Maybe I'm Just Too Pollyanna

[His_kitty]

But I don't understand the constant bickering, snide remarks, insults and button pushing that goes on far too frequently.

Is it just amusing to some? Fun? If so, what makes it that way?

Maybe I'm wrong here in my thinking that those who need to constantly do the above mentioned things, has something really really lacking in their lives.

What about kindness and compassion? Respect? Treating other's how you want to be treated?

I know that a lot of people say that respect needs to be earned, but I don't feel that way. I try and give everyone respect until they've earned not to have it.

I do think that most people have good in them, sometimes it's buried under layers and layers of shit, but it's still there none the less.


But when you (speaking generally) constantly attack other's here or somewhere else, what joy does it bring you?

For those that don't play into it, what are your reasons for not?

 

[Eumenides]

I like fluff.

Fluffy fucks, too.

Bickering? What's that?

 

[Guest]

 

[Ham Murabi]

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[His_kitty]

I like fluff.

Fluffy fucks, too.

Bickering? What's that?

I'm with you chica. I can fluff with the best.

 

[LipsyPoos]

I sometimes think that people who do the constant bitching, griping, disrespecting, etc on places like this are those kinds of folks who are really really shy in r/l. Ya know the type...those who could and would never stand up and say what they really mean when push comes to shove in the real world. So, maybe this is just a way for them to vent all that frustration. Then again..some folks are just assholes...really can't blame em, I suppose. Genetics play a huge role, I'm sure. *grin

I guess I should admit here that I sometimes like to see the bickering and stuff. I'm sure that makes me sound like a bad person or whatever..but some of the stuff people come up with is damned funny...even if it is meant to be disrespectful. We all come here with the knowledge that there are those out there who thrive on being the obnoxious ass. And at one time or another, we've ALL laffed at a comment they've made. So, if we're here, I guess we're fair game for it. Either we choose to ignore it or to engage in it.

Ok, Ok ...enough of that. Did you get my pm earlier ? I was freakin out wantin to know WHAT that was. And, ahem, when ya gonna help me with an AV ?



lol @ Pollyanna, btw

 

[Eumenides]

I'm with you chica. I can fluff with the best.

Woohoo! Kitty Fluffing! Hair dryer, anyone?

 

[His_kitty]

I sometimes think that people who do the constant bitching, griping, disrespecting, etc on places like this are those kinds of folks who are really really shy in r/l. Ya know the type...those who could and would never stand up and say what they really mean when push comes to shove in the real world. So, maybe this is just a way for them to vent all that frustration. Then again..some folks are just assholes...really can't blame em, I suppose. Genetics play a huge role, I'm sure. *grin

I guess I should admit here that I sometimes like to see the bickering and stuff. I'm sure that makes me sound like a bad person or whatever..but some of the stuff people come up with is damned funny...even if it is meant to be disrespectful. We all come here with the knowledge that there are those out there who thrive on being the obnoxious ass. And at one time or another, we've ALL laffed at a comment they've made. So, if we're here, I guess we're fair game for it. Either we choose to ignore it or to engage in it.

Ok, Ok ...enough of that. Did you get my pm earlier ? I was freakin out wantin to know WHAT that was. And, ahem, when ya gonna help me with an AV ?



lol @ Pollyanna, btw

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I do think that those that constantly need to engage in fighting are probably very insecure hence the need to put other's down. *shrug*

You still don't know what my AV is? I really need to put another up if people can't tell it's my neck and cleavage they are looking it. lol And yes I got the pm, did you not receive yours?

Just let me know what you want hon, and I'll fix it for you.

 

[His_kitty]

Woohoo! Kitty Fluffing! Hair dryer, anyone?

I prefer finger fluffing.