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I'm engaged, and he doesn't know ... I want to tell him, but I'm not sure how he will react. We're a very sexual couple, most of the time, at least once a day - but, I usually initiate. Still looking for the guts to do it ... but then, I'm new here myself ...
 
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nope

My wife doesnt know and woudlnt understand at all. Some secrets are good and keep you healthy and sane.
 
Been a lurker for a long time

My wife isn't open minded at all and has no real interest in sex anymore. So I come here to let off steam, as it were. I've lurked on different boards for a long time, but I promised myself that I was going to start posting and getting involved.

So here I am.....LOL:D
 
Re: Been a lurker for a long time

robjul said:
My wife isn't open minded at all and has no real interest in sex anymore. So I come here to let off steam, as it were. I've lurked on different boards for a long time, but I promised myself that I was going to start posting and getting involved.

So here I am.....LOL:D
Welcome to the club my friend, its a sad state of affairs there are loads of us:( There are some lovely like minded people here though your far from alone
 
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Hi all..........

Have to say that I have been around the Lit boards for almost 2 years now......................

I am one of the lucky ones my husband introduced me to lit before we were even a couple...................

We both post & flirt with with freedom................

We know that the other can see or check were the other has been................

But more often then not we point out a post to each other that we both should check out...................

I believe we are lucky to be able to share a place like Lit with each other...................
 
Thank you, _pebbles, for posting this thread. I'm married but for the past five years there has been virtually no sex in our marriage. (It all started to go downhill about the time my father died, which threw up some disagreements within the family.) We're both too lazy to break up and start again. She knows I use pornography, and doesn't like it - so I use it behind her back. I'm not proud of this but I'm not apologising for it, either - it's just what turns me on now.

Pictures and dirty stories are great - and they are even better when followed up with some spicy correspondence with the women in the pictures or the women who have written the stories. I love the idea of a secret correspondence with someone like you, _pebbles. Is this allowed...?
 
Pebbles

Gus Aspar said:
Thank you, _pebbles, for posting this thread. I'm married but for the past five years there has been virtually no sex in our marriage. (It all started to go downhill about the time my father died, which threw up some disagreements within the family.) We're both too lazy to break up and start again. She knows I use pornography, and doesn't like it - so I use it behind her back. I'm not proud of this but I'm not apologising for it, either - it's just what turns me on now.

Pictures and dirty stories are great - and they are even better when followed up with some spicy correspondence with the women in the pictures or the women who have written the stories. I love the idea of a secret correspondence with someone like you, _pebbles. Is this allowed...?
/////////////////////////////////////Pebbles i want more Im greedy i want some One on one contact for both of ours pleasure.
 
Smilin Angel

SmilinAngel said:
I'm engaged, and he doesn't know ... I want to tell him, but I'm not sure how he will react. We're a very sexual couple, most of the time, at least once a day - but, I usually initiate. Still looking for the guts to do it ... but then, I'm new here myself ...
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Why dont you PM me smilin angel and we can talk about it and other things.
 
oz_aka i think im in love

oz_akasha said:
Hi all..........

Have to say that I have been around the Lit boards for almost 2 years now......................

I am one of the lucky ones my husband introduced me to lit before we were even a couple...................

We both post & flirt with with freedom................

We know that the other can see or check were the other has been................

But more often then not we point out a post to each other that we both should check out...................

I believe we are lucky to be able to share a place like Lit with each other...................
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Baby I think im in love
 
I am a 24 year old married man. My wife doesn't know that I surf here at all. She tends to get very jealous, but, to me, it's all innocent. I'm just here to look for new friends and new ideas.
 
Re: trend

sundragon22 said:
I think I am begining to see a trend here, it seems to me that a lot of women are losing interest in the sex life part of their relationships. I am however curious about the whole picture.
I am by no means being judgemental, but I have to wonder what the other side of the coin is. It puzzles me, and perhaps there are other things wrong with the relationship and the lack of sex is just a by product.
I have not chatted with anyone to delve into this aspect, so if anyone has an opion, I would be very interested to hear it.

I've been married 20 yrs. For the last 10 years my wife has all but lost all intrest in sex. We are I guess middle class career people with teenage kids. I've tried about everything one could try to spark her intrest but to no avail. For her sex once every two to three months is all she feels is needed. I am totally different I can go three times a day everyday lol. For the first 4 years of our relationship the sex was pretty hot and wild and then it was like the faucet was turned off after our second child was born.

She doesn't know I come here and would totally object as she would if she knew of the two or three lovers I have had in the last 5 years. So I guess I'll keep looking for that other lonely housewife that I know is safe and keep my sexual drive going.
 
my fiance knows... she even started posting herself...

it's more fun that way...no guilty feelings...
 
Re: Been a lurker for a long time

robjul said:
My wife isn't open minded at all and has no real interest in sex anymore. So I come here to let off steam, as it were. I've lurked on different boards for a long time, but I promised myself that I was going to start posting and getting involved.

So here I am.....LOL:D

Welcome rob, I hope you enjoy your visits. :rose:
 
Re: Re: trend

dreams4sale said:
I've been married 20 yrs. For the last 10 years my wife has all but lost all intrest in sex. We are I guess middle class career people with teenage kids. I've tried about everything one could try to spark her intrest but to no avail. For her sex once every two to three months is all she feels is needed. I am totally different I can go three times a day everyday lol. For the first 4 years of our relationship the sex was pretty hot and wild and then it was like the faucet was turned off after our second child was born.

She doesn't know I come here and would totally object as she would if she knew of the two or three lovers I have had in the last 5 years. So I guess I'll keep looking for that other lonely housewife that I know is safe and keep my sexual drive going.

Thank you for being so candid dreams, I really appreciate the input. :rose:
 
Re: Can You Do Me Please

merlin797 said:
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So Sun Dragon Can You Do Me Please.

Merlin, tell me, do you lurk anywhere else or is it only here?
Just curious.
 
sdedalus said:
my fiance knows... she even started posting herself...

it's more fun that way...no guilty feelings...

Thats the best way to go.

I am glad you are not hiding it.

Thats refreshing. :)
 
Jersey

lovetoread said:
Thats the best way to go.

I am glad you are not hiding it.

Thats refreshing. :)
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I live in jersey where is cuteasabug at i never saw it before
 
My better half is also on Lit. He's TennesseeMe. We are very open and honest with each other and share experiences as often as we can,:) :p
 
Re: Jersey

merlin797 said:
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I live in jersey where is cuteasabug at i never saw it before

Its my own private area. :)

Its near Budd Lake.
 
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