mild humiliation

[boston_bbw]

My SO is into humiliation. He enjoys being embarressed, teased and made fun of. He enjoys me being mean which honestly is just not my style. He in no way pressures me to do anything I'm not comfortbale with and expects nothing of the sort from me. So I am looking for a few ideas of some real mild forms of humiliation that I may consider.. sorta wanting to take one for the team and blow him away..lol

 

[Netzach]

He sounds like a sweet guy. You may find that this is more fun than you thought it would be, as you witness him get harder and more eager than ever.

How mild is mild? Mild is so relative. Sending someone out to buy your tampax might be mortifying to one person and just another grocery run to another.

I like buying panties and wearing panties to work under normal pants as good clean starter-set humiliation fun, you can pick something less femme that's still humiliating if the girly thing turns you off. I like to tie a string gently around their dick (so they don't forget about it ha ha) then call in the middle of the day. "Don't forget. Click." (instant hard on)

 

[Sir_Winston54]

A little edgy, but not much: Take him to a public place, no underwear, "equipment" tucked down/away. Have him go to the restroom and unzip his pants so that his abdomen is exposed with the flexing of the zipper area as he walks. Since his sexual organs are not exposed, he can't be arrested for flashing - as long as it doesn't excite him so much that he *does* show, lol. Of course, if he's well trained, you can order him not to get hard... or just gently strap his penis to his leg so it can't get up/out of the fly. Of course, the strapping would cause a certain amount of tension if/when he does start to get hard, which would increase the excitement, which would increase the tension, which would... well, you get the picture, I'm sure.

 

[Netzach]

Hey nice. I'm going to try that one with my sissy, he likes to tuck anyway...
plus maybe if someone's really looking they will notice the "something missing" and be unable to tear themselves away from staring. LOL funny.

 

[soapstar]

Mild is so subjective. Kind of like "normal"

I mean, define normal

 

[boston_bbw]

no leashes, no handcuffs, nothing that will embarress myself, no puplic nudity or anything illegal.. you know.. boring I guess for most of you ..lol He is also pretty sub if that matters much.. and I am not very into dom.. hmm.. I guess we are pretty mismatched all the way around..lol

 

[Carmenica Diaz]

Humilation, mild or not, can be rather intense.

 

[Learn Humility]

Take him panty shopping.

Hold up a few pairs next to his body to "see how they look".

When you go to pay, say to the salesgirl "He'll look cute in these, won't he?"

 

[spankableBelle]

no leashes, no handcuffs, nothing that will embarress myself, no puplic nudity or anything illegal.. you know.. boring I guess for most of you ..lol He is also pretty sub if that matters much.. and I am not very into dom.. hmm.. I guess we are pretty mismatched all the way around..lol

Make him cum in his underwear (if he wears them) or pants before going out to dinner or having friends over...don't let him clean up, make him leave it as is. If nothing else, he'll be keenly aware and that does evoke some mild sensations of humiliation, no one has to know but you and he, and everytime he moves and feels the sticky wetness, he'll blush just a bit...

 

[voltigeur]

head games

My Girl Friend used to play all kinds of head games in our play. She spanked me and made me service her. I had to kiss her ass and beg for the priviledge.

I was told that only my desires held me in bondage and i was told to kiss her ass and beg for panties. I then got those. The same with thi hi's and heels and a dress. Each time i got what I begged for.

Each step was humiliating and she loved my hardness to gether with my shivering and shame.

 

[BlueSugar]

make him wear something he isn't used to wearing... maybe a color change.

a salmon button down because he is too "sissy" to wear a manly color.

use marker to write things on him... they also have sex crayons for 'body painting' i'm sure you can think of things to write on him during your playtime. I can picture big letters on his forhead, "...slut..."

you can tie him up and tease him till he is so hard it hurts - then talk to him, and tell him that hes only good for one thing, that you only keep him around for his dick.

You really have to get into someones head, their deepest embarrassments or kinks and use them against them.

and... a kiss is as good as a kick. so from, big to small- they all add up and its still attention, still embarrassing.

I'm not too good at this, but it interests me.