More curiosity about something random with PICs

[hotoldrguy]

To all those who post PICS and those thinking about posting, what type of nude pic of yourself are you not comfortable with and why?

 

[hotoldrguy]

I was just thinking the one I have issue with is my stomach and then realized I did not put it in the poll.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

To all those who post PICS and those thinking about posting, what type of nude pic of yourself are you not comfortable with and why?

Full nude with face, head to toe, is what I am least comfortable with.

First, I want makeup as I am not comfortable with face shots minus at least my eyeliner, and preferable would rather just have my full weekday makeup. Then the biggest issue is that it is just hard to find angles that work well because different angles work better for different body parts, and my whole body won't agree on one. Yes, the chubby belly is indeed an issue on that front, the ass does't help either, there are several things that don't cooperate. Then if an angle is found, trying to find someplace to prop a phone at that angle, because you can't hold the phone and get a full nude shot. I can barely get my tits in a shot while holding the phone.

That distance between where I need to be in relation to where the phone needs to be is magnified because there is only a 10 second timer, and the phone is likely weirdly balanced in some silly place for a decent angle. This can be made worse by not being completely nude but instead, rocking some awful pair of heels forged in the depths of hell by Satan himself. Then the wider shot needed for full nude also picks up more background clutter, so now I am nude, in makeup, and heels, which hurt my feet, deciding if I have the time to clean first, which I don't even want to do hence the clutter existing, and don't have the time, because odds are high that someone will want something in a minute or two, and come looking for me, and I can't be nude, wearing makeup, in heels, with my phone strapped to my ceiling fan, and have a good explanation for all that.

Thus, it is virtually impossible to get a decent nude head to toe shot, and why I am the least comfortable with them, so I rarely do them. And that is my overshare for the day. Hey, you asked.

TLDR. Nude with face, why? makeup, angles, belly, clutter, time, just too difficult to get a decent shot.

 

[oldnotdead47]

There is rarely a quick answer from Rach.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Full nude with face, head to toe, is what I am least comfortable with.

First, I want makeup as I am not comfortable with face shots minus at least my eyeliner, and preferable would rather just have my full weekday makeup. Then the biggest issue is that it is just hard to find angles that work well because different angles work better for different body parts, and my whole body won't agree on one. Yes, the chubby belly is indeed an issue on that front, the ass does't help either, there are several things that don't cooperate. Then if an angle is found, trying to find someplace to prop a phone at that angle, because you can't hold the phone and get a full nude shot. I can barely get my tits in a shot while holding the phone.

That distance between where I need to be in relation to where the phone needs to be is magnified because there is only a 10 second timer, and the phone is likely weirdly balanced in some silly place for a decent angle. This can be made worse by not being completely nude but instead, rocking some awful pair of heels forged in the depths of hell by Satan himself. Then the wider shot needed for full nude also picks up more background clutter, so now I am nude, in makeup, and heels, which hurt my feet, deciding if I have the time to clean first, which I don't even want to do hence the clutter existing, and don't have the time, because odds are high that someone will want something in a minute or two, and come looking for me, and I can't be nude, wearing makeup, in heels, with my phone strapped to my ceiling fan, and have a good explanation for all that.

Thus, it is virtually impossible to get a decent nude head to toe shot, and why I am the least comfortable with them, so I rarely do them. And that is my overshare for the day. Hey, you asked.

TLDR. Nude with face, why? makeup, angles, belly, clutter, time, just too difficult to get a decent shot.

HAHA! I love this answer!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

There is rarely a quick answer from Rach.

Not when someone asks "why?". Well unless it is "what was the last thing you bought and why?". High odds the answer includes because whatever was on sale.

HAHA! I love this answer!

Sounds like someone has mounted a camera to the ceiling fan above his bed or is now considering it lol. Of course, now I ruined the mystery of all the above my bed images and videos. Yes, belts and ceiling fan.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Sounds like someone has mounted a camera to the ceiling fan above his bed or is now considering it lol. Of course, now I ruined the mystery of all the above my bed images and videos. Yes, belts and ceiling fan.

Someone may or may not have thought about it. But someone does not have a ceiling fan.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Sounds like someone has mounted a camera to the ceiling fan above his bed or is now considering it lol. Of course, now I ruined the mystery of all the above my bed images and videos. Yes, belts and ceiling fan.

haha I have a Canopy bed. I've attached my phone to it many times. But never liked the angle.
Selfie sticks for me. And yes. That pathetic 10 second timer.


Worst pictures for me. Whole naked body in one. Genitals next. I don't post pussy on here. I've teased it. But never posted the full view.
Those full body shots are hard to get good angles like Justa said.

