Moochie’s Musings (and a pic or two)

[ohverbatum7]

Will you be my distraction?

The answer is yes, although I am getting the better deal.

 

[Shyguy1369]

Will you be my distraction?
Pull me away from the negative
Don’t let me dig my hole
Deeper into the ground
And let me dig deeper
Into us.
Into what we mean
And what you need
And how we lust and hunger
For a day in the future
Together.

Wil you be my distraction?
Take me far away yet keep me here
Put me in a better mindset
One that makes me want to be
But not without you.
Let’s talk about anything
And about nothing
And about touching
And about how we lust and hunger
For a day in the future
Together.

Udon noodles
Venison
Wheat
Xia jiao
Yucca
...
Z

Oh how I would love to be your distraction.
To make you forget all about the hole.
To pull lift you up and bring you joy.
I would love to make you feel as special as I think you are.
You are so amazing and sweet and kind.
I definitely enjoy your posts, your pics and your thoughts.
Please know that this old man is very enthralled by you.

I sit here after 6 glasses of Jameson, Ginger & Lime and wish I could make you feel like the happiest woman in the world. I wish you know that every day you put a smile on my face, and that you are cherished.

((HUGGLES))

 

[heathrowinneo]

Will you be my distraction?
Pull me away from the negative
Don’t let me dig my hole
Deeper into the ground
And let me dig deeper
Into us.
Into what we mean
And what you need
And how we lust and hunger
For a day in the future
Together.

Wil you be my distraction?
Take me far away yet keep me here
Put me in a better mindset
One that makes me want to be
But not without you.
Let’s talk about anything
And about nothing
And about touching
And about how we lust and hunger
For a day in the future
Together.

Udon noodles
Venison
Wheat
Xia jiao
Yucca
...
Z

great work, food for thought and the answer is yes

 

[Awaywego]

Moochie

As weird as it sounds, I needed your week. Thank you for "Holding on" that helped me push through a tough week. A revel in how piercing the words are in my head. As you I found time to mediate the world around:

I am watching, seeing little
Ears hear so much but process the slightest
My skin feels the air around dry and cold
It seeps into my essence.

I am whole yet pieces each day
Different
Yet each day the same.

Water soothes my soul, laps
Some slow almost motionless
Other rapid and frenetic, I finish
Let sauna steam and boil the last
Of me for the day.

Weekend, Whisky, wind and water
Why yes ma'am I will Old Fashioned with Makers
Warms me, soothes me
Lets me think, slower, calmer
I hear and see you in my thoughts
Only the winds and waves around to hear
Me want you, she does not.

I am not sure why I wrote this now, but something about your words, week, Basil and bath just spoke to me. Thanks!

 

[Moochienanu]

The best musings, with a pic or two, in this place! Happy Friday

So flattered you think so! Thank you. *blows kiss*

Sorry I’ve been missing for a few days, I have been reading but not got around to commenting.

Is the skin damaged or just painful underneath your foot. I have plantar facilitus commonly known as policeman’s foot over here. A common complaint if you are on your feet a lot and walk many miles as part of a job. I tried a range of things including massage etc but in the end I was prescribed a pair of orthotic insoles through a podiatrist. Took several weeks and all the pain has gone.

Sadly, this isn’t plantar fasciitis. I have what looks like a blood blister which has formed due to possible trauma under a callous I have had for years. To keep things less graphic, let’s just say it looks like it hurts and it hurts like a Sonofabitch.

As far as not commenting for a few days, I can be hard to keep up with sometimes. My mind moves quickly and sometimes that’s a good thing and sometimes a bad... just don’t stop saying hi in whatever way you can, because I worry if I don’t hear from you.

What are, “Things that I’m allergic to”?

Hope your foot improves quickly. If it’s plantar fasciitis like Todger mentioned, try rolling it on a tennis ball for a while. It’s a temporary fix, but it’s helped me in the past.

