LoveStyles Quiz

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What's Your Sexual Style? Yes, yet another one of those hokey quizzes. . . but, it's only 10 questions. . .give it a try. . .

http://www.intimacyinstitute.com/intimacy_doctor/lovestyles.html


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My results:

LION: The Energizer

Lions are leaders in work and play--intensely caring, assertive, and demanding. Lions crave attention and although they give off a confident air, they want desperately to be noticed. Abandonment is their greatest fear--so don't walk out on your Lion during an argument. Looks count, so don't think you can show up wearing any old thing if you're trying to impress your Lion. And expect an exciting evening. Lions love a challenge--mentally, physically, and emotionally. But this isn't as great as it sounds. Lions have high standards and tend to be self-critical as well as critical of others.

If you're a Lion, you need to learn: Patience, tolerance, to temper your intensity with understanding, and to not "mother" your partner.
 
this quiz was lame because you can only pick one statement even if more than one apply. blah.
 
Sounds good to me...

BEAR: The Stabilizer

Bears are an anchor in a storm. Their powerful generosity and good natured receptivity makes them attractive to anyone who values a listening ear. But don't let their implacable exteriors fool you - they are very sensitive to the opinions of others.

Bears fear rejection and criticism and are reluctant to take risks. They're more comfortable waiting for you to make the first move. They are slow to anger, but even slower to forgive. It will be hard for you to know what your bear is really feeling, because they probably won't tell you and will expect you to guess.

Sexually they are sometimes more interested in pleasing their partners more than themselves. In extreme cases this may result in problems with arousal (lubrication and erection) or rapid or delayed ejaculation.

If you're a Bear, you need to learn: To take risks and say what you're thinking or feeling.
 
*LION: The Energizer

Lions are leaders in work and play--intensely caring, assertive, and demanding. Lions crave attention and although they give off a confident air, they want desperately to be noticed. Abandonment is their greatest fear--so don't walk out on your Lion during an argument. Looks count, so don't think you can show up wearing any old thing if you're trying to impress your Lion. And expect an exciting evening. Lions love a challenge--mentally, physically, and emotionally. But this isn't as great as it sounds. Lions have high standards and tend to be self-critical as well as critical of others.

If you're a Lion, you need to learn: Patience, tolerance, to temper your intensity with understanding, and to not "mother" your partner.

I reckon I'm more of a bear though.... ah well...
 
I'm a bee

Sorry double post :D
 
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I'm a bee

Precise, practical and well organized, Bees work hard at everything they do. Because they are perfectionists, they strive to excel and have difficulty relaxing and going with the flow. Bees will do anything for home and hearth. You'll have a well-padded pension fund, a superb credit rating, and will be considered a pillar of the community. Bees are known to be meticulous housekeepers and excellent providers. Sexually, they strive to be technically perfect and will leave no page unturned in the Kama Sutra in their attempt to give you the best orgasm possible. The challenge for the Bee is learning how to have fun. Pure and simple fun isn't simple for them. They do best with a road map and an itinerary and their biggest fear is losing control. Because performance and perfection are so important, problems with sexual arousal or response are not uncommon for the

Parts of this are so entirely true that it scares me!
 
grrrrrr........

i got the Lion!

and damn does that description fit me to a "T" !!!!

cute quiz!
but i to wish i coulda checked more than one answer.

also sex is different everytime so sometimes i may be something less agressive.
:)
 
I got a bee too, but I'm not a perfectionist OC housecleaner, I've got to be the 3rd messiest person I know! :rolleyes: <-we need two of those, I use too many...
 
*BEAR: The Stabilizer

Bears are an anchor in a storm. Their powerful generosity and good natured receptivity makes them attractive to anyone who values a listening ear. But don't let their implacable exteriors fool you - they are very sensitive to the opinions of others. Bears fear rejection and criticism and are reluctant to take risks. They're more comfortable waiting for you to make the first move. They are slow to anger, but even slower to forgive. It will be hard for you to know what your bear is really feeling, because they probably won't tell you and will expect you to guess. Sexually they are sometimes more interested in pleasing their partners more than themselves. In extreme cases this may result in problems with arousal (lubrication and erection) or rapid or delayed ejaculation.

