My experience

[caution_ccw]

Let me start out by saying I am a 29 year old male, I am tall standing at 6ft 5in tall and I go about 235 muscular build. I work for the US goverment, and I am also a pro wrestler on the indy circut. One look at me and you would think I was a total dom. However I have had some experience as both, but perfer to be sub...I recently had a girl handcuff my hands behind my back, spank my ass, with hand and leather belt, drip hot wax on me, used clothes pins on my nips and balls. I really enjoyed it. And you wouldnt think by looking at me, He is a sub, but I can really get inot both roles, butr I prefer sub, depends on who I am with, and what they like. Makes it really hot. Well thats my 2 cents for the time being, take care all talk to you all soon. Peace.

 

[serijules]

Let me start out by saying I am a 29 year old male, I am tall standing at 6ft 5in tall and I go about 235 muscular build. I work for the US goverment, and I am also a pro wrestler on the indy circut. One look at me and you would think I was a total dom. However I have had some experience as both, but perfer to be sub...I recently had a girl handcuff my hands behind my back, spank my ass, with hand and leather belt, drip hot wax on me, used clothes pins on my nips and balls. I really enjoyed it. And you wouldnt think by looking at me, He is a sub, but I can really get inot both roles, butr I prefer sub, depends on who I am with, and what they like. Makes it really hot. Well thats my 2 cents for the time being, take care all talk to you all soon. Peace.

Looks have zero to do with if someone is submissive or dominant...heck, personality often isn't even an indication. With anyone other than my Domme or other dominant friends, I do not have a naturally submissive personality. I own a business, I'm very easily annoyed and not scared to show it (aka, a tad bitchy lol), etc. I wouldn't necessarily say I have a submissive personality, yet I am very much a submissive/slave when appropriate.

Most of the male subs I know are not skinny wimpy little guys. Some of the most solid dominants I know do not "look" the part. Looks have very little to do with the roles we choose. It doesn't make you any less of a man to be submissive.

I'm glad you've had some good experiences. Here's wishing you many more.

 

[Marquis]

I have categorized three groups of sub males from my experience at fetish clubs.

The bois, the losers and the alphas.

The bois are very skinny and dress and wear makeup like girls. They LOVE "forced" bi, if you catch my drift.

The losers look exceedingly like average joes, and walk around sniffing in the ass of ever Domme they come across. They put up with torture with pained looks on their faces but something tells me they haven't been this close to pussy since the last fetish party. Many of them are probably natural Doms gone awry in desperation.

The alphas are usually the best looking, tallest and best built guys in the club. They walk around looking very serious. They ignore the little vanilla girls that oggle at them ignorantly. They seek the attention of the dommes in dignified ways and the dommes often respond respectfully. These are the creme de la creme of the male sub world, and they are prized by dommes quite highly.

 

[Aeroil]

I have categorized three groups of sub males from my experience at fetish clubs.

The bois, the losers and the alphas.

The bois are very skinny and dress and wear makeup like girls. They LOVE "forced" bi, if you catch my drift.

The losers look exceedingly like average joes, and walk around sniffing in the ass of ever Domme they come across. They put up with torture with pained looks on their faces but something tells me they haven't been this close to pussy since the last fetish party. Many of them are probably natural Doms gone awry in desperation.

The alphas are usually the best looking, tallest and best built guys in the club. They walk around looking very serious. They ignore the little vanilla girls that oggle at them ignorantly. They seek the attention of the dommes in dignified ways and the dommes often respond respectfully. These are the creme de la creme of the male sub world, and they are prized by dommes quite highly.

*falls off chair laughing*

 

[sphynx's dragon]

<snickers for a moment at Aeroil>

But seriously caution, looks aren't anything. I'm about the same size as you, 6'4, 225 work for the government, and I'm about as damned subbie sub as it gets. Need a strong hand on my leash but I have NO interest in being in control. <shrug> It's about who you are...nothing else.