*makes the “wrong” buzzer noise* not quite... it would be so sad to be allergic to udon. They’re the best for slurping... maybe that’s for lunch today...

 

[Moochienanu]

Zander (Obscure like Pandan and known as Pike-Perch. P's for everyone).

Cheers

The correct answer was either “Zabaglione” or “Zucchini” according to the subject... but your contribution makes me happy. I plan to leave it without due to it’s taunting nature... my goals make little sense, but I still strive for them.

 

[Moochienanu]

Who would have thought bum cheeks could be said in so many seductive ways. If it didn't get me off at least it gave me a broad contented grin, and you have such a sexy voice, I could listen to it from now until bedtime.

I’m glad to provide you with a little something that gives you such a grin.

Bum cheeks.


*giggles*

 

[Willingtoshare]

*waves hi and giggles at bum cheeks!

 

[Moochienanu]

Will you be my distraction?

The answer is yes, although I am getting the better deal.

Who gets the better deal is always up for debate... *smirk*

Oh how I would love to be your distraction.
To make you forget all about the hole.
To pull lift you up and bring you joy.
I would love to make you feel as special as I think you are.
You are so amazing and sweet and kind.
I definitely enjoy your posts, your pics and your thoughts.
Please know that this old man is very enthralled by you.

I sit here after 6 glasses of Jameson, Ginger & Lime and wish I could make you feel like the happiest woman in the world. I wish you know that every day you put a smile on my face, and that you are cherished.

((HUGGLES))

That is a lot of Jameson (yum). Thank you for your sweet words of encouragement. Sometimes I get so bogged down in my negatives that hearing about the positive ways I affect others is a nice reminder that it’s not all bad. *sending hugs your way*

great work, food for thought and the answer is yes

Thank you. Yes, definitely foods for thought.

As weird as it sounds, I needed your week. Thank you for "Holding on" that helped me push through a tough week. A revel in how piercing the words are in my head. As you I found time to mediate the world around:

I am watching, seeing little
Ears hear so much but process the slightest
My skin feels the air around dry and cold
It seeps into my essence.

I am whole yet pieces each day
Different
Yet each day the same.

Water soothes my soul, laps
Some slow almost motionless
Other rapid and frenetic, I finish
Let sauna steam and boil the last
Of me for the day.

Weekend, Whisky, wind and water
Why yes ma'am I will Old Fashioned with Makers
Warms me, soothes me
Lets me think, slower, calmer
I hear and see you in my thoughts
Only the winds and waves around to hear
Me want you, she does not.

I am not sure why I wrote this now, but something about your words, week, Basil and bath just spoke to me. Thanks!

I’m glad my struggle could help you this week. I appreciate your poem. Thank you for putting it here for me. It feels raw and exposed. Old Fashioned is my sister’s favorite. Her husband often makes them for me when I visit her.

 

[Moochienanu]

*waves hi and giggles at bum cheeks!

*waves hi back and shows some bum cheek*

 

[Willingtoshare]

*waves hi back and shows some bum cheek*

*gulps and stares open mouthed at said bum cheeks!

 

[Moochienanu]

Great news! Finally had the nerve to poke the blister... feeling better already!

I’ve been in lounge clothes the last two days because who goes out when they can’t walk?!

Today, I’m getting dressed to the nines to go get a coffee... because I fucking feel like it.

*blows kisses*

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[Willingtoshare]

Enjoy your coffee whilst I enjoy the view.

 

[Moochienanu]

There’s something that’s been bothering me...

And maybe it’s just because it happened in another thread and I shouldn’t hold other commenters to as high of a standard as I do you all... maybe I did react on a hair-trigger because I’ve been in pain, thus a bit on the bratty side, and I just felt like pointing out the obvious... I thought I was pretty kind about the whole thing, but then I got a passive-aggressive bullshit reply back from him in thread. I’m sorry, but I don’t need anyone’s compliments (okay, maybe yours because I really like you and I want to know that you think I’m sexy and that my voice when I cum makes you want to be here with me... that kind of compliment is one I am going to need to know). I post for me. I say it in my very first post in this thread: I am here for me. In my reply to him, I even pointed out that I caught his attempt at alliteration (which I really like almost as much as pallendromes) and appreciated it. I don’t know if I should even attempt a reply to his snarky comeback because should I dig this hole deeper?

