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Hard69throb said:
I’m married and came to the forums seeking some sort of discreet connection and/or relationship to add some sexual spice to my life - it’s not looking for love because I have that but sexually it sometimes feels like a glass of soda that has gone flat. I find myself having urges that she just isn’t showing the interest in satisfying. I want to feel alive, feel desired and wanted in a sexual way
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Yes, I know what you mean. Sometimes I just feel like my wife has sex with me to appease me and not have me complain. Other than our sex life I do love her.
 
Poetryinmotionxo said:
I can’t be the only woman who gets turned on by the whole married men thing. Before being married myself I loved nothing more than fucking a guy knowing he was married. Making a point of doing things I know he doesn’t get at home. Love hearing him compare us.
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I've known a few who are into married men, but also quite a few that are turned off by it.
 
Several years ago, my now ex-wife admitted to cheating on me. She eventually did so three times. So I figured if she could so could I. She only knows of two. There were a few more than two.

I was still married and at least one of the women I was with was married, as well. The others loved that I was married.
 
Poetryinmotionxo said:
I can’t be the only woman who gets turned on by the whole married men thing. Before being married myself I loved nothing more than fucking a guy knowing he was married. Making a point of doing things I know he doesn’t get at home. Love hearing him compare us.
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Well, I get turned on by one married man in particular -- my Hubby.... But I know that's not what you meant. 😉

Pre-marriage, I've been with a few men who I knew were married or suspected were. But most of them were when I worked in a brothel, so that really is a different kind of thing.

Back in college, there was one guy I hooked up with who I knew was married. It was only a couple times, since I was all about casual hookups back then and rarely repeated. I did feel empowered knowing I did what his wife would not. But over time, I kind of feel guilty about it all when I think back on it.
 
I've been used by so many married men to fulfil sexual needs and kinks their lovely wives dare not even think about. namely Anal Intercourse. I feel sorry for them and give them my submissive best. They love it, as they know I will fulfil their every physical and emotional need. That's my role when with a married man. I am a cathartic experience to most of them.
 
HornyHaileyVasquez said:
You are not the only one! I know it's wrong and am ashamed of it every time! But, I have been with more than a few married men and enjoy it much more than I should. It feels so dirty and shameful! Which, makes it so much hotter and really turns me on. I can't explain it! But, it is the honest truth!
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That is spectacular view.
 
HornyHaileyVasquez said:
You are not the only one! I know it's wrong and am ashamed of it every time! But, I have been with more than a few married men and enjoy it much more than I should. It feels so dirty and shameful! Which, makes it so much hotter and really turns me on. I can't explain it! But, it is the honest truth!
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Well allow me to make u feel dirty
 
HornyHaileyVasquez said:
You are not the only one! I know it's wrong and am ashamed of it every time! But, I have been with more than a few married men and enjoy it much more than I should. It feels so dirty and shameful! Which, makes it so much hotter and really turns me on. I can't explain it! But, it is the honest truth!
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Yes, the thrill of it does tend to make it sound way more fun. I have yet to do anything with a woman but have with a men. My wife is super conservative in general and sexually. The idea of a hot wild time with another woman does sound rather fun.
 
kinked_a_bit said:
I don't remember looking specifically for married women, but I've certainly had my share of other men's wives. If they were dissatisfied at home, I didn't know. We weren't doing marriage counseling and a woman who talked about her husband wouldn't have appealed to me anyway. They were looking for fun, variety, a brief escape from their everyday routine. I gave it to them.

Never felt any guilt about it and still don't. After all, I did not make any promises to their husbands. As for what could happen, I don't live my life based on worst case scenarios. I did my part to help her avoid getting caught by sticking to rules about how and when we could communicate and meet. The women I was with were smart, mature, and capable. None ever got caught while we were seeing each other and likely didn't in subsequent affairs either.

It's not really worth much agonizing. Choose quality people. Do your part to avoid getting them caught. And remember, if it wasn't you it would certainly be someone else. Send her back to hubby happy and satisfied. He may not know why she's more pleasant or fun, but he'll probably like the difference.
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That works for both parties.
 
kinked_a_bit said:
I don't remember looking specifically for married women, but I've certainly had my share of other men's wives. If they were dissatisfied at home, I didn't know. We weren't doing marriage counseling and a woman who talked about her husband wouldn't have appealed to me anyway. They were looking for fun, variety, a brief escape from their everyday routine. I gave it to them.

Never felt any guilt about it and still don't. After all, I did not make any promises to their husbands. As for what could happen, I don't live my life based on worst case scenarios. I did my part to help her avoid getting caught by sticking to rules about how and when we could communicate and meet. The women I was with were smart, mature, and capable. None ever got caught while we were seeing each other and likely didn't in subsequent affairs either.

