Love and very little sex

[*bratcat*]

Re: Maybe....

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Re: My two cents

When children are envolved, almost all other aspects of the relationship should take second place to what is in the best interest of the children.

First thing I want to do is rehmently agree and disagree with this at the same time. From my experience (as a child) I know that children will pick up on the emotions of thier parents. Never stay together in an unhappy situation 'for the kids.' You risk making them unhappy by proxy, and run the risk of them finding out later on and labling thier entire happy childhood as a lie. Yes the kids are the most important thing, and the best thing you can do for them is to make sure you are happy.

From experience, and from discussions here in lit. I can tell you that without serious couseling the marriage is doomed. Sooner or later. He will find someone that rekindles his passion, or you will find someone that (re)kindles yours (It appears that you have no problem here.

I'd say that as long as your needs from a relationship are not being met, you will find an outside source to meet them. Or remain unhappy (see above.) Seek help, written or professional, but do it. As a first step, I'd recomend a book you can share called 'His needs, Her needs" by Willard Harley.

 

[Caria Knight]

Re: Re: My two cents

Never stay together in an unhappy situation 'for the kids.

I whole heartedly agree with that. It's nice to grow up with 2 parents in the same house but only when it's a happy home.

As a first step, I'd recomend a book you can share called 'His needs, Her needs" by Willard Harley.

I'll definitly look for it at the local Barnes and Nobels.

Thanks.

 

[Cherry]

Texan...

That was beautiful, what you said. Very admirable.