If you're a Bear, you need to learn: To take risks and say what you're thinking or feeling.

If your lover is a Bear: You'll get much more with honey than with vinegar. Don't let their gruff exterior fool you, Bears are tender souls and are easily hurt, although you may not know it when you do. Temper your criticisms with appreciative comments and don't pressure your lover. Even if your Bear appears to cave in to your pressure, they'll resist indirectly and may explode way down the road. Better to give your Bear space, and learn to accept that you can't always have things your way.

Bears and their Lovers
Bear and Bear: No arguments here, just quiet accommodation. Boredom is the problem that often occurs. Neither lover wants to take a risk, so lovemaking can become a stale routine. The challenge is for one (or both) to begin to initiate and take more risks.

Bear and Bee: A functional pair. This couple gets the romantic "work" done, but limited in passion. The challenge is for the bear to try something new and for the bee to depart from their tried and true lesson plan.

Bear and Otter: It's not unusual for these two to find themselves making serenely beautiful sensuous love. The calming Bear is the perfect partner for the frisky Otter. The challenge emerges if this duo gets married because neither of them is skilled at being responsible for running a household.

Bear and Lion: A perfect fit - energizer and stabilizer. The problem comes when the Lion becomes the "mommy" or "daddy" and the bear takes on the role of child. Learn to share your power.

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Pretty acurate, but I don't think I'm afraid to take risks.

Anyone wanna go on safari?
 
I'm the Otter.. I know I am

committment phobic but I do yearn for a time I meet my soul mate.

*OTTER: The Player
Otters know that life is about the journey, not the destination. They believe, "If it's fun, let's try it--make hay while the sun shines!" Unlike the Bee, the Otter considers neatness unimportant--why bother making the bed if you're going to get back into it in a few hours? They can turn a simple trip to a video store into an adventure. They love variety, spontaneity, and don't harbor resentments. But commitment isn't their favorite concept, so don't expect your Otter to be enthusiastic about settling down in that vine-covered cottage. Their greatest fear is being limited or fenced-in. Otters need their freedom and do well with lovers who are equally trusting and adventuresome.

If you're an Otter, you need to learn that:


Peter Pan was wrong, and we do have to grow up--at least in some ways;

Not all impulses can be acted upon; and,

Unfortunately work has to balance play.

If your lover is an Otter: Expect the unexpected. Appreciate your lover's passion and spontaneity and tell them so. Don't become a nagging parent and see if you can find fun ways to do some of the household chores together. Instead of asking your lover to rake the leaves, suggest you get the leaves off the lawn so you can spread a blanket and have a fun picnic lunch with a special dessert. Remember that you married your Otter because of his unbridled enthusiasm and creativity--this was the allure so don't try to change it!

Otters and their Lovers
Otter and Otter: The two of you will have extraordinary sex, for sure. The sky is the limit! Just remember that when Otters get together, neither of you will want to stop playing long enough to pay the bills!

Otter and Lion: Otters are thrill-seekers and a barrel of laughs. Don't try to control your Otter's enthusiasm and you're sure to venture to new erotic heights.

Otter and Bear: It's not unusual for these two to find themselves making serenely beautiful sensuous love. The calming Bear is the perfect partner for the frisky Otter. The challenge emerges if this duo gets married because neither of them is skilled at being responsible for running a household.

Otter and Bee: A complementary couple. The Bees attention to detail and the Otter's creativity is a great combination as long as each is willing to deviate from their individual preferred style and learn from their lover.

*[Excerpted from Dr. Sandra Scantling's Extraordinary Sex Now: A Couple's Guide to Intimacy, Doubleday, 1998.]
 
hi tulip, me too

*OTTER: The Player
Otters know that life is about the journey, not the destination. They believe, "If it's fun, let's try it--make hay while the sun shines!" Unlike the Bee, the Otter considers neatness unimportant--why bother making the bed if you're going to get back into it in a few hours? They can turn a simple trip to a video store into an adventure. They love variety, spontaneity, and don't harbor resentments. But commitment isn't their favorite concept, so don't expect your Otter to be enthusiastic about settling down in that vine-covered cottage. Their greatest fear is being limited or fenced-in. Otters need their freedom and do well with lovers who are equally trusting and adventuresome.