It's not really worth much agonizing. Choose quality people. Do your part to avoid getting them caught. And remember, if it wasn't you it would certainly be someone else. Send her back to hubby happy and satisfied. He may not know why she's more pleasant or fun, but he'll probably like the difference.
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Yes, I can see your point too. It sucks that society puts norms or rules on sex. We can take a member of the oppsite sex out to lunch, do them a favor like help them out say around the house by fixing the fence or something their spouse can't be oh having sex is off the list.
I was chatting with a women that I have known since college on Facebook. We almost went out but she was seperated not divorced yet. She is a few years older than me and I was in about 20 at the time. We talked a lot and she knew I was still a virgin and so forth. She was latina and her soon to be ex Latino. I feared some pissed Laitino coming after me for seeing his not yet ex wife. We crossed paths later as we transfered to the same four years. I had just started dating my now wife. So we didn't do more than just talk on campus.
Anyways back to out chatting on FB somehow sex lives came up. She mentioned her living with her BF is having medical issues form too much drinking and his meds killed his erections and that her firey latina can't get any. I said that is worse than my lower drive wife. It just sucks that societ shames us for things like that. Why can't I go help her have some sexual fun that she can't get at all as well as get my higher itch scratsched without being shamed by the norms of society. If I went over to mow her lawn because her bf can't that would be okay but I can't fuck her because he can't...
I think she is also sending mixed signals too she mentioned that cheating is wrong and asked if I had cheated on my wife due to her low drive and I said no. She also said that I should leave her if the sex is not good. I can't tell if she is trying seak something or not.
 
kinked_a_bit said:
Clarity might be available if you ask her some very direct questions. The answers, or the evasions, will probably tell you what's on the table and what isn't.

If going direct is difficult for you, maybe begin with something like, "You know, I've had a crush on you forever." It's non-committal enough that if she balks, you can easily pull back to, "Of course nothing can come of it." If she seems receptive, then it will be easier to be direct.

I'm planning to use this approach on my wife's best friend pretty soon. (Settle down out there! Wife loves the idea.)
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I could make an entire post on this I bet. She did mention that I turned her down twice but she forgot the first time she was only seperated not divorced so that changed her tune a little bit. The second time I was not sure but I was in a new and my only relationship that is still going at that time. Less than six months into the first woman (and only) woman I ever dated I didn't know how long it was going to last at the time. I didn't know if in a month I'd be single again to look her up or now 18 years later married to that woman for 16 years. I think we are both torn a little at this point and still have a crush or are curious about each other.
 
When I first started online, I would always tell women I was married. I assumed that would eliminate most candidates. Was shocked to see how many were actually excited by the idea of chatting/playing with a married man.
 
I have not chatted with her in months. Sometimes I think she just vents. She is twice divorced and got pregnant with her second daughter with a guy she had rebound sex with a few times after her last marriage or long term relationship ended. I work in Insurance and my boss spent a lot of time working on Life Insurance for her mom after another policy lapsed then she didn't follow through with it. In general I don't know what to think about her at times. I think it is turn I might still have a "crush" on her or wonder about the "what if " aspect of if I had dated her years ago or even just had some casual fun when I was free to do so. Reading all of these posts reminded me about some of the chats I've had with her.
 
kinked_a_bit said:
In order to avoid hurting or embarrassing her, decide what you are really willing to do before talking about it with her. Don't put either of you in the situation where you bring it up, she says yes, and then you feel it necessary to back out.
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I also find it intersting that she has no clue yet that I am bi too, not out as such, but her bf and I chatted for a bit on the Bro App" we both shared being secretly bi and that my wife has no clue and not on board and he said the same about her. He had a face pic and I didn't then he got of the app. He said she'd kill or leave him if being bi came out. I said same here. I can't find him online anymore so maybe he's off that app. I also kind of gave up on it.
 
Got married early this year. My wife and I are both bi and love inviting extras into our relationship...recently we had a beautiful young woman join us for some fun. The image of fucking my wife from behind as she ate her pussy, will always be in my mind. The eye contact I was making with the new woman as we both came was incredible
 
purplelavendar said:
Got married early this year. My wife and I are both bi and love inviting extras into our relationship...recently we had a beautiful young woman join us for some fun. The image of fucking my wife from behind as she ate her pussy, will always be in my mind. The eye contact I was making with the new woman as we both came was incredible
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Sounds delightful
 
I’ve had more than a few PMs go south on me (and not in a good way) once they realized I was married. One even totally went off on me. I put this fact in my bio to try to avoid such things but I guess not everyone checks those. So i guess women being into married men just isn’t a thing I’ve experienced personally. Thanks to you pro married men ladies in this thread for bringing my hopes back up.
 
I do understand the ethical considerations of being with a married man, but I feel as though the way they are thought of is often overblown or unbalanced. I have had sex with several married men. Not one of them was an innocent rube being led astray or a man in a weakened state being taken advantage of - those guys do exist but I wouldn't have sex with them in that context. The guys I have been with were making their own conscious decision about their commitments (not mine) to their wife.

Moreover I have always been clear with them that I am not interested in coaxing them into a long-term relationship. It will be sex and intimacy and fun, perhaps on an ongoing basis, but I have a husband and no intention of leaving him. In my view there is no home wrecker dynamic here. If that guy leaves his wife it isn't for me, because I've already told him that isn't going to happen. It will be because of other factors in his marriage. His tryst with me may have surfaced those factors but I am not the cause.

The practical reality is that people cheat for all sorts of reasons. That doesn't make it right but it isn't up to me to judge a man's reasoning - which is sometimes quite understandable even if he is simply choosing the least bad option for him. Those who make this into absolutes and black and white are living in a world of naïveté. If I think he is just a lizard or a rube or a man in weakened state I will steer clear....in much the same way as I would with a single man who is likely to be a jerk or even a decent guy who is just not well suited to a casual sexual relationship. But in my experience most guys don't fit any of this easy stereotypes and more often than not I send him back to his wife with a smile on his face and happy memories.
 
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