Meeting Someone first time offline

[Crash321123]

I have a question. I'm a young man looking for a more mature woman. I've messed around for some time on personals websites, and I think I honestly found someone online. Shes nice, sweet, and very attractive, and best of all she wants to meet for the firt time. The question is, how would YOU go about it? I mean, I've talked with her awhile, but there are still a lot of "freaks" out there. I figured meeting in a public area and talking for awhile, but still, when the time coms, who's house would YOU go to?

 

[silkynsmooth]

Definitely meet in person...and then see where it goes from there. Dont' think about whose house...if it happens then it will happen and everything will go right.

Good luck to you!!

Silky

 

[Missingmeds]

Or an option is to get a nice hotel room and then you don't have to worry about it. Make sure you have your safe call set up and stick to the plan. Let someone else know all that you know about her, including her picture. There were a couple of threads on the How To board that you might want to do a search for as well as some very good information on the BDSM board in the library as well.

 

[done_got_old]

Since I'm from STL, why not meet somewhere in CWE? There are a lot of public places to choose from and you would certainly feel safe.

 

[omahaman2]

I think i can give some insight into this.I met someone from
lit who lived across the country from me,now she is my roommate,soon to be my wife. Silky,gives good advice. Dont worry about what will happen, whose house etc., if you click everything will fall into place. Before we met we agreed not to expect anything from the meeting. We decided that if we didnt click, at least we would have a new friend. One good suggestion usually made is that if one is worried about safety,bring a friend along until you feel safe,then they slip away.

Good luck,my friend!!!!! Take it slow,things worth waiting for are worth waiting for.