 

[Todger65]

Sadly, this isn’t plantar fasciitis. I have what looks like a blood blister which has formed due to possible trauma under a callous I have had for years. To keep things less graphic, let’s just say it looks like it hurts and it hurts like a Sonofabitch.

As far as not commenting for a few days, I can be hard to keep up with sometimes. My mind moves quickly and sometimes that’s a good thing and sometimes a bad... just don’t stop saying hi in whatever way you can, because I worry if I don’t hear from you.

Sorry about your foot. What you have is far worse than plantar. Have you seen a podiatrist about it, I’m sure there are things they can do to remove the callous once the blister is reduced.

It pleases me that you worry if I don’t keep in regular touch, although you really shouldn’t, but I will make good effort to keep you updated by whatever means I have to hand.

 

[Shyguy1369]

That is a lot of Jameson (yum). Thank you for your sweet words of encouragement. Sometimes I get so bogged down in my negatives that hearing about the positive ways I affect others is a nice reminder that it’s not all bad. *sending hugs your way*

It was a good amount of Jameson for sure, but oh so delicious. As for my words, I am glad that I can remind you of all the positives you bring. Your hugs are always welcomed. ((HUGGLES))

Great news! Finally had the nerve to poke the blister... feeling better already!

I’ve been in lounge clothes the last two days because who goes out when they can’t walk?!

Today, I’m getting dressed to the nines to go get a coffee... because I fucking feel like it.

*blows kisses*

Glad to hear things are better and that you can actually get out there and walk. Hope you enjoy(ed) your coffee, you definitely look great to me, though you are probably going to put more clothes on I am guessing

And maybe it’s just because it happened in another thread and I shouldn’t hold other commenters to as high of a standard as I do you all... maybe I did react on a hair-trigger because I’ve been in pain, thus a bit on the bratty side, and I just felt like pointing out the obvious... I thought I was pretty kind about the whole thing, but then I got a passive-aggressive bullshit reply back from him in thread. I’m sorry, but I don’t need anyone’s compliments (okay, maybe yours because I really like you and I want to know that you think I’m sexy and that my voice when I cum makes you want to be here with me... that kind of compliment is one I am going to need to know). I post for me. I say it in my very first post in this thread: I am here for me. In my reply to him, I even pointed out that I caught his attempt at alliteration (which I really like almost as much as pallendromes) and appreciated it. I don’t know if I should even attempt a reply to his snarky comeback because should I dig this hole deeper?

As I have mentioned to another Litster before, there will be trolls who expect things, or believe they are deserved things even. Some who will decide what's best for you, even if that's not what you want. I also believe that passive aggressive replies are sometimes just thinly veiled attempts at being an asshole... but that is just me. Sorry you had to deal with that... here's some extra hugs just for you.

((HUGGLES))

 

[Todger65]

*waves hi back and shows some bum cheek*

Great news! Finally had the nerve to poke the blister... feeling better already!

I’ve been in lounge clothes the last two days because who goes out when they can’t walk?!

Today, I’m getting dressed to the nines to go get a coffee... because I fucking feel like it.

*blows kisses*

Love the two photos. Bum cheeks and a little pink thong.