 

[Micio_Lambire]

I voted ass mostly cus I don't have much of one and it's not my best feature in my own opinion. And spread ass is most definitely a no although I've had requests for that before cus well it just makes me uncomfortable and that's enough for me.

I love Justa's answer though cus it's sooo fucking true! Angles and features and phones and outfits and backgrounds. Some folks do not realize just what goes into getting the "perfect" picture and by perfect I mean to ME lol. I take a ton and decide on maybe 10? And then it goes from there. And that's just one outfit, lol.

 

[Beth87]

i voted my hard no's which is full nude in any variety. but to be honest i prefer highly cropped/angled shots to work around all the parts i hate

 

[hotoldrguy]

I would have an issue with full nude with face. Would also like to shoot around my COVID belly...LOL

 

[occasional_lovers]

I would never post a pic of my face. I also avoid uploading photos taken in settings that could help someone identify me.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I will never post my face - ever. And I'm an average guy, so let's be real - no one would be happy to see me without clothing.

I have read where ladies don't feel comfortable showing close-ups of their genitals, but I know I'm not alone when I say there is a large audience of people that want nothing more than close ups. The more graphic the vulva picture, the better to me; it's my favorite part of the female body.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with "average"



The One and only time you'll find me having an ego about any part of my body.. My Vagina. I never knew there was pretty vaginas before being on Lit. I guess no different then dicks. Some are pretty. Some are not so pretty. But they all have their good points.
Anyway..When I had my own picture thread. I discovered that many guys would push and push for you to post more. I discovered that for those that did post pussy shots, after they did. Rarely did the men seem to want "normal" pictures again. (Generalizing here.. Of course not all men are the same) But there is nothing that tops the pussy picture, until you move onto videos. The more skin you showed, the more guys wanted to see.
Many left when they found out I wasn't going to post pussy, they moved onto either newbies they could push to post more. or the women who were already posting that.
For me. I just discovered that because I am rather fond of my own Vagina. Not everyone deserved to see it. So I kept it private. I don't feel like showing it to every guy who wants to look at it, admire it .. Long enough to cum. Then move onto whomever is next to post theirs. That may sound cold. But It is the one body part that I will hold as special.
Tits are tits.. They are just fat.. I happen to have a lot of that. I'm not sure that is something to brag about. I have enough ass for 3 people.. So it's just a whole lotta ass to me.
But.. My Vagina.. Well she's pretty.

 

[hotoldrguy]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with "average"



The One and only time you'll find me having an ego about any part of my body.. My Vagina. I never knew there was pretty vaginas before being on Lit. I guess no different then dicks. Some are pretty. Some are not so pretty. But they all have their good points.
Anyway..When I had my own picture thread. I discovered that many guys would push and push for you to post more. I discovered that for those that did post pussy shots, after they did. Rarely did the men seem to want "normal" pictures again. (Generalizing here.. Of course not all men are the same) But there is nothing that tops the pussy picture, until you move onto videos. The more skin you showed, the more guys wanted to see.
Many left when they found out I wasn't going to post pussy, they moved onto either newbies they could push to post more. or the women who were already posting that.
For me. I just discovered that because I am rather fond of my own Vagina. Not everyone deserved to see it. So I kept it private. I don't feel like showing it to every guy who wants to look at it, admire it .. Long enough to cum. Then move onto whomever is next to post theirs. That may sound cold. But It is the one body part that I will hold as special.
Tits are tits.. They are just fat.. I happen to have a lot of that. I'm not sure that is something to brag about. I have enough ass for 3 people.. So it's just a whole lotta ass to me.
But.. My Vagina.. Well she's pretty.

I always loved the PICs you chose to share. No one should put pressure on anyone for more. It is like being given a gift and demanding another one.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I'm glad you're fond of your own! And no one here, or anywhere else, has a right to what 'isn't theirs' or to pressure for anything. I speak for no one but myself, but I do find the middle ground between positive reinforcement and being pushy a nearly impossible line to find. This being the virtual arena it is, there's so much lost on the screen that's hard to decipher. Even with this, I'm afraid I sound defensive, which I'm not trying to be. See what I mean?

There is definitely a progression most men try to continue down, you are absolutely correct. We always want more. I can only apologize for my y chromosome.

But hey, if you ever feel like showing off your pretty vagina, you know where to find me!

No you sounded fine. No worries And thanks. I'll remember that lol

I always loved the PICs you chose to share. No one should put pressure on anyone for more. It is like being given a gift and demanding another one.

I appreciate that. But it's one of the reasons I stopped my thread. There are times I miss having my own place to post. But I don't post as much anymore, so I guess it's okay. But that is the perfect example!!

