Men's Poll: How Many Casual Blowjobs?

[Billsexpot]

College was fun.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

still same answer unfortunately

 

[genxer36]

8 that I can remember. I'm sure I'm forgetting some.

One was at a party messing around with a girl known for BJ's. After making out on the sofa for a while at the end of the party. She went down on me and was deep throating the whole time. It was a very good blowjob. Practice does make perfect.

6 others were on first dates. Some of those didn’t have 2nd dates.

A blind date I was fixed up on. This cute short redhead. I’m 6’ 3”, she was maybe 4’ 10”. But a great body. After our date I took her home. I was recently divorced and new to dating again. We were sitting on the sofa and not much going on. I didn’t have my confidence back yet. I get up to leave. We kiss at the door and it is ON! We stumble back to the sofa making out. She unzips my pants and gives me a blowjob till I finish. She sits up licking her lips and says “goodnight”. I tell her it is her turn. I take her to her bedroom and lick her till she begs me to stop. She unleashed the beast. I was ready for round two by then. We fucked hard that night. I came in her mouth again. She loved cum. Every date after that she always wanted me to cum in her mouth. Lots of road head from this one.

One was in the parking lot after dinner and making out. I was trying to rub between her legs. She stopped me and told me she was on her period. She then proceeded to go down on me.


Another was a one-night stand with a much older woman. I was 46, she was a 63 yr old nurse. We met on Adult friend finder. I was at work looking through the site. Came across someone nearby that was online. Chatted about 10 minutes and she asked, "how quick could you get here". Left work "on break" and showed up at this naughty nurse's place. The pictures didn't do her justice. Blonde hair looked like she was maybe 40. In great shape, firm breasts. I met her at the door with a kiss. She said "oh you will do!" We spoke for a few minutes as she led me to her bedroom. We undressed and I was impressed at her fit body for someone that was 63. She was much older than I had ever been with. But she was an amazing lay and gave an incredible blow job to finish me off. Sadly, we never hooked up again.

 

[loveupskirt]

Numbers are coming into line more what I was thinking. However, I hadn't really thought about the demographics of those answering either.

 

[coati]

Only one casual blow job, but...

I've only had one casual blow job from a woman. All the other blowjobs from women turned into relationships of various lengths.

The one exception was a woman who started buying me drinks in a bar. There's a signal for you. Eventually we ended up in her car in the parking lot with her sucking furiously. That was a nice surprise. Every other date that started with a blowjob from a female turned into a longer term thing.

One other casual interaction with a woman involved me dry-humping her at a party (both of us fully clothed) until she came. Never saw her again after that party.

Another is what the famous author Henry Miller referred to as a "mercy fuck". It was with a young woman whose boyfriend suffered from premature ejaculation, never quite satisfying her. I happened to be around immediately after one of those episodes. She was so mad and frustrated. I did not get a blow job from her, just an urgent tug on me, penetration, and then long and somewhat circular thrusts while kissing her neck until I heard her really start to vocalize. Then we just cut loose and came together. Never saw her or her boyfriend again. I remember suggesting to her boyfriend that he try to do math in his head to delay his orgasm, or perhaps bring her to orgasm with his tongue or hands before they fucked. As might be expected, he was not particularly open to my suggestions at the time.

Everything else with women morphed into actual relationships.

Now men are a different story-- blow jobs and/or stroking, and then never see them again.

 

[guns444]

None, can't even get my wife to give me one if I beg

 

[BBCfan]

Men of Lit:

This is the companion poll to Women's Poll: How Many Casual Blowjobs?:

How many different women have given you the "casual blowjob"?

Let's classify those as "was not at that time your girlfriend, wife, or 'significant other' "

Please 'bump' the thread with a quick note of why your number is what it is, or at least say 'voted'.

Any experiences you want to share are also welcome!

I kept this heterosexual, just because I'd like to compare the results to the Womens poll.

hmm, I used to get a lot of casual blowouts but remembering how many is difficult. Likely 30-50 different women?

 

[HornyHal]

My number is a big fat goose egg 0. I always wanted the casual BJ back when I was young but never had that kind of game. I always envied the guys that did.

 

[SIRealism]

Voted

 

[tnhardon]

Never had a casual blowjob. Never really had a casual anything with someone. I’m just the type that likes to have more there.

 

[suckonsimon]

Amending my vote from none to one. Acquainted with her boyfriend [who she was riding at the time] but I never even asked her name.

 

[cosmic_peach]

0 - To be honest I have no idea how this would ever happen to me (receiving a casual blowjob from a previously unknown woman). Sex just doesn't work this way for me.

