Married or Attached But Looking Thread

35 MWM Looking for someone to talk and flirt with. Everything else can evolve naturally. If you're interested in... well, anything but football really, I'd love to talk.
 
53 y/o married man. Looking primarily for open minded ladies on the west coast that would enjoy getting to know one another and some lively, fun, interesting chat. My profile tells the rest of the story, I would rather be totally up front and find something that works for us both.
 
36 years old, Triad area NC

I'd love to meet someone in real life - a lovely, sane, positive, sexy, fun person who would like a new spark in their life.
 
Married but Lonely...mom of 2

Hey all, just wanted to see If anyone around Tennessee may want to chat sometime. I am married, but he travels frequently and just am looking for someone with similar interests.

:)
 
Hey all, just wanted to see If anyone around Tennessee may want to chat sometime. I am married, but he travels frequently and just am looking for someone with similar interests.

:)

Take a look at my profile and if you want to chat, I'm around. Time zone issues a bit, but you never know.
 
Hey all, just wanted to see If anyone around Tennessee may want to chat sometime. I am married, but he travels frequently and just am looking for someone with similar interests.

:)

Hello
I would love to chat. Just PM if you see me on line! I am in Mountain Time Zone. :)
 
Hey all, just wanted to see If anyone around Tennessee may want to chat sometime. I am married, but he travels frequently and just am looking for someone with similar interests.

:)

Glad to chat if you want someone "local", just send a PM or reply
 
Hi all, 54yo mwm in sunny FLA looking for someone to chat with in the morning, any early risers?
 
Insatiable, your post struck a chord with me regarding a past relationship. I was privileged to share a 5-year affair with a woman I met here on Lit. She had also spent some time on AM, and introduced me to that site.

The 'ah-ha' moment your comment spawned was this: Our relationship changed over time, but not in the way I could have predicted. At first, it was purely physical. Within 6 months, it had become powerful enough that we could express deep feelings for each other. The moment that emerged was unforgettable. But eventually we realized that we couldn't sustain that level of intensity.

From the beginning we knew neither would give up our marriages. As it became clear we were becoming emotionally entangled, it threatened our relationship. Neither of us could embrace our strong personal relationship and still hold it at bay.

Our solution, arrived at raggedly over a period of time, was to change our vocabulary and try once again for some distance emotionally. It was very difficult, and ultimately couldn't stand the test of time, but it bought us another couple of years.

So, what started out as NSA became anything but that. We tried for SSA (Some Strings Attached), which I still believe to be the best answer for those wishing to play outside of marriage. But it was hard to get there after Too Many Strings Attached, lol.

Boy did I identify with this. I've been there and know exactly what you mean. I had one particular relationship with a married woman that went nearly 2 years as basically a "friends with benefits" "mutually satisfying" physical thing. We knew that we had to keep emotional distance and pretty much could stay "just friends" knowing that we each had families to consider.

We broke up thinking it was starting to get too close, but ended up back together again after nearly a year apart. She had tried with someone else and so had I but we knew that we just didn't have the same level of intimate friendship that we had with each other. We knew more about each other than anybody else in the world and we really knew each other inside and out. Our relationship continued another three years and finally ended graciously. I know there are some here that don't condone extramarital affairs, but this was something that was one of the best periods of my life.
 
Just checking this thread. 30 Male married :)
I do have experience making relationship outside of my marriage life. Found it hard not to be bound emotionally after you spend quality/sweating times together.
But i try to manage it by not making any schedule together, not doing daily conversation. We just meet when I need her and she need me.
 
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