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I voted full nude with face and genitals. I have posted one such pic, coming out of the shower, non-erect dick in hand (don't look; its long gone). Why? Meh. I am a big fat hairy guy, trying to get more comfortable with my big fat hairy body and incredibly average penis. I post pics for my amusement. I get some encouraging comments (thank you) but nobody is begging for more (well, just once: a pic of me rolling up my sleeves got an ask for more).

Justa: your post is eloquent and makes perfect sense. Sort of. I'm still laughing about the image of you, naked in heels forged in the depths of Hell by Satan himself with your cam on the ceiling fan, which then starts and auto-exposes twenty pics....

Sassy, three things: "Pretty vagina" is a myth like "perfect breasts" which I believe was brought to us by Plastic Surgeons. I have never seen one I didn't like, and looking at one has never caused me to lose an erection. Having said that, post what you're comfortable with because my only complaint would be "not enough". And you know what I want to see

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

haha I have a Canopy bed. I've attached my phone to it many times. But never liked the angle.
Selfie sticks for me. And yes. That pathetic 10 second timer.


Worst pictures for me. Whole naked body in one. Genitals next. I don't post pussy on here. I've teased it. But never posted the full view.
Those full body shots are hard to get good angles like Justa said.

oh, a canopy bed would be so much easier. I still do not own a selfie stick surprisingly. But I now have several clamp mounts.

I voted ass mostly cus I don't have much of one and it's not my best feature in my own opinion. And spread ass is most definitely a no although I've had requests for that before cus well it just makes me uncomfortable and that's enough for me.

I love Justa's answer though cus it's sooo fucking true! Angles and features and phones and outfits and backgrounds. Some folks do not realize just what goes into getting the "perfect" picture and by perfect I mean to ME lol. I take a ton and decide on maybe 10? And then it goes from there. And that's just one outfit, lol.

I am glad it isn't just me who has these struggles.

I will never post my face - ever. And I'm an average guy, so let's be real - no one would be happy to see me without clothing.

I have read where ladies don't feel comfortable showing close-ups of their genitals, but I know I'm not alone when I say there is a large audience of people that want nothing more than close ups. The more graphic the vulva picture, the better to me; it's my favorite part of the female body.

Most of us are average here. That is what makes lit ampics better than the hip sites with the young people lol.

Now, I think discomfort is part of all images at first. I think the only women who come here and post comfortably right out of the gate are those with a monetary focus. They are trying to grow their pornhub or onlyfans subscriptions. Why here? I have no idea, I'd think reddit would generate more traffic. I know I had a pattern of escalation and still do. It may have been more rapid than some because I personally enjoy the discomfort and the feeling of going past my comfort level, but most do have an escalation.

The odd thing is both my enjoyment and discomfort are based on the impropriety of it all. Those type of images feel too "improper", not because of the look of my vulva. Some of the more vulgar pictures and videos were shared with one or a limited number of people, because they were just too "improper" for a general lit audience. Then I leak them occasionally because of wanting to feel uncomfortable and I care less about being too far over the line at that moment.

I wonder how many are not comfortable with the close ups like that versus how many are not comfortable being the kind of gal who would publicly share close ups like that. I find the later is harder to get past. Is this too far over the line is a though that runs through my head often.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with "average"



The One and only time you'll find me having an ego about any part of my body.. My Vagina. I never knew there was pretty vaginas before being on Lit. I guess no different then dicks. Some are pretty. Some are not so pretty. But they all have their good points.
Anyway..When I had my own picture thread. I discovered that many guys would push and push for you to post more. I discovered that for those that did post pussy shots, after they did. Rarely did the men seem to want "normal" pictures again. (Generalizing here.. Of course not all men are the same) But there is nothing that tops the pussy picture, until you move onto videos. The more skin you showed, the more guys wanted to see.
Many left when they found out I wasn't going to post pussy, they moved onto either newbies they could push to post more. or the women who were already posting that.
For me. I just discovered that because I am rather fond of my own Vagina. Not everyone deserved to see it. So I kept it private. I don't feel like showing it to every guy who wants to look at it, admire it .. Long enough to cum. Then move onto whomever is next to post theirs. That may sound cold. But It is the one body part that I will hold as special.
Tits are tits.. They are just fat.. I happen to have a lot of that. I'm not sure that is something to brag about. I have enough ass for 3 people.. So it's just a whole lotta ass to me.
But.. My Vagina.. Well she's pretty.

