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Re: Matthew....

babydoll2u said:
I'm able to be online alot of the day since I own my own business. Plus I'm online quite a bit at night after I put my son to bed....I'm usually online til around 1 or 2 am....I dont sleep much, dont like a cold bed


warm hugs

Peggy
I know the feeling of sleeping in a cold bed (empty).

Hope you made it through the hurricane with minimal issues!
 
fingers_larue said:
I for one would find it a big turn on to find out that my lady was on lit and that she was interested in other men and all that this would open up to us it would not ruin my marriage

Mmm Imagin the scenario, you meet on lit, exchange several warm messages on the board as we do, change to PM's as we do to get hotter, then messenger cos its more interactive.
You then decide to take the plunge and meet, you decide on a covenient public place for initial safety to find your on line lover is your partner:devil:
 
Here is a pic of me and my other hobby. It is G rated I've never made any X rated ones. Suppose I could I do Have a digital camera. I guess I'll stick to these unless prompted other wise.

Sorry about the cold bed. I hope you would think about all of us in hiding maybe that would help warm you up in the night.

:rose: Matthew
 
well now that I've seen a pic....

Matthewbn said:
Here is a pic of me and my other hobby. It is G rated I've never made any X rated ones. Suppose I could I do Have a digital camera. I guess I'll stick to these unless prompted other wise.

Sorry about the cold bed. I hope you would think about all of us in hiding maybe that would help warm you up in the night.

:rose: Matthew

I can imagine someone to warm me up ;)

warm hugs

Peggy
 
Re: Re: Matthew....

HairTrigger said:
I know the feeling of sleeping in a cold bed (empty).

Hope you made it through the hurricane with minimal issues!


yes ... the same kind of bed here....we sleep separately, have for over a year *sigh*


the hurricane turned suddenly and went south and east of me. SO much destruction....i went down with a relief caravan to help deliver food and water...it was awful. Please keep these ppl in your prayers.


Thanks so much for asking, sweetie

warm hugs

Peggy :kiss:
 
I would love to post a pic....

Matthewbn said:
Here is a pic of me and my other hobby. It is G rated I've never made any X rated ones. Suppose I could I do Have a digital camera. I guess I'll stick to these unless prompted other wise.

Sorry about the cold bed. I hope you would think about all of us in hiding maybe that would help warm you up in the night.

:rose: Matthew



of myself, however I don't have any recent ones to post. Yes, I know...a photographer and no pics of myself?!!? *GASP* lol...if you've ever tried it, it IS a bit difficult to snap your own pic.

Ummmmm...perhaps one of you kind gentlemen would volunteer to come to my studio and do it for me? ;)


warm hugs :kiss:

Peggy
 
Re: I would love to post a pic....

babydoll2u said:
of myself, however I don't have any recent ones to post. Yes, I know...a photographer and no pics of myself?!!? *GASP* lol...if you've ever tried it, it IS a bit difficult to snap your own pic.

Ummmmm...perhaps one of you kind gentlemen would volunteer to come to my studio and do it for me? ;)


warm hugs :kiss:

Peggy

We've had hurricanes, tropical storms........and now you want to cause a STAMPEDE, Peggy??????!!!!!

(chuckle)



:kiss: :kiss:
 
Peggy,

You have a studio full of photographers to help you out now. If not I would do it for you. :D
 
LOL.....

Matthewbn said:
Peggy,

You have a studio full of photographers to help you out now. If not I would do it for you. :D


well....noone has actually shown up yet! *sigh* ;)


Peggy
 
Has anyone gone through and seen on the 20 pages just how many differnt people are in our boat?
 
Yes Matthew....

Matthewbn said:
Has anyone gone through and seen on the 20 pages just how many differnt people are in our boat?


I've read every one of them. Sad isn't it?
Most of them seem to be from men whose ladies aren't interested in sex anymore....only a handful of ladies in my boat.


warm hugs :kiss:
Peggy
 
Was wondering around today and found this thread. Very interesting, as L and I have kinda wondered/joked about this very subject on several occassions.