 

[Pandora23456]

YOU suck!

 

[Aeroil]

I always knew there was someone else you were getting freaking with besides me. And you accused me of fucking around! Unless you are that quick to replace me but I doubt it. 20 bucks says its that other girl you talked about who was too far from you.

Perhaps this would be a better topic of discussion for you two in a PM, not in the forums....

 

[sphynx's dragon]

Perhaps this would be a better topic of discussion for you two in a PM, not in the forums....

Hmmmm....maybe

 

[Marquis]

I always knew there was someone else you were getting freaking with besides me. And you accused me of fucking around! Unless you are that quick to replace me but I doubt it. 20 bucks says its that other girl you talked about who was too far from you.

He told me he found a used condom in your car bitch! Now you're gonna complain about this shit!

 

[caution_ccw]

I always knew there was someone else you were getting freaking with besides me. And you accused me of fucking around! Unless you are that quick to replace me but I doubt it. 20 bucks says its that other girl you talked about who was too far from you.

Actually, I was talking about you, however I wasnt going to say names, but I was talking about you and I was also talking about the other exp. before you, however you jump to to many conclusions. My name isnt SGT. Groizer, thank you so much for putting me in to his level of play. And no I wasnt so quick to replace you. I just wanted to share my experiences, and you know what they are from talking about them. Again I think you have me confused with other people who have walked on you in the past and if you would contact me I would be more then happy to talk to you about it.

 

[Pandora23456]

YOU suck!

 

[arctic-stranger]

<snickers for a moment at Aeroil>

But seriously caution, looks aren't anything. I'm about the same size as you, 6'4, 225 work for the government, and I'm about as damned subbie sub as it gets. Need a strong hand on my leash but I have NO interest in being in control. <shrug> It's about who you are...nothing else.

So true. I am 5'6", and 160, about four inches shorter and a few pounds shy of the French Girl. I dont work for the government, and i enjoy reading and opera.

And spanking the French Girl.

 

[Rubyb]

Ruby yells "NEXT!"

caution_ccw, congrats on discovering what you enjoy. "Size" isn't everything.

Now that the cranky woman has left the room, you are open to find a kind, loving, caring domme. To your success.

arctic-stranger The French Girl must love you and your sense of humor.

 

[Marquis]

Whatever you are worse than Grozier. He lied from the start and still lies to me. You on the other hand thought I was fucking around when I told you I wanted you. And now since you know I am mad you want to still blame me because you think I am jugding you like every other guy. Well you weren't like them. You were open and truthful. But to accuse me of fucking around because of our schedules were not working out together. That is low. And I would never call you again. I lost your number. I wasted my time with you. You want to treat me like every other girl that fucked you over. I am done now. Have a nice life and I hope you find a girl you can trust. Don't call me and I won't call you.

Just give the man a call!

You're making a total ass of yourself!

 

[rosco rathbone]

bwahahahaha

 

[A Desert Rose]

... Now that the cranky woman has left the room, you are open to find a kind, loving, caring domme. To your success.

Personally, I love this kind of shit. Nothing like watching a drama queen at his/her best.

 

[crimsonlace]

Personally, I love this kind of shit. Nothing like watching a drama queen at his/her best.

Me too! And this one is really good!

ADR, pass the popcorn, will ya?

 

[caution_ccw]

Drama sums it up quite well, i never intended for this thread to turn out like that, and the exp. I talked about, came from the person who said the drama. But I am not all about drama, I think I fell into some shit, or some shit fell onto me. Anyway Peace out .

 

[Pandora23456]

YOU suck!

