I've fantasised, and played a little with spanking, hair pulling etc with previous girlfriends, becoming surprised at the percentage of them that wanted to be treated roughly, or even expressed fantasies of being taken by force.
Originally I fantasied just as much, if not more about being on the recieving end of the spanking, and it's still something I'd like to experience, properly. However in the last week I've had my first experience as a dominant partner... it was fantastic, and has left me wanting more!
It was with someone I met online, we both knew what we were meeting for, emails had been sent back and forth teasing each other, and finding out about what we both wanted.
To put it simply, she wanted to be controlled, and spanked hard (if she was naughty), and I wanted to do that to her!
We met, had a couple of drinks a nice flowing easy chat, and then went back to hers...
After another, slightly more nervous and awkward drink, she told me that her impression of me was of a submissive, rather than a dominant, and even, that I could be gay, becasue of my soft spoken manner!
Later, I slowly made her strip, tied her hands behind her back, bent her over the bed, and made her bottom red and sore as we had both fantasied about, I also used my njoy stainless steel toys in her soaking pussy and arse (I have a large metal butt plug that she took inside)
We played for about 4 hours, which went very quickly and ended with a fuck before I had to catch the train home, I can still vividly hear the sound of her whimpers in my ear as I pinched and pulled her pierced nipples.
In 'real' life, I AM quite submissive, almost meek, probably sometimes too nice guy... so her first impression on me didn't surprise me. I have however definitely ignited a previously dormant side of me, and my god I'm hungry for more!!!
Smiling as I write this, and wondering how and when I'll get the chance to explore further.
Originally I fantasied just as much, if not more about being on the recieving end of the spanking, and it's still something I'd like to experience, properly. However in the last week I've had my first experience as a dominant partner... it was fantastic, and has left me wanting more!
It was with someone I met online, we both knew what we were meeting for, emails had been sent back and forth teasing each other, and finding out about what we both wanted.
To put it simply, she wanted to be controlled, and spanked hard (if she was naughty), and I wanted to do that to her!
We met, had a couple of drinks a nice flowing easy chat, and then went back to hers...
After another, slightly more nervous and awkward drink, she told me that her impression of me was of a submissive, rather than a dominant, and even, that I could be gay, becasue of my soft spoken manner!
Later, I slowly made her strip, tied her hands behind her back, bent her over the bed, and made her bottom red and sore as we had both fantasied about, I also used my njoy stainless steel toys in her soaking pussy and arse (I have a large metal butt plug that she took inside)
We played for about 4 hours, which went very quickly and ended with a fuck before I had to catch the train home, I can still vividly hear the sound of her whimpers in my ear as I pinched and pulled her pierced nipples.
In 'real' life, I AM quite submissive, almost meek, probably sometimes too nice guy... so her first impression on me didn't surprise me. I have however definitely ignited a previously dormant side of me, and my god I'm hungry for more!!!
Smiling as I write this, and wondering how and when I'll get the chance to explore further.
