Married Posters

[stubnib]

I used to worry about what my husband would think of me if I really let myself go (although I'm still holding back, I don't want to shock the poor dear!) stubnib I bet your wife is just embarassed. Let's face it, we women are brought up thinking that if we crave dirty nasty things that we are sluts (although I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman enjoying a full sexual life) I really don't know how to get him to let me be the exhibitionist that I am (it does get me sooooo hot!) Anyone here have any ideas??? Give a girl a little help?

Olderwoman,

You could be right ... she complains that she is getting older (42) and old women don't do those things anymore. She was brought up conservative though she admitted that she envied and admired an old girlfriend of mine who was an exhibitionist and loved group sex.

I agree with you, there is nothing wrong with a woman enjoying her full sexuality. I used to joke with my old girlfriend that she was a woman that thought like a guy

As for advice, I'll leave it to others. BTW, where from in IL, used to live in Chicago and am still a big Cubs fan.

 

[zukethecuke]

I used to worry about what my husband would think of me if I really let myself go (although I'm still holding back, I don't want to shock the poor dear!) stubnib I bet your wife is just embarassed. Let's face it, we women are brought up thinking that if we crave dirty nasty things that we are sluts (although I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman enjoying a full sexual life) I really don't know how to get him to let me be the exhibitionist that I am (it does get me sooooo hot!) Anyone here have any ideas??? Give a girl a little help?

Well, I'm sure you're going to have to do it gradually, but it might help if he saw there was something in it for him. When you dress up to go out, if you wear something a little more revealing than usual be sure he gets to see more than anyone else (when no one else is looking), and give him a little more of a pat and squeeze and grope than you usually do to let him know that when you feel sexy, he benefits.

I just wish my wife thought like you do!

-Z.

 

[stubnib]

I used to worry about what my husband would think of me if I really let myself go (although I'm still holding back, I don't want to shock the poor dear!) stubnib I bet your wife is just embarassed. Let's face it, we women are brought up thinking that if we crave dirty nasty things that we are sluts (although I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman enjoying a full sexual life) I really don't know how to get him to let me be the exhibitionist that I am (it does get me sooooo hot!) Anyone here have any ideas??? Give a girl a little help?

Olderwoman,

You could be right ... she complains that she is getting older (42) and old women don't do those things anymore. She was brought up conservative though she admitted that she envied and admired an old girlfriend of mine who was an exhibitionist and loved group sex.

I agree with you, there is nothing wrong with a woman enjoying her full sexuality. I used to joke with my old girlfriend that she was a woman that thought like a guy

As for advice, I'll leave it to others. BTW, where from in IL, used to live in Chicago and am still a big Cubs fan.

 

[stubnib]

Sorry for the double post! I hit the wrong button.

Z's got a point. Why don't you just ease him and yourself into this. I also wish my wife thought like you. What would work for me and I'm sure a lot of guys would be if you started wearing slightly more revealing clothes. Go with one extra button unbuttoned or a slightly shorter skirt. Heck, even higher heels to start. One thing that use to get me was a secretary at work (before they all got laid off) who wore short skirts until she got a talking to by HR. To indulge her exhibitionism, she wore different types of hose every day. One day it would be fishnets, another day it would be hose with a seam running down the back with a bow near her ankle. Heck, one time, she wore a skirt with a slit so high you could see that she was wearing stockings.

Anyway, that's just a perspective of a guy who appreciates women that like to show off.

 

[babydoll2u]

I would not tell my wife if you promess to keep it a secret

How do you prefer to use iot then ???

If you pass my way, I would made sure to break that dry spell

LOL.. you promised me the same thing sweetie...
haven't seen you yet
*half-teasing*

 

[babydoll2u]

OMG.. women complaining about being "older" at 36 and 42??
I'll be 45 this month and baby I'm just gettin' started lol

 

[hausfrau]

No doubt, Peggy!!!

 

[me oscar]

babydool.....only one word for you...yum!

 

[babydoll2u]

babydool.....only one word for you...yum!

thank ya

 

[babydoll2u]

No doubt, Peggy!!!

LMAO!

 

[me oscar]

foot rub sound good for you right about now.ms beautiful?


I message you on Yahoo

 

[BigGuyPA44]

Please...more MATURE

OMG.. women complaining about being "older" at 36 and 42??
I'll be 45 this month and baby I'm just gettin' started lol

Ah, but Peggy, you are an exceptional mature Babydoll

And we have many years of practice...and we know that practice makes perfect

As a have told you, I have been married for 25 years....20 of them happily

B

 

[babydoll2u]

Re: Please...more MATURE

Ah, but Peggy, you are an exceptional mature Babydoll

And we have many years of practice...and we know that practice makes perfect

As a have told you, I have been married for 25 years....20 of them happily

B

absolutely!

 

[ram1_2]

thank ya

I'll second that!!

 

[michaeka]

I'm on here without my wife knowing.

 

[mwm50va]

I do

I just found this place married 50 and male... will be posting more

 

[Born_in_Texas]

I'll add mine to the list. MWM, 45, travel all over TX. PM if interested.

Like that will ever happen. If I were MWF, I would have 100 PMs by the end of the day! lol

 

[gcstudly]

Adding mine to the list as well.

43/M/ Northern VA

Would love to hear from anyone out there.

Hi

 

[hausfrau]

I'll add mine to the list. MWM, 45, travel all over TX. PM if interested.

Like that will ever happen. If I were MWF, I would have 100 PMs by the end of the day! lol

Actually, I think you'd be surprised at the lengths we MWFs have to go to.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Actually, I think you'd be surprised at the lengths we MWFs have to go to.

All the way to Massachusetts?

 

[hausfrau]

I've always wanted to visit.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I've always wanted to visit.

Mmmm.
How far North are you?
And what would you like to do when you get here?

 

[babydoll2u]

I've always wanted to visit.

You go G/F!

 

[Born_in_Texas]

Actually, I think you'd be surprised at the lengths we MWFs have to go to.

BabyDoll knows how it's been for me. I got one message, hers.

It can't be too difficult, can it, Hausfrau. If Texas reached the Great White North, I'd be trying to get in touch with you. Maybe it's just geography.

 

[hausfrau]

I think it has an awful lot to do with geography -- be patient, be kind, and I think it will all work itself out.

MrMikelobe, not far enough north, unfortunately. I'm in Wisconsin.