Minor Oral Problem

[Vandren]

Hi there,

Maybe I can get some advice here.

Alright, the backstory: my wife and I have been together for eight year (married for five of those). We've been sexually active most of that time, and everything's been great. With one exception.

The first two or three times she "went down" on me, no problems whatsoever. But, since then, I haven't been able to get off when she does it. Honestly, I think the problem may be on my end (or possibly a technique end), and I don't want her to think that it's her fault if it isn't.

Any suggestions?

 

[Quoll]

welcome to lit.
There is so much info here

 

[The_old_man]

The greatest problem with getting head from either sex is technique. Pure and simple, if the sensitive area is not being stimulated no climax. If any pain is being caused ( discounting S/M) no climax.

It is not uncommon for someone giving felato to get so wound up in their own pleasure that they forget the partners sensitive areas.

Other side of the coin is when giving cunnilingus. Too much attention to the clit can be painful.

 

[bytor2112]

maybe you've become gay??

 

[intrigued]

Oh, my! I thought you were gonna talk about teeth or gum problems! I haven't a lick of sense.
You'll have to reteach her by guiding her with your words and reactions. It's either that, or just tell her you need extra help because you think maybe something is wrong with you. Or, you could just discuss it with her. It can be worked out, good luck and have a wonderful time!

 

[Vandren]

maybe you've become gay??

Definitely not the case. Sorry.

You'll have to reteach her by guiding her with your words and reactions. It's either that, or just tell her you need extra help because you think maybe something is wrong with you. Or, you could just discuss it with her. It can be worked out, good luck and have a wonderful time!

Could be the case . . . thanks, to everyone, I'll try these suggestions out.