Masturbation Advice & Discussion

[JustLiz]

Hiya everyone! I'm new here. A friend of mine who posts here referred me to the literotica.com forum. I visited once before prior to registering tonight and must say that I'm impressed with the literotica.com forum. I look forward to posting here! By the way, the friend who referred me to the literotica.com forum said I could get into a lot of trouble here. LOL! I do admit to having a perverted mind.

Oh, and while I'm here I'd love to get into masturbation discussions, as I enjoy the fine art of stimulating myself.

 

[Zen_Life]

It's nice to see that somone else sees masturbation as more than just getting off. It is an artform and needs to be given thoughts about sensations, variation, technique, and sometimes...aim.

 

[JustLiz]

It is an artform and needs to be given thoughts about sensations, variation, technique, and sometimes...aim.

Right on!

 

[Zen_Life]

I sent you one of those private messages, Liz.

In the mean time, what's a personal favorite for getting yourself off? Figners? Toys? Watching others? Etc....?

 

[midwestyankee]

Hiya everyone! I'm new here. A friend of mine who posts here referred me to the literotica.com forum. I visited once before prior to registering tonight and must say that I'm impressed with the literotica.com forum. I look forward to posting here! By the way, the friend who referred me to the literotica.com forum said I could get into a lot of trouble here. LOL! I do admit to having a perverted mind.

Oh, and while I'm here I'd love to get into masturbation discussions, as I enjoy the fine art of stimulating myself.

Hi JustLiz and welcome to Lit. You'll find a huge variety of interests represented here and many folks with valuable insights on all those interests. You'll also find places where people like to just hang out and visit. Since you list your location as N. Chicago, may I recommend the Chicagoland thread (the Playground) as a place where you might poke around sometime to find others from nearby.

Enjoy.

mwy

 

[JustLiz]

I sent you one of those private messages, Liz.

In the mean time, what's a personal favorite for getting yourself off? Figners? Toys? Watching others? Etc....?

In all do honesty, I'd have to say it's my dildo. However, I'm taken to a new plane of enjoyment when I'm watching a guy get off on cam while I'm using my dildo.

Since you list your location as N. Chicago, may I recommend the Chicagoland thread (the Playground) as a place where you might poke around sometime to find others from nearby.

Thanks for the suggestion!

 

[Zen_Life]

Even better than on cam is masturbation live. Nothign liek watching a woman play withe rherself right in front of me.

 

[JustLiz]

Yeah? I've done that for guys before. Quite the experience too!

 

[Zen_Life]

Excellent foreplay. Right down to getting that first orgasm out of the way so the one(s) you have during sex take much much longer to achieve. I love that anticipation too.

 

[JustLiz]

I like your thinking Zen_Life!

 

[Zen_Life]

Check you PM's again

 

[Caretaker]

Hey Liz, I love to chat about masturbating too so I thought I would give this thread a bump. Lets get this thread goin; How often do you masturbate? What kind of things do you think about? What makes you want to masturbate? What is your favorite masturbation experience? Fantasy?


Oh yeah, and I live in eastern Iowa and I have a cam

 

[IWantCandy]

I'm 28, married, and pregnant with my 4th child. I think my sex drive is higher now than it has ever been before. I masturbate at least 2 times a day (plus we have sex at least 4 times a week). I only use my own fingers...I like it best that way. When I'm getting off, I ALWAYS fantasize about being with another woman. My hubby knows this is a huge fantasy of mine, either as a threesome or just me and another girl, so we often talk about it during sex too.
My best experience lately was one night I was laying on top of the covers in bed, completely naked. I had my eyes shut and I was imagining going down on a friend of mine while my husband was tied to a chair in the corner forced to watch us without touching himself. As I was getting close to cumming, I heard my husband come in the room, but I didn't stop what I was doing and he didn't say anything, just started stroking himself. He came all over me at the same time I got off. I was incredible. Damn, I think I'd better go take care of myself...just thinking about it got me all hot again!

 

[florida guy]

I just love to watch my wife masterbate. It is just so sexy to watch a beautiful woman pleasure her self. Personally I masturbate 2 to 3 times a week in the shower, in addition to sex.

 

[JustLiz]

Hey Liz, I love to chat about masturbating too so I thought I would give this thread a bump. Lets get this thread goin; How often do you masturbate? What kind of things do you think about? What makes you want to masturbate? What is your favorite masturbation experience? Fantasy?


Oh yeah, and I live in eastern Iowa and I have a cam

Let's see... {sucking on a lollipop} ...

I used to masturbate every night when I began doing it 2 years ago. Now, it's more like 4 or 5 times a week. Maybe I should go back to doing it every night.

When I masturbate I like to think about being penetrated by a guy as I watch window media player files of guys jacking off those big hard cocks of theirs. Sometimes I'll think about the guy using the dildo on me or about lapping up the cum I see flow from those big hard cocks on the wmp screen.

I masturbate because I love the sensation that I get from it. It makes me feel quite relaxed and, for a time, I'm escaping life into my own little world of self-pleasure.

