My stalker found a way to stalk me again

[Ms_Lilith]

I thought I had cut him off from all info about me, but somehow he's found a way to find my new yahoo ID, and he's just messaged me. This guy is a cop, and has threatened me and my family before, and he's being weird, as if I'd never yelled at him, and never told him off... what do I do?

 

[Guest]

 

[Ms_Lilith]

have done that.. he keeps creating ID's to talk to me

 

[Guest]

Yes. Do not respond. Ever. That gives him the power he seeks. Hopefully, then he will stop.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I hope so.. he scares the hell out of me. When he seemed normal, I met him once in person, and then he got all weird after that... and he reminds me so much of the guy that raped me.. they even have the same name...

 

[Azwed]

Change your privacy preferances so that only people on your contact list can message you. Then send an email to yahoo.

 

[Guest]

Gee here's an idea................report him to his superior officer.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Thank you, Azwed.. I didn't know I could do that.

 

[lobito]

last I heard, stalking of any kind is illegal. IF you are being stalked, adn you are in fear of any kind, call the police, and find out what's up.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

*curls into a ball*

I hate this. I just hate this. I'm afraid. I've deleted that profile, and I've deleted whatever else he knows, and I've modified everything so that he shouldn't be able to get to me.. but I'm still scared. He knows where I live.

 

[Guest]

Whoa. I didn't realize this was an offline issue as well. If he knows where you live and you are scared. Call the police.

 

[freakygirl]

on Yahoo there is a thing called Message Archives it saves all of your messeges.. make sure it is inabled.. so you have a "hard copy" of what he says to you.

Tell him the first time he messages you.. to leave you alone...tell him you will contact the authorities if he contacts you again.. then do it!

 

[lobito]

Re: *curls into a ball*

I hate this. I just hate this. I'm afraid. I've deleted that profile, and I've deleted whatever else he knows, and I've modified everything so that he shouldn't be able to get to me.. but I'm still scared. He knows where I live.

Um, hello!?!?! Police? I"M BEING STALKED(I think)

 

[Nathon_88]

RCMP?

Or Provincial?

RCMP, well.......he should have superiors, you have proof that he is stalking you, ergo, he should be jailed for abuse of authority.......

Provincial, pretty much the same, I THINK.....not too sure, my dad was RCMP.

 

[TWB]

Vixenshe, If you have met this guy, and he knows who you are, you really should talk to the police or the prosecutor in your city or county. If you live in the city he lives in, call the prosecutor of the county.

If he is stalking you, he is likely abusing his power as a cop and stalking others, too. Do yourself and everyone a favor and talk to someone. If you do not want to go to the police, find an attorney who deals with domestic or criminal law.

Don't put up with any shit.

TWB

 

[Ms_Lilith]

provincial. What really bothers me, is that he knows where my parents live, too. And he's nearer to them than I am.

 

[freakygirl]

I'm sorry for sounding rude.. but i have to ask.

Are you attempting to get attention? It's worked.. now go call the police..

 

[Nathon_88]

provincial. What really bothers me, is that he knows where my parents live, too. And he's nearer to them than I am.

So get his fucking ass arrested, and he can't do anything from within jail. Get a restraing order placed on him, explain to the judge that you fear he will also attempt to stalk your parents, and get one for them too.

The system is fucked up, but occasionally it works for us lowly civies too.

 

[glamorilla]

Yeah...All it takes is a simple call to your local authorities and an explaination of your situation and that should be enough to get you the information you'll need to know if this guy persists if he hasn't done enough already. It's very important to maintain your cool and set things up or it will prove very frustrating to you later to get things done quickly should the need arise. Stay strong and keep yourself safe and...call the police!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

no, wasn't trying to get attention, and have deleted more info on me from where he can get it, and have called the police. They asked for his name, I gave it, and they're like.. oh... that's not the first complaint.. so they took my name and asked some questions,a nd told me they'd get back to me.

 

[glamorilla]

I hope so.

*burns wiccan power candle for you*

 

[Nomad4112000]

Stalker

Vixen here is my advice. I don't know how the laws are in Canada but here it goes.
1st report this to the police so there is a record of it on file.
2nd If you fear for your life then do something about it if you don't he wins the battle. Learn to defend your self through hand to hand or a wepon. You may not like but the alternitve may be worse.
3rd If he does approch you you should be able to get a restraining order. If he breaks the restraining order he goes to prision.
4th and most important that you listen, if you DO NOT STAND UP FOR YOUR SELF HE WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR SHADOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You see he knows you are afraid of him thats why he is still around. Only a show of force will make him think twice that and a 9mm round buzzing next to his head. If you do injure him solong as it is on record that you have reported him it becomes self defence. Of course Canadian laws may be different in which I am speacking out my ass and ignore what I said.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Believe me, Nomad, I do know how to defend myself, but that doesn't erase fear. And for all of you who were wondering, the police said this wasn't the first complaint about him, and theyw ill call me back.

 

[Nomad4112000]

I can understand this I have been afraid also (Not for the same reasons though) But some happened to me one day and I said I had enough. Nobody has the right to make me afraid to leave my house and walk down the street. When this finally happened there was a change in me the people stopped bothering me but it took throwing 1 of them 6 feet through the air in to a cement wall and 4 of his freinds to hold me back. I wasn't that strong either I justed snapped. From that point on I stopped being afraid because I knew I could face my fears. Vixen Fear is fear it doesn't matter the reason only you can't let it control you. When you do you start to die inside. I have read your post you have a good heart I would hate to see any thing happen to it because of a piece of trash that isn't worth you time. It's hard I know but you have the courage I've read it.

 

[shynsexy]

Vix,

Damn girl..... this is so shitty! I know we have known eachother that long, but i feel like i do know a part of, the same things we have both been through.

I talked to my dad about this(hes a detective) and he said to gather all the messages if you still have them, and go personally to the police. a simple call wont do it, get a restraining order. make sure that its a very strict restraining order and include it to for your parents protection also. no one (especailly a cop) should be allowed to get away with this... good luck. I hope it helps. Y



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