 

[Berwyn]

I’ve to add my big goose egg to this poll. At least I’m not alone

 

[artgorden]

I tended bar for a bit in my twenties Had a waitress who couldnt go a day without blowing somebode. (her words) She gave me all 5 casual blowjobs I ever had. It could have been a much higher number had she not gotten fired for stealing.

 

[Knoturnal]

I’m not sure I could do much in this pole. Most all were given to me by a GF. My first I was young and didn’t even know what was happening when my Girl I was dating and I were kissing in the car and she decided she was going to give me one.
I even got a few 5 or less from my wife not that I didn’t want them. She seemed to thing it was a eat her forget about me kind of thing.
Then later on after I divorces I met a girl who was interested in being a submissive. The first time I had her in bed I told her since I hadn’t gotten many when I was married I was looking for a sub who loved to give blow jobs. She thought about it for a while and said if you find a girl like that you’ll still come to see me won’t you? Sure enough the next time she came over and had to leave early to pick up her kids or something she said wait....pulled me in the living room unzipped me standing up in all my clothes and gave me one of the best ones I had ever had.
After that she must of liked what I did for her because she gave me one all the time. Even if we would get into an argument and she was mad at me. I had to train her in how I liked them but that was the easier part. And all from a girl who didn’t like to give blow jobs. I got lucky .

 

[Escierto]

I don’t understand most guys obsession with blow jobs. I am 65 now and in my entire life I have cum maybe five times from being blown. All with my ex-wife who was fantastic at it. I just can’t cum from being sucked. Maybe it’s a mental thing.

I have blown my trans girlfriend about ten times and she loves it. In fact I think she would take a BJ over fucking me but she knows that she has to keep me happy. I like sucking her but getting fucked is the best by far.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

Men of Lit:

This is the companion poll to Women's Poll: How Many Casual Blowjobs?:

How many different women have given you the "casual blowjob"?

Let's classify those as "was not at that time your girlfriend, wife, or 'significant other' "

Please 'bump' the thread with a quick note of why your number is what it is, or at least say 'voted'.

Any experiences you want to share are also welcome!

I kept this heterosexual, just because I'd like to compare the results to the Womens poll.

Another way that my life has gone sooooo unfullfilled...

 

[phoenix58]

Only received them from the ex and my wife.

Men of Lit:

This is the companion poll to Women's Poll: How Many Casual Blowjobs?:

How many different women have given you the "casual blowjob"?

Let's classify those as "was not at that time your girlfriend, wife, or 'significant other' "

Please 'bump' the thread with a quick note of why your number is what it is, or at least say 'voted'.

Any experiences you want to share are also welcome!

I kept this heterosexual, just because I'd like to compare the results to the Womens poll.

 

[ableoneable]

Only twice but one was from a former GF so I am not sure that counts. (WTF am I doing wrong?)

I had spent an afternoon doing her a favor and ended up back at her place. If memory serves I was dropping her off but came in to use the head. When I came out she was sitting on the couch and started smiling at me. She said "Come here" in a sexy voice and I walked over still clueless.

She was sitting there very lady-like with her legs crossed and she grabbed my by the belt, pulled me in, unzipped me and looked up at me and said; "Thank you for today."

She then blew me deeply, which was a talent of hers. It was a very cool experience and she kept her legs crossed and her poise throughout the blowjob which somehow made it hotter.

Just an aside, she had a technique that no woman I have been with repeated. She would sometimes stand right next to me and bend over at the waist to blow me.

Has anyone else ever encountered this position?

 

[BimboMaker]

I've had 2. The number could be higher but I've been married monogamously now for over 10 years and that tends to put an end to such escapades.

 

[maydec]

Very interesting results. Must be a GenX our younger phenomina because for me, a boomer, the number is a big goose egg. Putting it in another way, every women I have been with I have given oral sex to - and I like to give it, I like to give her pleasure - it gives me pleasure. I cant help but feel women on the other hand feel that giving a guy the same pleasure is beneath them or makes them think of themselves as a whore or slut. For the record I am not talking about a woman giving a little suck and then moving on as I consider a blow job one that entails cock worship. Maybe there is hope for the younger generations in this regard.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

You only asked about women. As a bi CD, I have gotten a lot of blow jobs from men too, and given as many if not more.

 

[BBCfan]

Men of Lit:

This is the companion poll to Women's Poll: How Many Casual Blowjobs?:

How many different women have given you the "casual blowjob"?

Let's classify those as "was not at that time your girlfriend, wife, or 'significant other' "

Please 'bump' the thread with a quick note of why your number is what it is, or at least say 'voted'.

Any experiences you want to share are also welcome!

I kept this heterosexual, just because I'd like to compare the results to the Womens poll.

Hot memories thinking about this subject

 

[awired50]

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