I hit the "Post reply" button too soon again.
To answer the original questions:
1. Have you ever met a lit-ster?
If you did, how did it go?
Yes, see above. It was AWESOME!
If you havent, would you?
In a heartbeat!!!
2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
I know not everyone is going to reply, and it doesn't help that the notification settings havenot been working for me lately. Some people just don't reply.
3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online?
I'm not sure why people do that, insecurity, fear of rejection, the need to impress, I don't know. Being an older swinger and in the lifestyle, if you're thinking of ever meeting, it's never going to work. Don't do it.
4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so.
Lit, or other users on it, have been good to me over the years. I enjoy escaping to fantasy role plays, and ge one face-face I've had...see above.
5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region? No
Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.
No? Well, if you could, where would you go? I'm thinking about a cruise in the next year or two around Southeast Asia.
Why that destination? I've been told Vietnam & Thailand can be fun for us older white men...
6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc.
That face-face meet at her hotel...see above.
7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
I enjoy ongoing taboo role plays, where we develop our own characters and collaborate on the setting and the general storyline together.
8. have you ever been to a lit gathering?
They have these? Where? When? If they ever have one in Southeast Asia, I'm there!!!
To answer the original questions:
1. Have you ever met a lit-ster?
If you did, how did it go?
Yes, see above. It was AWESOME!
If you havent, would you?
In a heartbeat!!!
2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
I know not everyone is going to reply, and it doesn't help that the notification settings havenot been working for me lately. Some people just don't reply.
3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online?
I'm not sure why people do that, insecurity, fear of rejection, the need to impress, I don't know. Being an older swinger and in the lifestyle, if you're thinking of ever meeting, it's never going to work. Don't do it.
4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so.
Lit, or other users on it, have been good to me over the years. I enjoy escaping to fantasy role plays, and ge one face-face I've had...see above.
5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region? No
Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.
No? Well, if you could, where would you go? I'm thinking about a cruise in the next year or two around Southeast Asia.
Why that destination? I've been told Vietnam & Thailand can be fun for us older white men...
6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc.
That face-face meet at her hotel...see above.
7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
I enjoy ongoing taboo role plays, where we develop our own characters and collaborate on the setting and the general storyline together.
8. have you ever been to a lit gathering?
They have these? Where? When? If they ever have one in Southeast Asia, I'm there!!!
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