for me. . .well we know who I'm waiting for.

 

[cloudy]

Politics, religion, semantics on the values of literature . . . we see a lot in this forum. I truly do love to see the play of it all, even if I do not always post.

This thread is about the most important things in life. Warmth. Comfort. The knowledge that there is someone who wants to be with you, someone who sees something in you that you, yourself, may not. It is about acceptance, about patience and understanding. Basic tenets that could be applied to any human endeavor.

There is a woman in my life. A very special woman. We both have our pasts, we have our pains and tragedies. Between the two of us, I think, we could just about write the whole of human experience.

I am here to say that I accept her, and hope she accepts me. That, together, we will learn all we can about one another, and when all is revealed, we will understand it and move on. Grow together.

She is the woman I am waiting for. I am glad that she is real, and that we will be together again soon.

I'm glad for you.

Like you, I'm sort of waiting, too. I know he wants me, but timing, children, all sorts of entanglements have to be worked out. But they will.

Best of luck.

 

[carsonshepherd]

It's wonderful to know that person is there, even if you have to wait.

Mine came along without my expecting it, or even wanting it. We tumbled into things much faster than our good sense was telling us. Logic was saying "wait, wait" but our hearts were saying "now, now." And we're grateful every day, because we help and uplift each other, and just being together makes everything feel all right.

 

[Vermilion]

It's wonderful to know that person is there, even if you have to wait.

Mine came along without my expecting it, or even wanting it. We tumbled into things much faster than our good sense was telling us. Logic was saying "wait, wait" but our hearts were saying "now, now." And we're grateful every day, because we help and uplift each other, and just being together makes everything feel all right.

Amen.

 

[MagicaPractica]

Every conversation with her brings a new revelation. We learn more about one another every day. It's electric. It's addictive. I can't wait to talk to her again...

But I can't be the only one. Tell me who you're waiting for.

I remember that feeling. Seems like forever though it was only last fall. I'm waiting for that feeling again but this time with someone who is available, not on a different path in his life. Though perhaps waiting is the wrong term, I'm looking.

 

[slyc_willie]

It's wonderful to know that person is there, even if you have to wait.

Mine came along without my expecting it, or even wanting it. We tumbled into things much faster than our good sense was telling us. Logic was saying "wait, wait" but our hearts were saying "now, now." And we're grateful every day, because we help and uplift each other, and just being together makes everything feel all right.

We're experiencing the exact same thing. We can't help but think about the future, and wanting it to be here. At the same time, we understand the value of not moving too fast. I've made mistakes with that in the past, and I definitely don't want to make a mistake this time.

 

[Vermilion]

you know... I'm kind of waiting for him to feel fully secure.

Every time we encounter a problem he seems to think I'm going to jack it all in and leave him... or that i ought to. I just want him to realise that me accepting that ring meant I'm going to stay. Good times and bad.

x
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[SimpleGifts]

Thanks for launching a thread on something truly meaningful & profound.

You are quite lucky to have her, but then, you know that...I wish you much joy and enlightenment through her.

I had that once...but had to let her go. I still wait for the day when we can be together. I don't think it will ever come...but the day still exists as a dream, as a hope, as a fantasy...and that alone is enough to help me to keep going. Even if she's not with me, even if she'll never be with me...the idea of her is enough. And no matter what...I know that part of my heart beats within hers, and always will, just as part of hers is in mine.

It's a wonderful thing...I'm glad you've found it.

SG