My first flogger

Vixandra

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Just got my very first flogger in the mail from a seller on Ebay and I could not honestly be more thrilled with it.
Won't get the chance to use it on anything more responsive then my couch for the time being, but just holding it... wow. Its hard to put into words.

The feel of it thrumping against the couch, the falls landing and the stark contrast between the black leather of the flogger and the beige pleather of the couch is just exquisit.

Was having a horrendously bad day (had to go in at my equivelant of 3am to do paperwork that someone should have told me was needed last week when I didn't have to work that day). Check the mail afterward, and its there, all wrapped tightly.

Pull it out and am amazed at the craftsmanship (or is that craftswomanship). Of course this was in the car so couldn't do much at the time. Hubby saw it and his eyes got wide with this 'wow, she's serious and that's so hot' look. Got home and beat the couch a bit just to get a feel for it.

Is there such a thing as Dom/me space? I've heard of subspace but not the dominant side of it. Had a flash of something, a feeling of utter peace and contentment between one fall of the leather and the next against the couch.

If anyone wants the seller's like, am more then happy post it.
 
Vixandra said:
Is there such a thing as Dom/me space? I've heard of subspace but not the dominant side of it. Had a flash of something, a feeling of utter peace and contentment between one fall of the leather and the next against the couch.

If anyone wants the seller's like, am more then happy post it.




Yes, yes there is. Incredible, isn't it? *smile*


I would like to know who the seller is, thanks!
 
It looks beautiful

Have you used it on Him yet and was it wonderful?
 
I'd love to find out the seller's name. If you don't want to post it in this thread, feel free to PM me with the name. Thanks.
 
The seller is Unownedbeauty from eBay, here's a link for her current auctions:
http://search.ebay.com/_W0QQfgtpZ1QQfrppZ25QQsassZunownedQ5fbeauty

And Shy- I've not used it on hubby. He's about as vanilla as the icecream and its just not something he'd enjoy. But he understands my kink and such.
There is too much, I will sum up- he's okay with me finding a sub/masochist to play with long as its female and he gets to meet her, etc.

Silverlily- thanks. May have to do some research on that now because I've honestly never heard of it before. Guess it doesn't get as much coverage.
 
Thanks Vixandra. I'm just waiting for my next paycheck so I can bid.
 
Vixandra said:
Is there such a thing as Dom/me space? I've heard of subspace but not the dominant side of it.

Think I've heard it called Topspace. The flogger is lovely, looks like money well spent, especially if you are enjoying it so much just using it on the couch!
 
Vixandra said:
Silverlily- thanks. May have to do some research on that now because I've honestly never heard of it before. Guess it doesn't get as much coverage.




I've never really heard or seen it anywhere either. Be that as it may, I've been there. It's not just an adrenaline rush or high, but a complete feeling of purity of being. The place where you are exactly as you should be.
 
I just paid for one of her floggers and should be getting it this week in the mail I hope. Thanks for letting us know about this seller on Ebay.
 
yes it is a wonderfull fealing. I have only been using mine for about three years now a drop in the hat so to speak compaired to other who have posted but I still remember the first time I used my homemade floger on C something I will never forget, and it just gets better with time.
 
Vixandra - nice one, congrats :D And pretty good choice too, the soft (at least that is how they look like) tails should be good for starting warm up and getting practice :)

Test on yourself first ;)


I like the design, but for my sadistic needs it is too soft one :catroar:
 
Oh that is a beauty... I have always found the best prices for sex toys there... :D :devil:
 
seaMaster said:
yes it is a wonderfull fealing. I have only been using mine for about three years now a drop in the hat so to speak compaired to other who have posted but I still remember the first time I used my homemade floger on C something I will never forget, and it just gets better with time.
Hello Master. I will never forget your first flogger either. Or the first time you made me fly. Humbly, kneeling begging for more. Yours submissively slave c
 
That is very nice looking flogger :)

I've gotten some good stuff on ebay as well. Especially my heavy quirt *drools*

I have two floggers, my favorite though is the heavier of the two. It's great for sensation play, hard flogging, tipping, etc. And it will leave whelts if the wielder wishes :heart: I saw it at PEP in Atlanta and had to have it.
 
snowy ciara said:
Dusty?



OMG.. It's Dusty!!!


running and pouncing and huggling and kissing

*catches a pouncing ciara, huggling and kissing her back* Hey, how are you? I'm back... finally lol. Things are finally settling down.
 
The flogger I ordered from this person at Ebay just showed up today. It's pretty nice. I'm not 100% happy with the color, but since this is my first flogger I figured I'd not make an issue of color. Later when I have a little more cash, I'll buy something in the exact color/style that I really want. I'm treating this flogger as my training flogger to get comfortable with and used to using before getting other floggers.
 
Heya Dusty :kiss:
Welcome back!


MastrJ- pretty much the same reason I bought mine. I've never used a flogger on someone before and figured I'd go with a relatively inexpensive one as a start to see if I even like them first before investing lots more cash in one to my exact specifications later on.
 
Vixandra said:
MastrJ- pretty much the same reason I bought mine. I've never used a flogger on someone before and figured I'd go with a relatively inexpensive one as a start to see if I even like them first before investing lots more cash in one to my exact specifications later on.


Glad to see I'm not the only person feeling the need to budget the amount spent on perversions. :D Now I just need to find a willing partner...
 
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