Interesting. I have not noticed that about the voyeurs here. Not saying I disagree, just that I don't notice. I actually find myself wondering what the male voyeurs of lit want to see, and having very little answers.

more importantly, what makes a dick or vagina pretty anyway. Like as far as as everything else, there is a more standard definition that fit a majority of ideals.
Body: thin, toned, smooth skin, hourglass base, youthful.
Face: thin, smooth skin, larger eyes, youthful, smaller nose, more triangle bone structure, highly symmetrical.

As for pretty genitalia, I am at a loss on what is pretty.

I voted full nude with face and genitals. I have posted one such pic, coming out of the shower, non-erect dick in hand (don't look; its long gone). Why? Meh. I am a big fat hairy guy, trying to get more comfortable with my big fat hairy body and incredibly average penis. I post pics for my amusement. I get some encouraging comments (thank you) but nobody is begging for more (well, just once: a pic of me rolling up my sleeves got an ask for more).

Justa: your post is eloquent and makes perfect sense. Sort of. I'm still laughing about the image of you, naked in heels forged in the depths of Hell by Satan himself with your cam on the ceiling fan, which then starts and auto-exposes twenty pics....

Sassy, three things: "Pretty vagina" is a myth like "perfect breasts" which I believe was brought to us by Plastic Surgeons. I have never seen one I didn't like, and looking at one has never caused me to lose an erection. Having said that, post what you're comfortable with because my only complaint would be "not enough". And you know what I want to see

well maybe next time, I will just shoot a video, use screenshots for the images, and send you the making of video so you can laugh with the reality, rather than just imagining the reality.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Interesting. I have not noticed that about the voyeurs here. Not saying I disagree, just that I don't notice. I actually find myself wondering what the male voyeurs of lit want to see, and having very little answers.

more importantly, what makes a dick or vagina pretty anyway. Like as far as as everything else, there is a more standard definition that fit a majority of ideals.
Body: thin, toned, smooth skin, hourglass base, youthful.
Face: thin, smooth skin, larger eyes, youthful, smaller nose, more triangle bone structure, highly symmetrical.

As for pretty genitalia, I am at a loss on what is pretty.

It has been almost 6 years now since I let go of my thread also. Things could be very different. I don't really go into a lot of threads anymore like I used to.

What is "pretty" is like everything. In the eyes of the pervy voyeur

We all have different tastes and likes, and truth be told. As I get older. I appreciate personality so much more than the physical. When it comes to Physical. I can appreciate it all. I'm full of flaws and I'm totally out of the stereotype for what is beautiful. But here, everyone can find beauty.

I think the difference between being an average guy vs average gal is the intended audience. Men are typically more responsive to visual stimuli than women, so women usually don't admire images of men as much as men admire women. Sending a dick pic is a big no-no and never done without prior consent, but I literally can't think of a time I was upset to have a vagina pic sent to me. Basically, I think an average woman will garner a much more enthusiastic following than an average man.

I understand the thrill of being improper. I get a kick out of shocking people by my sexual knowledge, interests, and (far too few for my preference) escapades. Adrenaline is a sexy drug to me. I don't think you could possibly cross a line, as a woman, with the audience on Lit. The mods may be pissed, but the guys won't be.

Male voyeurs want to see whatever we can, but we all have our preferences.

You are correct in your average women vs men.. This is true.

It is harder for guys to grab attention with pictures. I can only speak for myself. I don't go in a lot of threads anymore, but often times, the ones I do comment on are... Did the guy just pull his pants down and snap a picture, or did he actually try a little?
I like guys who interact. Have a sense of humor, appreciate the comments they get, don't pick and chose to only reply to the hot/popular women.
I keep my PMs off for the most part. So most of the time, what is said or done in public, is my interactions. So I enjoy the ones who aren't afraid to interact in public.

Over all. Yes. Men do have to try harder though. Which is sad. I think guys also forget some of the odd things women find attractive. Effort goes a long ways.

 

[hotoldrguy]

bumping cuz inquiring minds want to know

 

[GabbyDebarres]

I'm comfortable posting pics of myself nude or not but I draw the line with my full face. Like occasional_lovers said above, I don't need anyone trying to identify me.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I'm comfortable posting pics of myself nude or not but I draw the line with my full face. Like occasional_lovers said above, I don't need anyone trying to identify me.

I agree. It isn't worth the risk.

 

[LonRivers]

To all those who post PICS and those thinking about posting, what type of nude pic of yourself are you not comfortable with and why?

I will never post a pic that shows my face. A partial maybe, but never a full shot. Those are reserved for my close friends who I swap photos with that I know personally. I also probably won't post my ass. I don't think that I have a nice ass...lol

 

[hotoldrguy]

I will post most anything. Even some partial face but not full face.

 

[hotoldrguy]

bumping cuz enquiring minds want to know