And maybe it’s just because it happened in another thread and I shouldn’t hold other commenters to as high of a standard as I do you all... maybe I did react on a hair-trigger because I’ve been in pain, thus a bit on the bratty side, and I just felt like pointing out the obvious... I thought I was pretty kind about the whole thing, but then I got a passive-aggressive bullshit reply back from him in thread. I’m sorry, but I don’t need anyone’s compliments (okay, maybe yours because I really like you and I want to know that you think I’m sexy and that my voice when I cum makes you want to be here with me... that kind of compliment is one I am going to need to know). I post for me. I say it in my very first post in this thread: I am here for me. In my reply to him, I even pointed out that I caught his attempt at alliteration (which I really like almost as much as pallendromes) and appreciated it. I don’t know if I should even attempt a reply to his snarky comeback because should I dig this hole deeper?

Sometimes it pays to send a quick hot blast then shut up, but often that just fuels the idiot sender into more crap. Generally then it is best to leave alone and not add fuel to their fire and if they continue to blast you, hit the ignore button.

 

[Moochienanu]

And maybe it’s just because it happened in another thread and I shouldn’t hold other commenters to as high of a standard as I do you all... maybe I did react on a hair-trigger because I’ve been in pain, thus a bit on the bratty side, and I just felt like pointing out the obvious... I thought I was pretty kind about the whole thing, but then I got a passive-aggressive bullshit reply back from him in thread. I’m sorry, but I don’t need anyone’s compliments (okay, maybe yours because I really like you and I want to know that you think I’m sexy and that my voice when I cum makes you want to be here with me... that kind of compliment is one I am going to need to know). I post for me. I say it in my very first post in this thread: I am here for me. In my reply to him, I even pointed out that I caught his attempt at alliteration (which I really like almost as much as pallendromes) and appreciated it. I don’t know if I should even attempt a reply to his snarky comeback because should I dig this hole deeper?

I guess my actual posed question is: if someone calls me something I don’t like, but they mean it as a compliment, should I just let it go? Or should I correct them kindly? Seriously asking here, because it seems like maybe I should just ignore things that make me uncomfortable instead of trying to fix the issue?

 

[Youneverknow81]

I guess my actual posed question is: if someone calls me something I don’t like, but they mean it as a compliment, should I just let it go? Or should I correct them kindly? Seriously asking here, because it seems like maybe I should just ignore things that make me uncomfortable instead of trying to fix the issue?

You have every right to express your feelings. If something makes you uncomfortable, say something. If the person responds with anything less than respect, feel free to block them. No one is entitled to abuse, but if they aren’t aware of it than I’d think they would at least deserve to know what they said

 

[Willingtoshare]

I guess my actual posed question is: if someone calls me something I don’t like, but they mean it as a compliment, should I just let it go? Or should I correct them kindly? Seriously asking here, because it seems like maybe I should just ignore things that make me uncomfortable instead of trying to fix the issue?

I’m not the intellectual like a lot on here so won’t even try to give an intelluctual answer...but, if something makes you uncomfortable on here or in RL for that matter, something should be said if you feel strongly enough about it.

To share your thoughts and body on somewhere like you do, is always going to get you compliments I would have thought, I give compliments...I find it hard not to say “nice arse” if someone has shown a nice arse. It is also I feel hard sometimes to gauge the context of the compliment that has been given in the written word when you don’t even know the person or there true personallity who has wrote it.

Probably the least helpful advice I can give is that, only you can decide..but it’s true.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

I don’t know if I should even attempt a reply to his snarky comeback because should I dig this hole deeper?

I went to the thread and looked at the posts in question. I know that the term he used was not one that you like, but I don’t think it was meant with any degree of disrespect. I think your reply was very reasonable. You stated, perhaps a bit pointedly, that you do not identify with that term, but did recognize his compliment. He got defensive/embarrassed and gave a mildly snarky reply.

I don’t think it’s gone any farther than this and, in my opinion, does not seem worth pursuing further. If you don’t like his word choices, you can always put him on ignore.

In general though, I think you have every right to point out a word that you don’t want applied to you.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

I also think you are being very generous in assuming that the alliteration was intentional.