If you're an Otter, you need to learn that:


Peter Pan was wrong, and we do have to grow up--at least in some ways;

Not all impulses can be acted upon; and,

Unfortunately work has to balance play.
 
Otter here as well. I knew I had an adverturous streak, never thought of myself as a "player". Hmmm....interesting....
 
Gordo so you and I would have great...

sex! How come I did not doubt that. I miss you my friend and very nice avatar.

hmm Flirt the bear you would stabalize me. That might not be a bad thing either. Hmmm

Love Ya Both,

Peace,
Tulip
 
Re: I'm the Otter.. I know I am

ditto for me too :D


tulip2lipservice said:
committment phobic but I do yearn for a time I meet my soul mate.

*OTTER: The Player
Otters know that life is about the journey, not the destination. They believe, "If it's fun, let's try it--make hay while the sun shines!" Unlike the Bee, the Otter considers neatness unimportant--why bother making the bed if you're going to get back into it in a few hours? They can turn a simple trip to a video store into an adventure. They love variety, spontaneity, and don't harbor resentments. But commitment isn't their favorite concept, so don't expect your Otter to be enthusiastic about settling down in that vine-covered cottage. Their greatest fear is being limited or fenced-in. Otters need their freedom and do well with lovers who are equally trusting and adventuresome.

If you're an Otter, you need to learn that:


Peter Pan was wrong, and we do have to grow up--at least in some ways;

Not all impulses can be acted upon; and,

Unfortunately work has to balance play.

If your lover is an Otter: Expect the unexpected. Appreciate your lover's passion and spontaneity and tell them so. Don't become a nagging parent and see if you can find fun ways to do some of the household chores together. Instead of asking your lover to rake the leaves, suggest you get the leaves off the lawn so you can spread a blanket and have a fun picnic lunch with a special dessert. Remember that you married your Otter because of his unbridled enthusiasm and creativity--this was the allure so don't try to change it!

Otters and their Lovers
Otter and Otter: The two of you will have extraordinary sex, for sure. The sky is the limit! Just remember that when Otters get together, neither of you will want to stop playing long enough to pay the bills!

Otter and Lion: Otters are thrill-seekers and a barrel of laughs. Don't try to control your Otter's enthusiasm and you're sure to venture to new erotic heights.

Otter and Bear: It's not unusual for these two to find themselves making serenely beautiful sensuous love. The calming Bear is the perfect partner for the frisky Otter. The challenge emerges if this duo gets married because neither of them is skilled at being responsible for running a household.

Otter and Bee: A complementary couple. The Bees attention to detail and the Otter's creativity is a great combination as long as each is willing to deviate from their individual preferred style and learn from their lover.

*[Excerpted from Dr. Sandra Scantling's Extraordinary Sex Now: A Couple's Guide to Intimacy, Doubleday, 1998.]
 
Re: Just call me Winnie!

JennyOmanHill said:
Another "BEAR: The Stabilizer" here!

I like "cooling off" too!;)

Hey, Jenny. . .make sure oman takes the quiz too!
 
Heres another otter

just toss me in there with the rest of the otters. I just wanna play.

Dawn
 
Otter here!

Wow- there seems to be many otters on this thread. They supposedly have great sex together.... ;)
 
lilminx said:
Otter here!

Wow- there seems to be many otters on this thread. They supposedly have great sex together.... ;)

If there's gonna be an otter orgy can I at least watch??? :D
 
Yep, it fits

*BEAR: The Stabilizer

scary as it may seem..........

Ithink we should turn all the otters loose on the bears and see what happens.

Hmmmmm.......

SM
 
quiz

Hi tulip

Nice thread. Nice test. I think as an otter maybe things would be very cool between us.

You have an interesting mind on your shoulders.

Kisses
 
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