 

[Aeroil]

You fucked it up. Not me. And I never did all those things with you. Like I said before its this other girl you must have. Seeing as you think I have another man. I can't believe the time I wasted on you. And to think I cared about you. You never cared about me. And you haven't seen drama from me yet. If you did I would be at your place kicking your ass for what you said to me but I know you would enjoy that too much.

hehehe

 

[caution_ccw]

I cant belive this! I come on here to share an experience and someone has to cry the blues and use my post for there drama. I am not using this to get you back, I just thought we could talk like adults, but that went out the door a long time ago, and I never accused you of being with anyone, I said it in jest, to bad you dont know how to take a joke. I feel bad for you that you just dont know how to let things die. This post wasnt meat for you, or to casue had feelings, or anything as such, but you take it anyway you want. Fact of the matter is I dont like to air my dirty laundry but now its aired for all to see, and I quite frankly dont give a damn. Just by reading the post here, these people can see what kind of freak show you really are and how much better off I am with out you. Not that I really had you, I mean Yea, I was there for you when you had your little AIDS scare, I was there for that, wasnt I? But the bad always overtake the good, and thats all you hear about and then you go all psyco, I dont need the drama I am 29 years old I am not in fucking 11th grade anymore.. And I sure as hell dont need a long drawen post on here because of you and your mis-understandings and stupid assumpitions. And i dont need you stalking my posts I leave on here, get over it the world dosent revolve around you, since you want to play games and go all psyco on message boards for christ sake.

 

[Aeroil]

Don't feed the trolls man, that's the first rule of forum-ing.
Although it can be rather amusing at times......

 

[snowy ciara]

Personally, I love this kind of shit. Nothing like watching a drama queen at his/her best.

I've never been into soaps myself, but my Spanish prof suggested watching Telemundo and such to get the "sound" in our ears. This is like watching a Telemundo soap in English!

Hey Sexy ADR, this spot taken? I got some reese's that I'll share....

 

[Pandora23456]

I cant belive this! I come on here to share an experience and someone has to cry the blues and use my post for there drama. I am not using this to get you back, I just thought we could talk like adults, but that went out the door a long time ago, and I never accused you of being with anyone, I said it in jest, to bad you dont know how to take a joke. I feel bad for you that you just dont know how to let things die. This post wasnt meat for you, or to casue had feelings, or anything as such, but you take it anyway you want. Fact of the matter is I dont like to air my dirty laundry but now its aired for all to see, and I quite frankly dont give a damn. Just by reading the post here, these people can see what kind of freak show you really are and how much better off I am with out you. Not that I really had you, I mean Yea, I was there for you when you had your little AIDS scare, I was there for that, wasnt I? But the bad always overtake the good, and thats all you hear about and then you go all psyco, I dont need the drama I am 29 years old I am not in fucking 11th grade anymore.. And I sure as hell dont need a long drawen post on here because of you and your mis-understandings and stupid assumpitions. And i dont need you stalking my posts I leave on here, get over it the world dosent revolve around you, since you want to play games and go all psyco on message boards for christ sake.

Cause I trusted you and you fucking played me. Treated me like a whore by saying I was with someone else cause time didn't work out for us. I aired out a mild thing that has pissed me off. Can't believe you would say shit like this. I loved you! Wanted to be with you. And you have to keep saying things about me being with someone else and acting like I didn't want you. Well fine. BYE!

 

[caution_ccw]

PSYCO.... can we say P S Y C O..... No one ever played you, playing someone involves cheating, and working the hours I work, I dont have time to cheat, let alone be fucking around, 2ndly dont ever call my cell at 4am again!!!!! I cant help it you took this, turned it to this level and boooom expect me to sit down forgive you, we are adults even though some of us.... khemmmm. YOU dont fucking act like it. Stop leaving petty little worthless posts here and act like a fucking adult for once in your life. How old are you again? Waait whats that did you say 24... ok then ACT IT.

Cause I trusted you and you fucking played me. Treated me like a whore by saying I was with someone else cause time didn't work out for us. I aired out a mild thing that has pissed me off. Can't believe you would say shit like this. I loved you! Wanted to be with you. And you have to keep saying things about me being with someone else and acting like I didn't want you. Well fine. BYE!