Men are PIGS

[CharleyH]

Well not really lol, but now that I have your attention. It strikes me in writing that men are more fetish oriented than chicks. Sluts want SEX and men want THINGS? Never the twain meet. Is that it? The great divide?

 

[fifty5]

Sluts want SEX and men want THINGS? Never the twain meet. Is that it? The great divide?

On that score, I'm not a man. (Takes quick look inside undies.) No that's not right...

 

[rgraham666]

(Checks anatomy, all the male stuff is there. Double checks. None of the female stuff)

Confused now Charley. According to your definition, I'm a girl as I want sex and am uninterested in things.

Yet according to my anatomy, I'm a guy.

Maybe it's because it's been so long since I got any that even the most vanilla has approached fetishistic status?

 

[rgraham666]

Seriously, the great divide, in my opinion, is a false dichotomy dreamed up by men and accepted for the most part by both sexes.

 

[neonlyte]

There is nothing quite like splitting the Great Divide

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

Wouldn't toys count as things?

 

[CharleyH]

On that score, I'm not a man. (Takes quick look inside undies.) No that's not right...

So dont roll your eyes, then. Give us something.

 

[CharleyH]

Seriously, the great divide, in my opinion, is a false dichotomy dreamed up by men and accepted for the most part by both sexes.

Explain.

 

[kendo1]

I used to live on the Great Divide. Toowoomba.

 

[Guest]

Fetishes are just for men?

I know I don't want a Boy Scout in my bed.

I want a man.

I want rough, tumble, horny and wild, passionate, animal, lust-filled sex.

Oink. http://www.addis-welt.de/smilie/smilie/tier/sir-amile-maialina.gif

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

I want rough, tumble, horny and wild, passionate, animal, lust-filled sex.

Me too!!

 

[CharleyH]

Wouldn't toys count as things?

Not so shy any more, hunh? Answer the question don't dilly dally!

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

Not so shy any more, hunh? Answer the question don't dilly dally!

I have my moments.

Thinking about on the fetish stories I have written... yes they've all featured males. I'll have to do something about that.

 

[CharleyH]

Fetishes are just for men?

I know I don't want a Boy Scout in my bed.

I want a man.

I want rough, tumble, horny and wild, passionate, animal, lust-filled sex.

Oink. http://www.addis-welt.de/smilie/smilie/tier/sir-amile-maialina.gif

Did I ask this you bitch. Rough and tumble? I doubt you have seen it yet.

 

[rgraham666]

Explain.

They want the same things. They want hot, horny sex. They want to be cared for. They want what they want when they want it.

But back when women were property, the owners (men) started defining what women could and could not want. Since the men were usually in a position to make their definition stick, women had to go along with it.

After a while women knew nothing but what men wanted them to know. So their definitions of sex and relationships were men's.

We've lived with it for thousands of years now. We try to redefine it occasionally. Haven't had much luck so far.

 

[Guest]

Seems to me the evidence proves your theory wrong and even the opposite. Most of the men here aren't writing fetishes nor are they using "things". Meanwhile most of the women here have at least one story involving dildos or vibrators of one variety or another.

Perhaps it's the women who are pigs.

 

[Guest]

Did I ask this you bitch. Rough and tumble? I doubt you have seen it yet.

She taunts, she teases, she roars.

Have I seen evidence of this pleasurable abuse as of yet?

Hmmm????

You're gonna have to do better than that, baby.

 

[CharleyH]

(Checks anatomy, all the male stuff is there. Double checks. None of the female stuff)

Confused now Charley. According to your definition, I'm a girl as I want sex and am uninterested in things.

Girls are more interested in real sex I am sure Men are interested in the fantasy that women live out

 

[rgraham666]

Seems to me the evidence proves your theory wrong and even the opposite. Most of the men here aren't writing fetishes nor are they using "things". Meanwhile most of the women here have at least one story involving dildos or vibrators of one variety or another.

Perhaps it's the women who are pigs.

Oh, I've used toys in a couple of mine.

Girls are more interested in real sex I am sure Men are interested in the fantasy that women live out

Now I'm going to have to ask you to explain. Is there unreal sex?

 

[SeaCat]

Hello Charley,

I am a man. Am I a pig? Yes!!!!!!!!! Why do I say I am a pig? Because I like sex. The more the better. How do I like it? That depends on the circumstances.

Last night I fucked my wife up the ass and enjoyed every second of it, so did she. The night before we had fun when I came up and bent her over the futon and fucked her mindless. The night before that we spent about four hours just laying in bed exploring each others bodies with our tongues and fingers before getting into the main act. It's all good. We have a good friend whom I want to fuck, I also want to make love to her. (Yes there is a difference.) My wife concurs.

Do I like to use toys? Sometimes, they make it more intersting at times. With a toy I can make my wife scream several times bfore I even touch her.

That being said, and my admiting to being a pig, there are some things I wont touch. I don't do BDSM, nor do I do Rape even in fantasy. (Believe me if you have a weak stomach you don't want to know what I've done to rapists. )

So what is the problem with being a pig?

Cat

 

[dr_mabeuse]

Let's be clear here. Liking high heels or white cotton panties is not a real fetish. Psychologically speaking, a fetish must be able to substitute for a sex partner, or must be a sexual sina qua non, a "without which, nothing."

So it's either sufficient to cause arousal and orgasm on its own, or it's something you have to have to achieve arousal and orgasm. A shoe fetishist can masurbate to a shoe. An adult baby fetishist might be unable to achieve erection unless he's wearing a diaper. The smell of baby powder might be enough to get him hard. They just don't like it; they need it.

The modern word for fetishism is paraphilia, and it's well known that it's an overwhelmingly male phenomenon. They don't know why, but i suspect it has something to do with men's ability to get off on sexual symbols - a set of tits, long hair, red lips - whereas women seem to need the whole person and the social interaction before they get aroused.

That'll be one hundred and sixty-five dollars, please. Pay the nurse on the way out.

 

[Guest]

That'll be one hundred and sixty-five dollars, please. Pay the nurse on the way out.

Ah, but that's another fetish.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Girls are more interested in real sex I am sure Men are interested in the fantasy that women live out

Wellup, then- I'm a man for sure.
I fixate on an assortment of fetishes- some of them socially acceptable, like hair, butts in bluejeans, leather jackets. Certain singing voices.
I think many women besides me do this too- maybe they notice, maybe not.
I noticed however, because of my other fetishes, less socially normal- leather bondage gear, iron manacles- ah shit, I don't want to talk about it! LOL

"real sex" is not bad at all, don't get me wrong. BUt I don't think I ever had vanilla sex- not once in my life- without something playing in my head, even if I didn't tell my partner....
I hated, as a teen, what was considered "Lesbian sex" It bored me to tears. So, I hung with the gay guys.
It wasn't until much later that I figured out that what I wanted with and from another woman... was shared by many women from the dyke contingent. The queers.
So- I'm not a lesbian, I'm not "bi" I'm queer.
And I am fetishistic, and fantasiacal, and my genitals are female.... but not every woman is like me, and not every man is like me either!


Oof da, Charlie, you've sent me off on a tangent!

 

[Liar]

Now I'm going to have to ask you to explain. Is there unreal sex?

If there is, I wanna try it.

 

[Liar]

Really, Charley...women want sex, and men want things?

U sure u didn't get that the wrong way round? The common cliché is that men wants sex more than any thing, and women use sex to get things.

But then again, it's merely a broadsided cliché. Just like your statement.