My favorite masturbation experience would be when I masturbate in my computer chair to the point I'm ready to fall out of it due to the orgasm. That's when it becomes really fun for me! AND really memorable for me!

 

[TirelessTongue]

To tell you the truth, I've had a Masturbation fantasy where I was Sexually mollested as a kid by the school nurse. Don't ask me why, but thinking about such a thing really turns me on. Maybe I just love it when women are forceful and willing to express themselves sexually.

 

[AvaAdore]

i lie on my back with my legs spread and knees near my chest. with my right hand i finger myself and with the left rub my clit. recently i have found that getting spanked while masturbating brings me to orgasm quicker than anything

 

[Caretaker]

Let's see... {sucking on a lollipop} ...

I used to masturbate every night when I began doing it 2 years ago. Now, it's more like 4 or 5 times a week. Maybe I should go back to doing it every night.

When I masturbate I like to think about being penetrated by a guy as I watch window media player files of guys jacking off those big hard cocks of theirs. Sometimes I'll think about the guy using the dildo on me or about lapping up the cum I see flow from those big hard cocks on the wmp screen.

I masturbate because I love the sensation that I get from it. It makes me feel quite relaxed and, for a time, I'm escaping life into my own little world of self-pleasure.

My favorite masturbation experience would be when I masturbate in my computer chair to the point I'm ready to fall out of it due to the orgasm. That's when it becomes really fun for me! AND really memorable for me!

MMMM Me too. I love to take my time as I surf in Literotica or for pics or cams of women masturbating and will edge for over an hour before stroking myself to a hip-twitching cum-spurting orgasm.

Because of my schedule I usually masturbate in the morning with a few evening sessions each week so I average 5 or 6 times a week. Thats a minimum even when I am in a relationship because I have learned - as a healthy active 52yo man - if you don't use it, you lose it.

I start out by thinking about a woman masturbating then as I get more excited I just wander through the sensual possibilities of where masturbating together would lead, my experience is that sharing masturbation liberates communication and more possibilities for mutual gratification.

I do like the escape in to my own self pleasure world. I do it because I don't have to depend on anyone else for this intense pleasure but at the same time it is also incredibly exciting to think about sharing such an intimate pleasure openly.

 

[MrBates]

Even better than on cam is masturbation live. Nothign liek watching a woman play withe rherself right in front of me.

Oh my! I couldn't agree more!
There's NOTHING sexier than sharing a little self pleasure LIVE AND IN PERSON with a partner; each of you providing the ultimate in inspiration to the other!

*shivers* . . . as he finds himself in a 'sharing' kind of mood!

 

[Monazwx]

Sharing? Please do.

 

[MrBates]

Well ? ? ?

Just what would you like to know?

 

[Guest]

I agree, masturbation is more than just getting off. I've masturbated and prolonged it for hours, making the orgasm that much more intense. It's especially fun if you have someone to share it with either in person, on webcam, or on the phone. It's almost like a religious ritual lol

 

[zorrro69]

question

Hi everybody!
I have read in one health magazine that the intensive male masturbation may cause premature ejaculation during the real sex acts. What do you think - is it true?

 

[Pornofan420]

Re: question

Hi everybody!
I have read in one health magazine that the intensive male masturbation may cause premature ejaculation during the real sex acts. What do you think - is it true?

I dunno. Define intensive. I kinda think that p.e. is not something likely to be brought on by excessive masturbation.

So, my wife and I went by Good Vibrations a little while ago and picked up their lube sample pack. I've been kinda down on astroglide recently. Maybe it was just the flavored stuff we picked up, but it felt like it lost it's slipperyness very quickly. I also wasn't huge on the Liquid Silk texture wise. I can't even remember what it was that I was down on, just that I tossed the packet 1/2 empty.

The Maximus is kinda nice. That one's gonna get a round 2. I think I'm leaning towards the greasier stroke-lubes. It feels a bit decadent, a bit louche to have separate mastrubation and sex lubes, but we do. We're zeroing in on the lube we like for sex because that includes oral and we'd like to find one that is tasteless and keeps a good slick. The Strawberry Astroglide didn't work out. Probe is next in the batting order. But for a stroke lube, the taste isn't an issue so it's all about texture.


I do try to keep my balls and the base of my cock shaved (plucked, actually), and when they get all slicked up, oh baby! Great solo or when getting a hand job. I highly reccommed it to you if you have yet to give it a try.

Be well,

PF420

 

[fhswarrior]

masturbation....great

I too love to watch my wife masturbate with her fingers or a vibrator.....fantastic and much better orgasms than when we are having intercourse......
Me masturbating causing premature jack when having sex with my wife? NO WAY....I love to jack off, alone and while she is masturbating too....we have great orgasms together stimulating ourselves or each other!!
I just wish my wife loved sex as much as I do. While we have sex about once a week, I masturbate four or five times that often......sometimes when I finish shaving my whole pubic area in the shower, sometimes just when alone and turned on to all the great folks here at Lit!!