Mild post orgasm stimulation in men

[DrHappy]

I have a few observations about myself, and I was wondering if others here might have any feedback or experiences to share. For what it’s worth, I’m a guy. I’m curious of others have had experiences similar to mine. Also, I’d love to hear feedback from others who may try some of these techniques.

My emotional state is very malleable immediately after orgasm. It’s as if the orgasm obliterates my emotional state, and it is immediately rebuilt using what stray thoughts are in my post-orgasm mind. This can be either good or bad. Any lingering tension or uneasiness that appears after orgasm can easily dominate my thoughts afterwards. However, my mind can also be shaped by positive and playful thoughts afterwards. It’s not an unstable or precarious situation for me, but I have found that I can take advantage of the situation to help set my mind into a great mood afterwards.

Like most men, I’m extremely sensitive after orgasm, and the tip of the penis doesn’t like much direct stimulation afterwards. There are lots fetish discussions about post-orgasm torture in men, where men are exposed to intense discomfort after orgasm. Most depictions of sexual encounters assume that penile stimulation completely stops shortly after the male orgasm. However, it doesn’t need to be an all-or-nothing situation. It’s a little tricky, but certain mild stimulation techniques can still be extremely pleasurable for a long time after orgasm. Fondling and stroking of the shaft below the glans can be wonderful as long as the glans itself isn’t rubbed. It takes a little work and experimentation, but a happy medium can be found where stimulation can be pleasurable without being overwhelming. As the time after orgasm increases, the tip can endure and enjoy more touching. My wonderful wife has been experimenting with me, and I have made three observations:

• Tickling phenomenon: The best pleasure from mind post-orgasm stimulation is better when someone else does the stimulation. It’s doesn’t work nearly as well when I try to do it myself. It’s like trying to tickle myself.
• Waves vs spikes of pleasure: Compared to pre-orgasmic pleasure which tends to come in waves, post orgasmic pleasure tends to come in short, but intense spikes. It’s almost like receiving a lighting bolt of pleasure.
• Physical vs emotional: Pre-orgasm stimulation is pleasurable both physically and emotionally. Post orgasm contains both of these, though it seems that the emotional component is much stronger in post-orgasm stimulation. This has a wonderful effect of providing a long lasting relaxed and happy state of mind afterwards. The afterglow is wonderful.

Have others (either men or women) noticed that their emotional states are very malleable after orgasm?

Are others into mild post orgasm stimulation? Are your experiences similar to mine?

 

[Balloney]

I have had this done to me, but probably a bit more 'severe' than mild. Once my wife insisted I keep going after orgasm when she was on top. She squeezed hard and kept thrusting, saying "You are my sex slave. You have to keep going." She was joking around, but it was hot, and I let her keep on going.

Some time after that, I had this desire to experience sensory overload. My penis was really sensitive on the top of the head. I couldn't really stand it unless my frenelum was also being stroked. So I told my wife just to rub the head of my penis. I convulsed and moved around in discomfort and ecstacy mixed together.

Before I had an orgasm, I asked her to do something for me. I asked her to show no mercy and keep stroking my head a certain way that was very intense, without stroking the frenelum. It was a kind of squeeze grip just on the head. She did it a little, but not quite enough to overwhelm me like I had hoped that time.

That time, my convulsions got her excited, and we ended up having intercourse, and she finished me off with a handjob.

But another time I asked her to do it when she was giving me a handjob. I laid on my side and orgasmed on a something to catch the sperm. The sperm changes the consistency of the lube, creating a distraction during post orgasmic stroking. My head was really sensitive this time, so when she kept on stroking after, it was almost like I was laughing. It was just so intense. I had to hold onto a pillow to keep from grabbing her hand. It may be a good idea to be restrained during this. I find myself, if I am on my side, leading toward the bed which keeps her hands from stroking.

My wife is also way too 'nice' for this kind of play. If I ask her to stop, she usually does within several strokes. She has kept going a bit when I told her beforehand not to listen to me when I say to stop. But she isn't really into letting me have it for her own pleasure.

One of the problems with this, though, is that rarely is my penis head sensitive enough to really do this kind of activity. Usually it gets this way if I have gone too long without sex or am just worked up for some reason. A really long hand job with head stimulation can help get my penis in the right mode for this kind of play, too.

If I could have the penis sensitivity and horniness of myself at 13 years old returned to me for a night, and my wife were willing to tie me up and edge me add then keep on stroking for a long time after orgasm, I would definitely go for it.

Another fun game if you want to try this out is have your wife count out a certain number of strokes after orgasm. You could roll dice to get the number. If you roll 1, 2, or 3, multiply the number times 10 and she starts counting after you first ask her to stop, or start squirming or whatever shows her your orgasm is done. If you roll a 4, 5, or 6 before the handjob, then multiply that number by 20 and you have to take that many strokes after you ejaculate. It may help to be tied up to make sure you take your strokes. She can also add strokes for bad behavior like squirming or complaining.

 

[TenCentPistol]

I love how sensitive men are and also found that giving head after a man has come is extremely intense. To put it bluntly a man is putty after he's had an orgasm, light touching across the hips and inner thighs can be a huge turn on and send those lightning bolt feelings through him. It's fun for me to 'clean up' as they say so I don't shy away from any part of the body. But yes, even the lightest touches can be too much for the guy, which I think is that I like.

 

[molegrande]

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[gwave]

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[jehoram]

Due to a misspent life, I'm in more or less constant (but very low-grade) pain most of the time. The most noticeable effect of an orgasm, for me, is that the pain goes away for a while.

Sometimes my orgasms are so intense that all I can do is lay there like a dead fish, not even moving, for about a minute or two. Until I explained what was going on, my partners usually took it as a sign that I wasn't into them, that once I'd cum, I was no longer interested in them.

My cock is too sensitive to do much with after the orgasm, but give me a few minutes and I start responding again.

 

[boutrosboutros]

My cock head is too sensitive after orgasm for sucking in particular. I've been with quite a few girls who've found it highly amusing to lick my cock head after orgasm, as if it's just a little bit ticklish, not realising that it's actually excruciatingly painful.

But I've found that it's still pleasurable to stroke/be stroked afterwards, though not in all circumstances - the sex has to have been particularly passionate. If so, being stroked results in almost tantric waves of pleasure which don't reach orgasm but are just a very nice, warm feeling.