Men giving up control

[QueenDarthAphrodite]

I’m curious to understand from a male perspective why men enjoy submitting to a woman. Why they enjoy things like humiliation, cuckolding, blackmail, being pay pigs, Sissification/Feminization etc

I’m not out to name and shame so if you’d peer to PM me rather then post here it will be strictly confidential.

I know why I enjoy the power of having a man worship me, I’m just curious what it’s like from the guys position

 

[MysteriousRyu]

As a man I never understood pay pigs myself. Why pay when porn is free?

 

[Bbl87]

I'm not into most of the things you mentioned, but in some light Dom/sub play being on the sub side, just giving up control can be very freeing. Also, being a bigger guy (6'5"), it can especially erotic and empowering for a woman willing to take on a dominant role because of the size difference, and the pleasure/enjoyment of my partner is my priority in any sexual play.

 

[QueenDarthAphrodite]

Just want to give a public thanks to all the PM’s I’ve received. If I haven’t got to you yet then rest assured I’m going to answer them all.

It’s really interesting to understand the very kinky reasons you guys like these sorts of things.

Thanks for feeling you can confide in me, sending you all the love and best wishes Xxxxxxx

 

[Booboobear84]

This seems to be an honest inquiry into the subject, which probably led to many of your replies. The world needs more of this on almost every subject.

 

[QueenDarthAphrodite]

I’d never shame someone over what they enjoy xxxx

 

[QueenDarthAphrodite]

I’m just loving all the personal stories I’m getting in my inbox, it’s lovely to connect with such beautiful people xxxx

Don’t loose hope if I haven’t gotten to you yet

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I’d never shame someone over what they enjoy xxxx

I was going to send a response privately, but I decided that I have nothing to be ashamed of. Also, this identity is not linked to my real one.

So, when I was working full time, under a lot of pressure, I had a lot in the way of submissive urges and fantasies. I tried out a couple of experiences, with professionals in the field. I found that I enjoyed it, but I more or less was able to get the particular fantasy out of my system by acting on it.

So, I had one session that included bare ass spanking with my erection held firmly between her thighs. She followed that with some restraints and prostate stimulation. I did not enter subspace, but I found it very intimate, I really enjoyed that she took charge, and she allowed me a very satisfying climax. But after that, I had no desire to repeat.

I had another experience with an enema, followed by pegging. Again, it seemed intimate, intense and satisfying, but it felt like I had it out of my system.

Finally, I have been tied, blindfolded and subjected to various forms of not terribly painful stimulation. I guess I could do that again. Being restrained and giving up control still has its appeal. But it si no longer an overpowering urge.

Oh, and I do still have a JOI fantasy.

 

[QueenDarthAphrodite]

To all you lovelies out there

I had to say this publicly, the beauty and the pain of the PM messages you’ve sent me is so wonderful.

OMG You are all such beautiful people!

 

[QueenDarthAphrodite]

To the lovely shy guy who sent me his You Tube channel link, you left the chat before I had a chance to tell you what I thought babes.

I tried to message you but I think you might of blocked me!

If you’d like to message me again I’d be happy to tell you what I thought

 

[RIPAphrodite]

Hello to all you beautiful people


This is a final message for all the amazing people that PM’d me in the last few days.

I was looking to understand from the male perspective why men liked giving up control to a woman and why some take that to such extremes.

I’ve loved talking with you all but sadly a few hours ago I was banned. I’m upset and I’m sad but I’m not here to cause trouble I just wanted to say goodbye

To whatever moderators are reading this, please don’t ban this, as this will be my last post and I just wanted to give a mental hug to the people that took a risk and opened up to me.

Take care of yourselves babes

RIP QueenDarthAphrodite

 

[RIPAphrodite]

Update:

If you message me talking about something you’ve sent my previous profile you need to know that I can’t access that anymore, so you need to send it to this one.

As soon as I’ve answered all my outstanding messages I’ll be leaving the site for good

Be safe you beautiful people and always love yourselves

 

[Vitriolhack]

There have been books written on the subjects you are asking about.

Not everyone is the same or have the same kinks a lot of them overlap.

You can desire to see your wife ducking another man but not necessarily want to be subjugated by her or her lovers.

Like they say, to each their own, as long as it’s between consenting adults and no one gets hurt, Have fun with it I say!

 

[RIPAphrodite]

There have been books written on the subjects you are asking about.

Not everyone is the same or have the same kinks a lot of them overlap.

You can desire to see your wife ducking another man but not necessarily want to be subjugated by her or her lovers.

Like they say, to each their own, as long as it’s between consenting adults and no one gets hurt, Have fun with it I say!

Reading books isn’t the same as getting it straight from the horses mouth hehe. I love the raw and uncensored answers I’ve gotten from some really amazing people

 

[Vitriolhack]

Of course, nothing beats clinical experience!

 

[RIPAphrodite]

Of course, nothing beats clinical experience!

That’s so stupid and funny that it’s bloody brilliant!

 

[RIPAphrodite]

As I near the end of my once very full inbox I just want to say how much I’ve loved talking to all the amazing people I’ve crossed paths with and I’ll be leaving on the 24 December

 

[kennedy1998]

I’m curious to understand from a male perspective why men enjoy submitting to a woman. Why they enjoy things like humiliation, cuckolding, blackmail, being pay pigs, Sissification/Feminization etc

I’m not out to name and shame so if you’d peer to PM me rather then post here it will be strictly confidential.

I know why I enjoy the power of having a man worship me, I’m just curious what it’s like from the guys positionView attachment 2178964

The freedom that letting go of decisions and responsibilities provides. The thought of being at the mercy of a female making me as much of a female as I can be is intoxicating!

 

[RIPAphrodite]

The freedom that letting go of decisions and responsibilities provides. The thought of being at the mercy of a female making me as much of a female as I can be is intoxicating!

Brilliant wording

 

[kennedy1998]

Thanks, any possibility of you helping me with that?

 

[VoraciousValue]

The freedom that letting go of decisions and responsibilities provides.

That's the appeal of this idea to me. I don't see it as feminization, etc. It's just a woman telling me how she wants to be pleasured. Which saves me the worry of getting it wrong. Mind you, this is all academic to me.

 

[shymalea]

The freedom that letting go of decisions and responsibilities provides. The thought of being at the mercy of a female making me as much of a female as I can be is intoxicating!

the feeling you submit yourself totally to a woman is such a turn on,it makes me feel slutty&humiliated and in the back oof my mind knowing that if i can,t please her she,s gonna take another dick to satisfy her is so powerfull,letting me know i belong down at her feet&high heels,and feeling proud to be there licking&kissing her shoes&toes

 

[OnaTangent]

It is as rewarding to give as to receive

 

[RIPAphrodite]

Mmmmm theses answers are so kinky and personal, I love the mash up of sex and power

 

[shymalea]

Mmmmm theses answers are so kinky and personal, I love the mash up of sex and power

confessing all your kinky fantasies&fetishes to women,controlled &used should be a daily routine for men,women are so much more smarter&sexy and beautifull it must be a honour for all men if they can do this,so women please start making men your slut now!!!