Masturbation tips

[Arrow2891]

Some of my masturbation orgasms are decent, some good, some really bland. A few years ago, I used to masturbate in the shower, and had the best orgasms of my life. I have no interest in masturbating in the shower anymore, but I want to have that level of orgasms again. My best orgasms these days last 3 seconds tops. In the shower, the orgasms seemed to least 10 seconds, kind of building to the best part. It's like my penis felt out of control. I don't know why I can't have any more like that.

Can any guy on here relate to those kind of orgasms? Does anyone have any masturbation tips on how to make them feel like that again? Thanks.

 

[SweetErika]

What's different between the shower and how you're masturbating now? For instance, the heat of the shower could lead to increased blood flow and sensation, maybe you used a slick lube like conditioner then, had a really hot fantasy, masturbated less, teased yourself more before coming, or something else.

Whatever it was, perhaps you can try to replicate some of those aspects and add new things in to spice up your solo time. There are some ideas for that here, at sites like jackinworld.com and you might consider experimenting with things like prostate stimulation, toys, different (but safe!) lubes and fantasies. Try going more time between orgasms and teasing yourself, too.

 

[Arrow2891]

What's different between the shower and how you're masturbating now? For instance, the heat of the shower could lead to increased blood flow and sensation, maybe you used a slick lube like conditioner then, had a really hot fantasy, masturbated less, teased yourself more before coming, or something else.

Whatever it was, perhaps you can try to replicate some of those aspects and add new things in to spice up your solo time. There are some ideas for that here, at sites like jackinworld.com and you might consider experimenting with things like prostate stimulation, toys, different (but safe!) lubes and fantasies. Try going more time between orgasms and teasing yourself, too.

Thanks for the link. The only unique thing I remember was the water blasting on the head of my penis. I would lay down in the tub during the sessions.

 

[vandygal16]

Some of my masturbation orgasms are decent, some good, some really bland. A few years ago, I used to masturbate in the shower, and had the best orgasms of my life. I have no interest in masturbating in the shower anymore, but I want to have that level of orgasms again. My best orgasms these days last 3 seconds tops. In the shower, the orgasms seemed to least 10 seconds, kind of building to the best part. It's like my penis felt out of control. I don't know why I can't have any more like that.

Can any guy on here relate to those kind of orgasms? Does anyone have any masturbation tips on how to make them feel like that again? Thanks.

practice makes perfect!!

 

[NippleMuncher]

Orgasm is 95% mental. You can extend your orgasms mentally, willfully, at first. With time you allow yourself to just go with it and they will get longer. You won't necessarily produce any more volume of ejaculate, but the muscle spasms will last longer and be genuine when you give yourself in to them. Just my experience.

When you orgasm, allow yourself to really go into the sensation, the pulsing and muscle contractions. As you sense the feelings coming to an end, focus on your penis and the sensations of the orgasm/ejaculation and allow the residual convulsions to ebb forth. Don't be too quick to end the stimuli or to move out of whatever position your in (with or without a partner ). Allow the mental imagery to lock in and sustain the sensations. In subsequent sessions, build on what you've learned and experienced with the last.

 

[wildehafer]

Some of my masturbation orgasms are decent, some good, some really bland. A few years ago, I used to masturbate in the shower, and had the best orgasms of my life. I have no interest in masturbating in the shower anymore, but I want to have that level of orgasms again. My best orgasms these days last 3 seconds tops. In the shower, the orgasms seemed to least 10 seconds, kind of building to the best part. It's like my penis felt out of control. I don't know why I can't have any more like that.

Can any guy on here relate to those kind of orgasms? Does anyone have any masturbation tips on how to make them feel like that again? Thanks.

Yes. I can work myself up to orgasms that sieze me up for 10 - 15 seconds that I nearly blackout from. However the journey there was just as good as the climax.

If you want a quickie, that's what you'll get. To get the absolute nut busting ones takes time. Sometimes I can spend a couple of hours working up to it. Erection up, erection down, up down, but all the while it gets harder on every cycle, more swollen till it feels like a telephone pole.

When it's super hot and fat in your fist with the veins bulging out and the head feels like it's going to burst then you're getting close.

As previously stated 95% is mental. You have to be in the right frame of mind. We're very visual beasts. Have good material at hand (no pun intended) to feed the images to your brain. It might be Lit stories, web based porn vids or regular porn dvds.

The important thing here is read/watch what is in your innermost desire. It's often the taboo or out of reach/unattainable things that turn us on the most. It could be as simple as seeing two people fucking in just the position that you like to see or do yourself.

Don't forget the other parts of your groin. One hand stokes just as you like the other one working your nuts and scrotum. Pull em', squeeze em.

Don't be afraid to use toys. Anal dildo, testicle cuff, cock ring, whatever.

Experiment and find what works for you.

Important: be relaxed, make time for your personal session and no distractions!

Also, and this is a personal thing, I find the longer I work up to the final event the bigger load I produce. And from working up to that high I can normally get one or two more nice to very nice follow up climaxes in the next few hours with minimal stimulation.

One word of caution: if you're intending to bed a partner the next day you might not perform that well. Such intense solo sessions can really drain you. I've learn to "pace" myself now so I can still have fun with my lady when we do the business

Hope this helps!

 

[Arrow2891]

Thanks for the advice everyone. I'll try to really mentally dig into my fantasies from now on, during my sessions