Make-up Sex

McKenna

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What makes it so good?


I have this theory that it has someting to do with the emotionality of it. My thoughts aren't completely formed yet, and I'd like to hear what other people's views are on the subject.


Thoughts?
 
Possession. Getting back something you almost lost. Sometimes you feel like you're trying to nail her ass to the bed with your cock so she won't get away again.
 
I think the residual anger is a strong emotion, and sex is aggressive in its nature.

Combined, they make for a powerful force.
 
McKenna said:
Oh, ok. A serious reply...

It's like banging your head agaist the wall. It feels good when you stop.

Make-up sex occurs when you stop hating (or at least feeling anger) and starts loving again. It's not only the positive feelings expressed in sex, it's that good feeling in contrast to the negativity you recently felt, chanelled into action.
 
I don't do make up sex.

Now, everybody get your jaw off the floor. The reason why is most of the time, I feel as though the only reason he is trying to make up is just so he can have sex. Lots of issues there.

I'm sure we've had make up sex at some time in our relationship. It's just been so long, I don't remember.
 
dr_mabeuse said:
Possession. Getting back something you almost lost. Sometimes you feel like you're trying to nail her ass to the bed with your cock so she won't get away again.

Interesting thought, Zoot. I hadn't thought of it as a "possession" kind of thing. I can certainly see where it's viable though, from a male perspective.

Do any females experience this possessive feeling?



thambok said:
I think the residual anger is a strong emotion, and sex is aggressive in its nature.

Combined, they make for a powerful force.

So the element of anger adds something to it for you? Does it make you more aggressive, or is it just something you feel in the background but don't act upon?
 
McKenna said:
What makes it so good?


I have this theory that it has someting to do with the emotionality of it. My thoughts aren't completely formed yet, and I'd like to hear what other people's views are on the subject.


Thoughts?
Gee, I don't know. Maybe if you and me have a fight about something and then have make-up sex I could be more lucid on the subject. :cathappy:
 
Liar said:
Oh, ok. A serious reply...

It's like banging your head agaist the wall. It feels good when you stop.

Make-up sex occurs when you stop hating (or at least feeling anger) and starts loving again. It's not only the positive feelings expressed in sex, it's that good feeling in contrast to the negativity you recently felt, chanelled into action.

I agree it occurs when you stop feeling anger and start feeling love. It's almost like the love was backed up against a levy, and when the anger dissipates, the levy breaks and the love surges forward and floods you for a time. I like your thought that it's a good feeling chanelled into action.




CrimsonMaiden said:
I don't do make up sex.

Now, everybody get your jaw off the floor. The reason why is most of the time, I feel as though the only reason he is trying to make up is just so he can have sex. Lots of issues there.

I'm sure we've had make up sex at some time in our relationship. It's just been so long, I don't remember.

So Crim, what would your ideal make-up sex session look/feel like?
 
Make up Sex and Grudge F*cks...

If it's "make up sex" then you are trying to transcend the love to the other person to make up for any pain or hurt you caused while fighting.

If it's a "grudge f*ck" then you are placing all that anger and hatred into the other person by having an incredible smack down f*ck session.

Just my thoughts. Personally I like the grudge f*cks. ;)
 
I think it's about the passion.. the fighting builds up anger, which is a very passionate emotion, very intense.. Once the fighting is over, that passion, that intensity, has to go somewhere.. :D
 
dr_mabeuse said:
Possession. Getting back something you almost lost. Sometimes you feel like you're trying to nail her ass to the bed with your cock so she won't get away again.

Well put. And erotic as hell.

And I love being the recipient of that kind of fuck.

It's liberating.
 
CTGalPal said:
Just my thoughts. Personally I like the grudge f*cks. ;)
Good for you. I could never fuck in a surly mood.
 
tolyk said:
I think it's about the passion.. the fighting builds up anger, which is a very passionate emotion, very intense.. Once the fighting is over, that passion, that intensity, has to go somewhere.. :D
Yeah, yannow, like a static discharge. Once you're loaded, it's bound to happen. Zap!
 
Liar said:
Good for you. I could never fuck in a surly mood.

I think everyone said it so far...it's just an outlet for the anger to express itself by "inflicting" wonderful painful torture on someone else.

Grudge f*cks are not for everyone.
 
Liar said:
Yeah, yannow, like a static discharge. Once you're loaded, it's bound to happen. Zap!
Nice similie Liar :p You've a way with words ya know :D
 
zeb1094 said:
Gee, I don't know. Maybe if you and me have a fight about something and then have make-up sex I could be more lucid on the subject. :cathappy:

Hmmm, what shall we fight about?! What's your political stance on >>insert topic here<< :D



CTGalPal said:
Make up Sex and Grudge F*cks...

If it's "make up sex" then you are trying to transcend the love to the other person to make up for any pain or hurt you caused while fighting.

If it's a "grudge f*ck" then you are placing all that anger and hatred into the other person by having an incredible smack down f*ck session.

Just my thoughts. Personally I like the grudge f*cks. ;)

I like what you said about make-up sex. I agree that part of it feels like you're making up for any hurt caused while fighting.

The idea of a grudge fuck is interesting! I hadn't looked at it that way. It's like angry sex. I don't think I've had angry sex before, hmmm....



tolyk said:
I think it's about the passion.. the fighting builds up anger, which is a very passionate emotion, very intense.. Once the fighting is over, that passion, that intensity, has to go somewhere.. :D

And what better place to put it, eh?! ;)
 
sweetsubsarahh said:
Well put. And erotic as hell.

And I love being the recipient of that kind of fuck.

It's liberating.


Do you like any other kind of make-up sex? Would you deliberately provoke anger in your lover just to receive that kind of a fuck?
 
McKenna said:
Hmmm, what shall we fight about?! What's your political stance on >>insert topic here<< :D





I like what you said about make-up sex. I agree that part of it feels like you're making up for any hurt caused while fighting.

The idea of a grudge fuck is interesting! I hadn't looked at it that way. It's like angry sex. I don't think I've had angry sex before, hmmm....





And what better place to put it, eh?! ;)


Angry sex is not for everyone...

I think I had it more because I am just so exasperating and annoying. :nana:

I like grudge f*cks at times because I have such angry thoughts and feelings that it is the only way to therapeutically get it out of my system so to speak.

And what better release is an orgasm??? :heart:
 
McKenna said:
Do you like any other kind of make-up sex? Would you deliberately provoke anger in your lover just to receive that kind of a fuck?


No, I wouldn't provoke anger. I am too madly in love with my husband. The world doesn't seem to spin correctly when we're at odds.

And gentle, loving, teary-eyed sex is also very good.

But we happen to love edgy, a little bit rough, swinging from the rafters sex.

So our makeup sex can be rough and still be very great. For us.
 
sweetsubsarahh said:
Well put. And erotic as hell.

And I love being the recipient of that kind of fuck.

It's liberating.

yes.

*fanning myself*
 
Never had make up sex.

Did fuck someone angry, once.

I hurt her, not badly, but still. Don't think I'll ever forgive myself for it.
 
McKenna said:
Hmmm, what shall we fight about?! What's your political stance on >>insert topic here<< :D
I really don't want to fight, how about we just have the make-up sex instead! :D
 
I'd rather fuck while we're still fighting.

Post coital make up.

YMMV.
 
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