Making A Videotape...

[AnaIsabella]

I'm a sexually inexperienced (besides masturbation) 18 year old female. I have a huge crush (one of my guy friends) who wants me to make him a videotape of me masturbating. I'm all for it personally, except one thing. I'm very very insecure about my breasts. I'm a 36DD and I feel like they're so ugly (the nipples are soooo huge and kinda pale). I'm really scared that once he sees me naked he'll think I'm hideous, or he'll be unpleasantly surprised. Any advice? I know this sounds really weird but could I put makeup on my chest or something to make it look better, or make my nipples look darker?
I know this is a strange post but please help w/ any suggestions...

 

[RandomInk]

As a guy, and an 18 year old, breasts are breasts. I like a girl who have nipples I can play with. I have to advise against using any sort of makeup. It will only disillusion him and confuse him when he sees you naked in person. I would, however, not use a bright light when you videotape. Bright direct light on pale skin just doesn't turn out right, it's a fact, but there's something innocent about soft vanilla skin so don't be scared that he won't like it. Innocent looks and Naughty attitude in the same package is very good

 

[peachykeen]

I think you should be less concerned about what your nipples look like, and more concerned about this young man who sounds like he may be exploiting your insecurity and naivete.

 

[pointless]

as a guy, any girl who would actually videotape herself masturbating for nothing but my admiration would go down as weak willed slut in my mental roledex forever and ever and ever.

don't allow yourself to be seen as weak by other people, or they will walk all over you until they pound your soul to dust and they'll leave you their to rot and die as though they never knew you.

only trust people who prove their worth to you. treat everyone else with suspicion until they do.

i don't mean be bitter and paranoid, but you should always be on your guard for evil minded people.

 

[RandomInk]

They're right, I thought you two were dating or something.

My mistake, he doesn't sound like good news

 

[lustyem]

MAKING VIDS

hi i'm emmy, i wouldn,t do it unless your with the guy and you know him really well.trust me .be so careful ,who will he show ??

 

[jon.hayworth]

AnaIsabella,

I would reitterate the warnings the others have given, why does he want the tape and who will he show it to?

It could be that he wants to appear as Jack-the-Lad and show it to all his mates. Or he may even try to sell the tape, any tape to do with sex can find a market. Remember even if you get the original tape it only takes a few minutes to download a copy onto a PC and then any number can be produced.

Now if you want permit photos or videos to be made of you, the easiest way to darken your nipples is to either use proper stage make-up or a dark red lipstick.

The light problem Random Ink refers to is best controlled by shooting in daylight, failing that use a light source that has been diffused by bouncing from a white reflector - squares of white cardboard are very effective. Do not use tungsten bulbs or you may get a yellow/orange colour cast.

Hope all this helps - like I said be cautious or you may end up being displayed where you don't want to be.

By the way I know a lot of women who would trade their right arms to be 36DD. And videos of you masturbating with those breasts would sell. If you lived near me I'd be offering to pay to make the film and do a photo shoot - I have a market for the photo's - my advice don't do it unless you have cash in your hand because he will make money.

jon

 

[much2much]

There is nothing to be self conscious about. A woman who is willing to do a sexy masturbation video is exciting regardless of appearance.

 

[BlondGirl]

My own recommendation concerning the video is that if you really want to make one, do it. Just for yourself. Then watch it. Just for yourself.

If you are really thinking about giving this item to a guy, think about how your parents would feel watching it. Or your pastor. Or your future boss.

You are 18. Don't do something that could currently fuck you up. And especially don't do it for someone who just wants his jollies. If he wants to watch you playing with yourself, let him do it live.


Now, to address the issue about your breasts.

I always had very large breasts. When I was 20 and pregnant, I was up to an "H" cup. I did not even know such a thing existed until my sister took me to a specialty store. They were huge before I got pregnant as well.

I had always had some issues about the appearance of my breasts. I felt they were abnormal and dowright deformed since they did not look anything like the Playboy breasts demonstrates so much in the media.
Then I went to college.
I specialized in an area of healthcare that put me all over the hospital where I trained.
Including mammography.
During that 2 week stint, I saw only one pair of breasts that looked like Playboy would want them.
It was on an older woman who had received a breast reduction from her husband as a gift. Her kids were all grown and she and her husband were able to live for each other again.
Those were the only ones.

Now, I have seen even more tits. Old tits, young tits, baby tits, males with gynecomastia, small tits, nipples on a flat sheet of flesh, inverted nipples, small areola, 5 inch across areola, "average tits", big tits, huge tits, and OH MY GOOD LORD sized tits. It is really rare that I have seen tits that don't compare. If you want, check yours out in a mirror (not looking down at them, the appearance is very difference from the front) and then find a picture of some breasts similar to yours. Post it here if you wish to get the opinions of others.

My own breasts changed in size and "texture" after both my children were born and breast fed. Where they used to be very firm they are now soft and "mushy". Perfect pillows for my dog to rest his head on while I am reading. I have not had a lover complain about my tits unless I smacked him in the head forcefully while fucking. Granted, that serious head blow can be a seriously non-sexy distraction, it has never stopped the moment and has given reason for a chuckle later.

My last suggestion before I finally shut up:

If you are really so concerned about the "abnormalities" of your body, head out to a nudists' colony for a weekend. I did that myself to tackle my own self-image issues and it helped me tremendously.

Good luck.