Men into noncon roleplay who are also romantic

[WSM98]

I recently posted on here seeking single guys who enjoy CNC (consensual nonconsent) & the guys who responded have mostly turned out to be assholes. So, I'd like to clarify.

If it exists, I'd like to connect with a single man (preferably between age 30-40) who fully enjoys noncon play but who can also be a caring, sweet individual that wouldn't mind treating me like a princess outside of roleplay. I'm interested in building a genuine connection.

 

[WSM98]

I don’t meet your criteria. Just posting to say I believe such men do exist as my wife and I have enjoyed wild CNC in the past, and we do treat each other with admiration and respect outside of such play.

I sincerely hope you find the right person.

Thank you for the well wishes. I appreciate it. Thank you also for sharing about you and your wife. That's pretty awesome.

But I honestly have the lowest of expectations. So, if I do get any responses, I'd quite honestly be surprised. We'll see..

 

[tristianc]

I fall outside your window as well. But when I’m able to be with my little I treat her like the princess she is. But if we have CNC I’ll give her what she an I need to find it fulfilling and then of course, after care. Good luck in your search.

 

[WSM98]

I fall outside your window as well. But when I’m able to be with my little I treat her like the princess she is. But if we have CNC I’ll give her what she an I need to find it fulfilling and then of course, after care. Good luck in your search.

Thank you for the well wishes as well as sharing a snippet of your experience. Y'all are giving me a little hope.

 

[WSM98]

Um, preferably between the ages of 28-43. I'll widen it a bit

 

[tristianc]

Um, preferably between the ages of 28-43. I'll widen it a bit

42/m, barely in your window currently.

 

[idontknow247]

I'd meet your criteria if you'd consider a married man? Bi, 30, UK. Loving, caring & genuine, just have a few more kinks than my wife. Would love to help you enjoy your noncon fantasy in a safe & caring way.

 

[WSM98]

I'd meet your criteria if you'd consider a married man? Bi, 30, UK. Loving, caring & genuine, just have a few more kinks than my wife. Would love to help you enjoy your noncon fantasy in a safe & caring way.

Married will always be a hard "no." Sorry.

 

[WSM98]

I must sadly restart my search.

Had one guy go full asshole today. But that's also what he wanted. He wanted me to block him. Said he couldn't stop himself from messaging me and that I just needed to block him to like, help both of us, idk. I didn't see the need to block the guy but then I guess he figured "If I just behave like an even bigger prick than usual, then she'll be forced to block me." And to his credit, it worked.

So, my hopes are even lower than before.

 

[WSM98]

I am really sorry to read this. I am still rooting for you to find what you want. It seems to me that you deserve it.

Thank you.
Lol, I probably don't deserve it & that was ultimately my 1st mistake: thinking that I did

 

[WSM98]

I don't know you WSM98; I cannot literally judge your "deservingness." But you seem genuinely interested in true connection across the gender divide, which suggests to me that you are a woman of substance.

Cyber sex partners abound, but in my opinion, it is difficult to find a true emotional connection as opposed to just being acquaintances or having a tongue-in-cheek FWB relationship just to support the sex. I also wonder if CNC isn't a difficult kink for some to balance with a such a connection, especially for men. Though it seems like doing so remotely would make it easier.

I am fascinated by the journeys we take in a space like Lit. I hope you keep in touch with us about yours.

You're abnormally sweet. Thank you for taking the time to post.

 

[WSM98]

I don't know you WSM98; I cannot literally judge your "deservingness." But you seem genuinely interested in true connection across the gender divide, which suggests to me that you are a woman of substance.

Cyber sex partners abound, but in my opinion, it is difficult to find a true emotional connection as opposed to just being acquaintances or having a tongue-in-cheek FWB relationship just to support the sex. I also wonder if CNC isn't a difficult kink for some to balance with a such a connection, especially for men. Though it seems like doing so remotely would make it easier.

I am fascinated by the journeys we take in a space like Lit. I hope you keep in touch with us about yours.

SanFranValleyMan, be honest:
Did you send your goons my way?
I'm thinking you hired someone to fit the bill of dominant, sweet, & unattached, then you showed him my post and said "she's your target."

'Fess up! Did you hire someone to woo me? I know you're behind this.
You...you virtual contractor pimp!

 

[WSM98]

Hah. I won’t take credit publicly. But I’m so glad he wooed you! I hope you have a long wonderful relationship. It’s amazing when the right one finally connects with you. It’s happened to me recently.

You mean... Recently with your wife??

And, man...this is highkey, kinda nice. I've met someone on here who's a little incredible. I can't believe I'm saying it, honestly.

Now I see how much of a difference a true connection can make. Roleplay, dirty talk, sharing fantasies... All that stuff is fine. But to roleplay/talk dirty with someone who you honestly trust and feel close with is sort of intense. Idk how to properly describe it.

Especially with CNC play. I'm more turned on roleplaying with him because there's an honest connection and, well, I feel safer than I've ever felt. He's created a safe space. Ugh, am I just gushing at this point? I think I am & I kinda don't care. He's such an unbelievable mix of sweet/considerate & sick/twisted. Lol! And I absolutely love it!

Dare I say, I'm happy? I'm definitely blushing.