M44 looking for online relationship with dominant female to explore newfound submissive side

SUBUrbandDad

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Hi! I’m a 44 year old white straight man from Denmark.

I am recently divorced and did not have sex for the last two years of my marriage. As I have always been very horny by nature, this lack of sex drove me to Internet porn to satisfy my needs. Unfortunately this introduced me to all the perversions the Internet had to offer, and it didn’t take long before I started fantasizing about femdom and submission and time only drove me further and further down that rabbit hole. These days it’s all I think about.

In real life, I have always been completely vanilla and never done anything remotely kinky in the bedroom.

Now that I am suddenly single again, I want to pursue this newfound side of me, so I am looking for a dominant female partner for a long term online relationship where I get to serve and please you and you help me explore my submissive side and all the fetishes that come with it. I have few limits (that I am aware of), just no scat and blood. Other than that, I’m very eager to try everything at least once.

Some of my biggest fantasies are: body worship, facesitting, orgasm control/denial, anal insertion, forced anal, pegging, humiliation, feminization, dubcon, forced bi, milking and probably many more that I do not know about yet.

So far all of this has been only that: fantasies - but I want to change that. I want to see how far I can be pushed (secretly). Part of me wants to be turned into a secret slut. I am not looking for a total power exchange kind of thing, but something with more focus on the sexual side. Someone that can develop my slutty side, but ideally with a caring relationship as well.

The fine print:
I do value my privacy, so I have a couple of ground rules.
  1. I have three daughters that live with me every other week. They can never be involved in my perversions. It has to stay my (our) dirty little secret. This also means that those weeks, I will be less available, but still able to text during the day and play during the late evenings/nights. The other weeks I’m all alone and yours to command.
  2. No last name.
  3. No face pics - but I am willing to share pictures of myself otherwise. It would be a great bonus, if you are also willing to share some pictures, as physical attraction is a major driver for my horniness.
  4. No financial involvement. That means no findom, no tribute or fees.
I am tall (190 cm) and relatively slender (85 kg). My penis is an average (maybe slightly below) 15 cm and I have always had a tendency to prejac.

If you think my profile sounds interesting, please hit me up. I’m happy to tell you more about all my dirty fantasies.

Thank you for reading. :)
 
As a professional paid bitch I would advise you to watch out for findom girls like me befriending you and then springing the tribute move on you later.

You seem nice and decent and you are leaving your jugular vulnerable.

Keep your guard up ok, best of luck 👍
 
As a professional paid bitch I would advise you to watch out for findom girls like me befriending you and then springing the tribute move on you later.

You seem nice and decent and you are leaving your jugular vulnerable.

Keep your guard up ok, best of luck 👍
Thank you for the unexpected caring advice, my Sith Queen. I do try to be careful, and not share my full name or any pictures with my face.

But some of the other pictures (and videos) I've shared so far are absolutely humiliating, and I would definitely die from shame if they were ever exposed and linked to me. So far I've been lucky that the few people I've found and exposed myself to have (to my knowledge) kept the footage to themselves. It is a constant concern, but also part of the kink, I believe.
 
Thank you for the unexpected caring advice, my Sith Queen. I do try to be careful, and not share my full name or any pictures with my face.

But some of the other pictures (and videos) I've shared so far are absolutely humiliating, and I would definitely die from shame if they were ever exposed and linked to me. So far I've been lucky that the few people I've found and exposed myself to have (to my knowledge) kept the footage to themselves. It is a constant concern, but also part of the kink, I believe.
Just be careful you don’t end up getting blackmailed…it’s what an ex to me has done very recently
 
As a professional paid bitch I would advise you to watch out for findom girls like me befriending you and then springing the tribute move on you later.

You seem nice and decent and you are leaving your jugular vulnerable.

Keep your guard up ok, best of luck 👍
that happened to me once
 
that happened to me once
It’s messy and you need to go into something like that with your eyes open. Some of them are decent about it and I don’t want to paint them all the same.

But it’s the bad ones that stick in your mind and I do have girlfriends that have not treated people particularly well.

So to anyone reading this if you’re going to step into that world you really need to be careful and keep your eyes open all times.

They need to make a living and we all know the cost of living is going up but Just make sure at the end of the day it’s fun for you.
 
It’s messy and you need to go into something like that with your eyes open. Some of them are decent about it and I don’t want to paint them all the same.

But it’s the bad ones that stick in your mind and I do have girlfriends that have not treated people particularly well.

So to anyone reading this if you’re going to step into that world you really need to be careful and keep your eyes open all times.

They need to make a living and we all know the cost of living is going up but Just make sure at the end of the day it’s fun for you.
Thankyou for the advice
 
Actually I do need some advice, I'm looking to explore my domm/sub side and I'd love some advice into how to get started
It really depends what you’re looking for , I assume you are looking online? Or Are you looking more to connect with someone and meet them in real life?
 
Hi! I’m a 44 year old white straight man from Denmark.

I am recently divorced and did not have sex for the last two years of my marriage. As I have always been very horny by nature, this lack of sex drove me to Internet porn to satisfy my needs. Unfortunately this introduced me to all the perversions the Internet had to offer, and it didn’t take long before I started fantasizing about femdom and submission and time only drove me further and further down that rabbit hole. These days it’s all I think about.

In real life, I have always been completely vanilla and never done anything remotely kinky in the bedroom.

Now that I am suddenly single again, I want to pursue this newfound side of me, so I am looking for a dominant female partner for a long term online relationship where I get to serve and please you and you help me explore my submissive side and all the fetishes that come with it. I have few limits (that I am aware of), just no scat and blood. Other than that, I’m very eager to try everything at least once.

Some of my biggest fantasies are: body worship, facesitting, orgasm control/denial, anal insertion, forced anal, pegging, humiliation, feminization, dubcon, forced bi, milking and probably many more that I do not know about yet.

So far all of this has been only that: fantasies - but I want to change that. I want to see how far I can be pushed (secretly). Part of me wants to be turned into a secret slut. I am not looking for a total power exchange kind of thing, but something with more focus on the sexual side. Someone that can develop my slutty side, but ideally with a caring relationship as well.

The fine print:
I do value my privacy, so I have a couple of ground rules.
  1. I have three daughters that live with me every other week. They can never be involved in my perversions. It has to stay my (our) dirty little secret. This also means that those weeks, I will be less available, but still able to text during the day and play during the late evenings/nights. The other weeks I’m all alone and yours to command.
  2. No last name.
  3. No face pics - but I am willing to share pictures of myself otherwise. It would be a great bonus, if you are also willing to share some pictures, as physical attraction is a major driver for my horniness.
  4. No financial involvement. That means no findom, no tribute or fees.
I am tall (190 cm) and relatively slender (85 kg). My penis is an average (maybe slightly below) 15 cm and I have always had a tendency to prejac.

If you think my profile sounds interesting, please hit me up. I’m happy to tell you more about all my dirty fantasies.

Thank you for reading. :)
I would love to take you under my wing and control and feminize you. but only on here. on here we can play any way we wish. I will send a pic of what I will look like in the fantasy
Mistress Robyn Dominique
 

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