my not so usual frustration

Um... has she explained the reasoning for not playing? Other than "I don't know where to start"?
 
Well, as a sub, you ARE there to comply with her wishes. And if her reasons make sense, and you can accept them, then fine.

On the other hand, no play does kind of obviate one of the major attractions of a sub for a Dom/me. And I don't know of any Dom/mes that don't enjoy playing with their toys.

So I'd start wondering whether she's as "switch" as she says she is, and in fact is actually submissive.
 
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