Men's Poll: How Many Casual Blowjobs?

[Imaverycuriousguy]

Voted

2-5 - there were some very blurry times in the late 60's and early 70's where I have very low recall the actual count may be different than the stored memories......

 

[jason28053]

voted

 

[Mropietaylor69]

And vice versa, we can have a party for the ladys with low numbers, as they learn to give rise to the moment. It would be fun.

Maybe we should match the lower numbers litsters on the mens survey with the higher number litsters on the womens...

 

[Spins]

Zero.

Generally I meet women who did that sort of thing in the past, but now they are being "good" and trying to find the "right" kind of guy.

So, lucky me

 

[CBHunter]

One from a woman I met on xhamster who happened to be in my town for a conference one weekend, and one I met on AFF who came by the shop I had at the time as I was getting ready to close for the day.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

It is intriguing the number of men who have had so few casual blow jobs - I would have expected a different outcome, that's for sure.

I seem to be in the minority here having had quite a few. In my younger days I was a bit of a vagabond traveler - lots of minor hookups in youth hostels and other places of ill repute. Then more recently went through a mid-life slut phase and received a number of casual blowjobs.

Given my wife hasn't blown me since the previous millennium, one (at least me) feels some compulsion to find the pleasure of someone else's lips elsewhere...

 

[LWulf]

I voted none, because blowjobs aren't that interesting to me, unless 69ing, but that isn't a blowjob, and I don't casually 69 with a girl.

I like to give as good as I get, and I just can't spectate watching someone else having sex, even if it is to me.

 

[golfernut]

Men of Lit:

This is the companion poll to Women's Poll: How Many Casual Blowjobs?:

How many different women have given you the "casual blowjob"?

Let's classify those as "was not at that time your girlfriend, wife, or 'significant other' "

Please 'bump' the thread with a quick note of why your number is what it is, or at least say 'voted'.

Any experiences you want to share are also welcome!

I kept this heterosexual, just because I'd like to compare the results to the Womens poll.

Voted

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I put down 1-2, but I think even they were interested in a relationship but I wasn't. Like the bj from one was on the first date, but she absolutely wanted to date further

That was you?

I suppose I should go find the other thread and vote there, but I'm too lazy.

Technically, I've given one casual blowjob according to the op's definition, but it wasn't intended as such.

 

[twiceashard99]

I’ve been lucky. Never had a girlfriend in college so it was all casual. Now...non-monogamy is the way to go.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I was worried I was going to fall in the minority with my 0 vote. Glad to see I'm not alone.

 

[IsItBad]

ones that stand out

wife's work Christmas party: woman i had never met was in the kitchen doing something when i came up from the basement to get some ice....no introduction or discussion ...she took me by the hand, led me into the pantry, dropped to her knees and pulled out my cock and went to town.....i was both terrified my wife would come along and torn up from her blatant cock love.....did not get caught

a friend of my wife's was on the way to our house to borrow something for a party she was having.....she called me a few minutes before she was supposed to be there....come meet her....i drove not a mile from home.....she jumped in my car, instantly reached for my zipper and commenced blowing me......here again....terrified someone would see us or come along....and exhilarated at her most excellent oral skills......did not get caught...…

 

[dragonrock134]

Bump!

 

[hornyguy888]

big fat 0

 

[liqueur]

My number was low (2 to 5). one major reason is that I've always preferred giving to receiving— and some women were quite content to just lie back and receive.

Another reason is that I've never been big on casual sex. I came of age in 1969, at the height of the sexual revolution, and free love was pretty common— i.e., it was common enough to have sex with someone you'd just met; likewise the credo "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with" was common practice. But these were not about "casual sex," the way the term is used today. Sex was the most important thing in the world to us. "Casual sex" would have been an oxymoron.

 

[69plus1]

The late 60's and 70's

I was 20 in 68 and everyone was exploring and I was in the middle of it. It wasn't until hiv was known that things changed.

 

[newhere2learn]

One. Someone local wanted cum down their throat. I'd not had anything in months.

Made arrangements, left work half hour early. Parked discretely.

Let myself in..they were naked... Porn on.

Trousers and boxers down. Reclined on the bed.

One of the best BJ I've ever had, blew load after load into their mouth.


Cleaned up. Went home.

 

[JackOffer]

A better question would be how many men have I traded blow jobs with. Two so far today.

 

[rogerped]

Voted

 

[cheetah2]

my vote was cumulative over 40+ years

 

[liqueur]

I just rethought this. Are we talking about "Blowjobs with no other sex involved?" If so, my answer should have been zero. 'Cause I don't remember a single time when it stopped there

 

[Beardpositive77]

2 - 5, because I'm not counting the times that started with a blow job and ended with sex during the same event.

 

[Taster2]

2 from women and one from a, never mind, that one doesn't count!

 

[help_me_Rhonda]

Bump!
Read 1st post before responding

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

a blowjob that wasn't a S.O. ---, women-, that number would be zero
men-, that number would be 5