Sniper_101
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North Carolina here, 57 y/o MWM, chk out my profile and PM me if interested
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Hey all, just wanted to see If anyone around Tennessee may want to chat sometime. I am married, but he travels frequently and just am looking for someone with similar interests.
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Hey all, just wanted to see If anyone around Tennessee may want to chat sometime. I am married, but he travels frequently and just am looking for someone with similar interests.
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Hey all, just wanted to see If anyone around Tennessee may want to chat sometime. I am married, but he travels frequently and just am looking for someone with similar interests.
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Insatiable, your post struck a chord with me regarding a past relationship. I was privileged to share a 5-year affair with a woman I met here on Lit. She had also spent some time on AM, and introduced me to that site.
The 'ah-ha' moment your comment spawned was this: Our relationship changed over time, but not in the way I could have predicted. At first, it was purely physical. Within 6 months, it had become powerful enough that we could express deep feelings for each other. The moment that emerged was unforgettable. But eventually we realized that we couldn't sustain that level of intensity.
From the beginning we knew neither would give up our marriages. As it became clear we were becoming emotionally entangled, it threatened our relationship. Neither of us could embrace our strong personal relationship and still hold it at bay.
Our solution, arrived at raggedly over a period of time, was to change our vocabulary and try once again for some distance emotionally. It was very difficult, and ultimately couldn't stand the test of time, but it bought us another couple of years.
So, what started out as NSA became anything but that. We tried for SSA (Some Strings Attached), which I still believe to be the best answer for those wishing to play outside of marriage. But it was hard to get there after Too Many Strings Attached, lol.
I love married men...
I love married men...
Ah, the eternal disconnect between male and female, and perhaps my own naïveté. An "affair" to me, meant so much more than bumping uglies. As it turns out, 99% of the men felt differently.