Methods To Bind Or Bond?

[tr65]

When binding or tying or in general subdueing you sub, which way do most of you favor? I usually have my sub on a bench with her feet tied to the bench and her hands bound behind her. However the other day, we took a day off work to go hiking and I decided I wanted to play midway through the hike. I was able to bind her hands above her head to a limb with my belt. This gives all kinds of access to the subs body for all kinds of ideas and fun ways to play. Which brings me to my problem, when we play at home using the bench or other devices, there is no way or no where to bind her hands over her head as I have no beams in my house. The ceilings are plaster and smoothe. Any ideas on how to do this?

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I would think there would be beams under the plaster (ceiling joists?) going across the ceiling. If you own your home, have you tried using a stud finder and locating them? You could then drill through the plaster and screw a heavy eye bolt into one of them. Voila.....

~anelize

 

[psiberzerker]

I've done construction, and demolition a lot over the years, and if there's a ceiling, theres something holding it up. I don't even bother with stud finders, I just tap gently with a trim hammer. If there's a drumming sound, and a lot of give, you're somewhere in between. When you get a solid thud, and less give, you've found the joist.
If you have any experience with a whip, or cane, this should be fairly simple. You can feel the difference between a good swat, and a stinger. It's only slightly different with a hammer, and stud.
I like the eyebolt idea as well, but don't try suspension on it. Just to hold her hands, it should be sufficient, but if it's going to support her weight, and possibly yours, I'd feel safer with something that looped over.
All these are minor alterations, have a plant handy to hang from the hook when the land lord, or lady shows up if you don't own. As long as you don't take out any walls, they should give you your deposit back.

 

[bunny bondage]

don't know if this is what you're looking for, but it's something i hadn't thought of before, and it just happened today so i'm all excited to write about it!

He had me kneel in a chair as he taped my legs to the seat. my breasts were a couple of inches above where the back of the chair ended, and my waist was duct taped to the back of the chair. He had complete access to my ass, calves, feet and breasts. my hands were cuffed behind my head. i was very well secured and couldn't move at all, though i jerked and flinched each time He struck me with the riding crop. (which, by the way, makes the prettiest bruises ever! they're bright and colorful and speckled!) so while there was some gunk left on my skin from the tape, it was still a fun experience!

 

[40_and_frisky]

You might want to try an over the door bondage restraint. I find them very handy for motel room play. Basically it's a set of leather straps with a ring on one end and a dowel on the other. Put the dowel end on the other side of the door top, shut the door, and attach your partner to the rings.

If you go to eBay and search or "bondage door", you'll find several examples.

 

[Wizard]

You might want to try an over the door bondage restraint. I find them very handy for motel room play. Basically it's a set of leather straps with a ring on one end and a dowel on the other. Put the dowel end on the other side of the door top, shut the door, and attach your partner to the rings.

If you go to eBay and search or "bondage door", you'll find several examples.

E-bay still carry bdsm items? I thought they became non bdsm freindly...... I haven't looked recently for anything.

 

[AvaAdore]

you could get a blue print of your house. that should have some information. the city council here keeps all the blueprint copies, that's where my family got ours when we were thinking of renovating.

 

[Rantalith]

Try JT's Stockroom. They have all sorts of equipment that you can use.

Do a Google search and it will show up.

Just my two cents worth.

 

[phalanxlord]

(All praise JT's )

So many ways to tie someone up, and so little rope in the world

If you do not want to do anything unsightly or permanent in your Dom-icile, then try this...

Get some flat, thin pieces of plywood... a few inches on each side, up to 12" - 16" in length.

Get one or two (or more) Large C-clamps, that are wide enough to span a wall or overhead (above a doorway).

The idea is to attach the clamps to the wall or overhead and these will form attachment points for tying someone up. The boards are there to put between the wall and clamp pads so you do not scar the paint or finish.

You can attach the clamps overhead, or two high and two clamps low on the sides of the doorway, for a more spread-eagled bondage! Just make a trip to Dom/me Depot and they will probably even cut the wood for you, if they do not already have scrap wood that size. Find a few metal O-rings if they are available, and slip them on each clamp for attachment points.

And don't forget the rope.

 

[ammre]

well.... it may not be as high as liked.. but it's abover the head...
have you ever seen thsoe chinup bars? their put in a doorway sort-of like a shower curtan rod would but their a LOT firmer... if you put one of those in adoorway it gives you somehting to attach to...