To be completely honest, I am shocked, yet not amazed at how many people are hiding this site and being secretive. I completely understand why. I for one wouldn't ever stay with someone that I couldn't be my complete honest self with. If they dont like me for who I am, then they are obviously NOT my soulmate.

I am lucky though, L and I are married, we both post, and we both love the site.

I found the site several years ago. We both enjoy porn, and "forum" type stories. Once finding this site, I told L right away about the stories. Sure saved some money from buying those Penthouse stories....LOL. We both read the stories and such for a few years.

Then one day, bored, I happened to check out the rest of the site. Found the Message boards, and WOW......what a new world to be seen. Me and L have different computers, different emails, ect.....so I didn't actually "hide" the fact I had found the message boards.....Just didn't really think to tell her. Probably about a few months after finding them.....we were having a conversation...and It happened to pop in my mind ...and told her about them.

We have both been posting and taking pictures since. It really has improved our sex life. We both get off on the comments we get, as they are a big ego booster. It is also exciting to know that they also excite others. We love to correspond with other couples on here, as it seems so much more "real life." The singles on here are great too, yet you always wonder......are they hiding this from their significant other. That is kinda a turn off. We understand why some people need to do that.....yet not anyone we could actually "click" with...due to the fact everything is hush hush.

Anyways....Very interesting to see what is going on. I would actually recommend that everyone that is "hiding"......drop some hints, or be blunt. It may really suprise you to find out your SO is doing some of the same stuff?!?!?

T
 
Turboguy,

I envy what you and your wife have. I had that for a brief point in my relationship with my wife. We had even gone as for as to meet another couple. Nothing happened we just went to dinner. But then things changed. Now she wouldn't even think of on-line fun. We still rent porn though and watch that sometimes. And we have quite a few toys we use while having sex. So it seems I kind of get mixed messages from her.
 
mixed messages.....

Matthewbn said:
Turboguy,

I envy what you and your wife have. I had that for a brief point in my relationship with my wife. We had even gone as for as to meet another couple. Nothing happened we just went to dinner. But then things changed. Now she wouldn't even think of on-line fun. We still rent porn though and watch that sometimes. And we have quite a few toys we use while having sex. So it seems I kind of get mixed messages from her.


hell I'd rather have mixed messages than to have no messages at all lol.
Sorry Matt... I don't mean to make fun...i think the frustration may be getting to me.



warm hugs
Peggy
 
My wife knows that I play around on the internet, but she doesn't know what I do.

The thing is, I tried to get her to go online with me into chat rooms to have some fun. But she just didn't get into it, so she lets me have my fun.

Now, I don't know if she "secretly" plays online or not, if she does I haven't been able to find any evidence of it.
 
I am also married. My husband for the most part doesn't know I talk on here. But if he was to ask while I'm posting a message or otherwise, I would tell him. I have nothing to hide. I just don't volunteer things.
 
Tried to get my wife to go into a few chat rooms I used to hang out, and when she did, she tried it but was not impressed, so now I use the internet myself, as far as I know, and well no one is getting hurt by it.
 
hi ch.....

ch0415 said:
Tried to get my wife to go into a few chat rooms I used to hang out, and when she did, she tried it but was not impressed, so now I use the internet myself, as far as I know, and well no one is getting hurt by it.


where in florida do you live? I'm on the westcentral coast, an hour north of Tampa.

Welcome to the list...we all embrace each other here, so feel free to be you ;) You're welcome to pm, im or email me...my info is in my profile
 
Hi Tyreesis and Wicked....

wickedgirl said:
I am also married. My husband for the most part doesn't know I talk on here. But if he was to ask while I'm posting a message or otherwise, I would tell him. I have nothing to hide. I just don't volunteer things.



welcome to the list. Please feel free to vent and just be yourselves...we all embrace each other here.
 
Does anyone else see the irony in that most single people are searching for a lifemate/spouse ... yet there are so many married people who have grown bored through monotony or circumstance? Where's the happy middle ground? Is it remaining single yet having a series of fulfilling long or short term relationships?
 
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