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[Sex The Drug]

What do women who have had an affair with married men think about the man?

 

[Guest]

Depends on the Situation... is he leading her on or she leading him on, is it somthing that just happend or was it planned... these are just a few situations and I'm sure that there are many feelings about what is going on with them...

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[Jellybeangirl]

Your question is a little vague...is the woman single also? or can she be married?

 

[Sex The Drug]

It was vague. OK here are a few details.

1, she is single.
2, Knows he is married.
3, Says she is OK with it.
4, Says she is not looking for more.

I have told him that that can't be the case. In time someone will want more. Do you think that some women can have this and not be looking for more?

 

[KillerMuffin]

Yes, someone can have that and not want more.

The question is, what does his wife think about it. This sounds like a big recipe for shit hitting the fan.

 

[Nobody Special]

Depends on the Situation... is he leading her on or she leading him on, is it somthing that just happend or was it planned... these are just a few situations and I'm sure that there are many feelings about what is going on with them...

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This is My Post ..... sorry about the confusion

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[cellis]

It was vague. OK here are a few details.

1, she is single.
2, Knows he is married.
3, Says she is OK with it.
4, Says she is not looking for more.

I have told him that that can't be the case. In time someone will want more. Do you think that some women can have this and not be looking for more?

Well, well. well....

I never thought that I would see this question here... but here goes..

Yes, I'm single, know he's married and knew that from the beginning... am okay with it most of the time, and most of the time don't want more than what I have now with him....

There are times when I wish we could have more time together, but given my history of picking abusive men and having terrible relationships... this just seemed the lesser of all evils...

I don't answer to anyone but me... he doesn't pay my bills... therefore has no say in what I spend... doesn't clutter up my life most of the time...

I no longer have the need to procreate... and I am not looking for marriage at this point in my life.... he is not going to leave his family at this point in time... so it works well for both of us...

We work well together, spend more time on the phone and talking than most couples I know.... we compliment in each other in our needs and desires...

Is there guilt??? On my part some... but not enough to make me want to end it...

 

[cellis]

Yes, someone can have that and not want more.

The question is, what does his wife think about it. This sounds like a big recipe for shit hitting the fan.

I asked him about this once... and I guess for each person who cheates there is a different answer... I was satisfied with his... afterall, she is his wife... not mine, therefore she is his problem... not mine.. I cannot aford to worry about that relationship... that is for him to deal with, not me...

 

[SLAM]

wow...your deep cellis

 

[cellis]

Thank you, SLAM