Menstrual Hut

You know, I thought I was fine today. Tonight, I find myself feeling invisible. Insignificant things, that wouldn't bother me other days, hurt my feelings tonight.
I know it's ok and allowed. But why does it feel like a weakness? Tomorrow I'll wake up and wonder why I was oversensitive. It happens.

Rambling helps.
I'm thankful for this thread.
 
I love you ladies!!

Although I am a guy, I love you ladies, and admire what you go through every month. I think that is when a woman is her most feminine, and like helping a lady through her time in "the hut." Let me drag in this box of chocolates, potatoe chips, and hot water bottles.

Now, who is up for a nice massage?:heart::kiss:

How about a pedicure?:rose:

Anyone need a pillow fluffed up?

Midol, anyone?

Fox, I know a couple of my ex-girlfriends liked to have intimate encounters when they had their periods. I loved it, and they both felt better afterwards. My wife enjoyed it at first, but she has a negative attitude towards her period, and doesn't like the mess, even if she is on a towel to just throw in the washer. I still have fond memories of those times, and how well it made the ladies feel, and how happy I was to help.
I cannot know what you ladies go through, but I try to understand and help in what I can. If you ladies would like an attendant to help you in the hut, please feel free to summon me.:rose: :rose: :rose:
 
raindancer said:
You know, I thought I was fine today. Tonight, I find myself feeling invisible. Insignificant things, that wouldn't bother me other days, hurt my feelings tonight.
I know it's ok and allowed. But why does it feel like a weakness? Tomorrow I'll wake up and wonder why I was oversensitive. It happens.


Ditto, Rain - it's so easy to hurt my feelings when I feel like this. I really have to take a deep, cleansing breath and just walk away from the hurt - to keep from over-reacting somewhere other than in my head!

And Rider, thanks for the sweet thougts - :kiss:
 
Ah, rider. Thank you, greatly, for your post. I needed to read them.

Tswyk, it's good to know I'm not alone.
Even though, during those days, solitude seems the only thing within my grasp.

I don't feel any better today. I worked in my garden. I walked. I stretched. Nothing helps.

Argh. I hate it.:(
 
raindancer said:
Ah, rider. Thank you, greatly, for your post. I needed to read them.

Tswyk, it's good to know I'm not alone.
Even though, during those days, solitude seems the only thing within my grasp.

I don't feel any better today. I worked in my garden. I walked. I stretched. Nothing helps.

Argh. I hate it.:(

Sending warm hugs to raindancer.......
 
Well girls, the chocolate craving has changed into anything warm and sweet.

Hot, fresh from the oven Peanut Butter cookies - have some!

~ passing the plate around ~

Milk, anyone?
 
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

GGGGGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKK!

*Grump*


OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
 
Hot warm cookies? Thanks tswyk, I could certainly use some of those....*sits down and takes the whole plate*...there ARE more in the oven, right?? LOL

Oh, and fishie, I feel your pain....second day for me.....*grump* *sulk*
 
BrownEyes26 said:
Hot warm cookies? Thanks tswyk, I could certainly use some of those....*sits down and takes the whole plate*...there ARE more in the oven, right?? LOL

If cooking could make me feel better, I'd be fine by now!

And, yes, Chocolate Chip cookies will be ready in about 10 more minutes.....

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Thanks tswyk, I really appreciate the cookies a lot. I will bring some tomorrow when I feel up to cooking ok. I like to make homemade truffles. Feel better ok!
 
Lavender? What is that about? Are you okay? Maybe you need to vent? Come to PC's insult thread, and have a go at me. :D I am feeling better already.
 
Allexus_TN said:
Well I got a nice surprise this afternoon. I started a whole week early. I hate when this happens. I had no signs at all that I was about to start. A total surprise. :(

My sister I am telling you we have to stop doing this! Actually I love that we are so in sync! So together we can bloat and moan! Pass the chocolate.
 
I'm nearing the end of my flow, and I'm back to being a normal human being..for a few weeks, anyhow. Yippee!!
 
Unregistered said:


My sister I am telling you we have to stop doing this! Actually I love that we are so in sync! So together we can bloat and moan! Pass the chocolate.

Kitte hon...amazing how in sync we are...I love it. Here's the chocolate and the heating pad..and you want some brandy too?
 
Allexus_TN said:


Kitte hon...amazing how in sync we are...I love it. Here's the chocolate and the heating pad..and you want some brandy too?

Thanks sis! as you can tell I wasnt feeling quite myself up there! Unregistered MY ASS!!! HOW DARE THEY! JESUS FUCKING CHRIST!!!! umm ok.. Im having a moment... more choccy please and yes to the brandy!
 
I went to the OB/GYN today. Had my annual, and talked to him about the problems I've been having. Turns out, all the horrible things I was thinking, were a little over the top. I have a uterine infection that should clear up with anti-biotics. If not, I have to go back in 14 days.]

Cross your fingers that this is all that's wrong with me, ok?
 
pagancowgirl said:
I went to the OB/GYN today. Had my annual, and talked to him about the problems I've been having. Turns out, all the horrible things I was thinking, were a little over the top. I have a uterine infection that should clear up with anti-biotics. If not, I have to go back in 14 days.]

Cross your fingers that this is all that's wrong with me, ok?

*crosses fingers and toes* Urgh, infections down there are awful, hang in there. Be sure to eat your yoghurt to counter act those anti-biotics.
Yeah, I always think there is tons more wrong with me than there is...I wish the ob/gyns didn't make 'down there' such a mystery! The key to a healthy sexual person is education!!
Blah blah blah, ok that's my rant for the moment.
Take care, be well.
~ fey
 
pagancowgirl said:
Cross your fingers that this is all that's wrong with me, ok?

Crossing em for ya! meanwhile Im going to drown in water retention and I have had to shut off the tv so as not to cry at any more lame commercials:(
 
I went to work this morning and within two hours I blew my tampon. Damn gushers. Hadn't mattressed so was all over my silks and tights. Had to clean up the best I could and live with it. Damn, I feel chafed, had to shower as soon as I came home. I prefer to have my first day in private. I am now clean with my corn bag on my belly and my whiskey by my arm...

gripe...complain...

Thanks for letting me indulge myself.
 
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