 

[Moochienanu]

You have every right to express your feelings. If something makes you uncomfortable, say something. If the person responds with anything less than respect, feel free to block them. No one is entitled to abuse, but if they aren’t aware of it than I’d think they would at least deserve to know what they said

I have this thought that the whole “see something say something” thing doesn’t seem to work on the Internet. I see that I wasn’t the kindest in my explanation of issue in this instance, but I don’t think that if I had said it another way he would have responded differently. I think the big issue is that when someone gives what they believe to be a compliment here (or anywhere on the internet) they don’t expect the reply from the recipient of said “compliment” to be anything close to unreceptive. I don’t like the fact that people can’t actually say “thanks but no thanks” anymore. It’s become this world of acceptance of things that, even if we don’t like it, we should say thank you for the attention. Perhaps I should have just not replied to him at all? Would that have been better than what I replied with.

I’m not the intellectual like a lot on here so won’t even try to give an intelluctual answer...but, if something makes you uncomfortable on here or in RL for that matter, something should be said if you feel strongly enough about it.

To share your thoughts and body on somewhere like you do, is always going to get you compliments I would have thought, I give compliments...I find it hard not to say “nice arse” if someone has shown a nice arse. It is also I feel hard sometimes to gauge the context of the compliment that has been given in the written word when you don’t even know the person or there true personallity who has wrote it.

Probably the least helpful advice I can give is that, only you can decide..but it’s true.

I don’t think being an intellectual has much to do with this conversation. I think it’s absolutely fine to post “nice arse” if you see one and then, if the subject of the picture tells you “I don’t really like my booty called an ‘arse,’ but thank you for the sentiment,” you apologize in a kind manner with something along the lines of “my bad, I didn’t realize and that booty of yours is still banging!” See what I’m saying? Or is the brandy talking for me already?

The only thing I could suggest, in a situation such as this the individual may, or rather hopefully, isn't aware that their language is being received in a different manner than intended.
So it may be beneficial for this individual to realise their language needs adjusting to suit different interpretations for different situations. Just as much as it may benefit you to try and solve this issue constructively.

I have no reason to believe that he used the word knowing that it would cause my jaw to clench and my fists to ball up in rage. That’s why I tried to be polite in my reply to him. If it was obviously someone who should have known better, he might have gotten a new orifice to excrete waste out of (sometimes I feel strongly about things... *squee*). I don’t think I’m actually going to reply to him because at this point I think another man with his pride hurt over something so stooped is not someone I want to deal with.

I went to the thread and looked at the posts in question. I know that the term he used was not one that you like, but I don’t think it was meant with any degree of disrespect. I think your reply was very reasonable. You stated, perhaps a bit pointedly, that you do not identify with that term, but did recognize his compliment. He got defensive/embarrassed and gave a mildly snarky reply.

I don’t think it’s gone any farther than this and, in my opinion, does not seem worth pursuing further. If you don’t like his word choices, you can always put him on ignore.

In general though, I think you have every right to point out a word that you don’t want applied to you.

THANK YOU. I think I totally have that right... (and yes, I may have been a little harsh with him in my reply, but I think a part of him may have misread it too as I think he made it worse on himself mixing up “alliterative” and “illiterative.” At least that’s part of what may have happened? Or maybe I just hope that’s part of what happened) but sometimes I feel like “grin and bare your skin” seems to be more accepted here. Maybe I’m just a minority in this feeling of being unable to really speak up in other threads... perhaps it’s due to a lack of ownership? I don’t feel like I can properly speak out when it isn’t my thread I’m writing in. Mum or very little to say anywhere else. But here? I can just blurt out all my problems and not worry... because this is my place to do that... or whatever.


Here everyone, have some boobies for dealing with me today:

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[xhxhxh]

Here everyone, have some boobies for dealing with me today:

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Absolutely Gorgeous!!

 

[Moochienanu]

I also think you are being very generous in assuming that the alliteration was intentional.

I probably was, but benefit of the doubt, right?