long term affairs

[Artina Heartflash]

I don't wanna know about your one-night, bisexual 4 way experience. I don't wanna know about your sexperience with a trojan-spiked client and a sink hose in the back of your "Beauty and the Beast" salon. I don't wanna know about the preggie whose husband can't hold a pickle to the three slaves she works on the side, or the neighbor's horse in the next barn.

I want to read from the folks who have had a long-term affair (or are in a long term one currently). Something meaningful that lasts more than 6 months. How long has it been and what keeps it alive for the two of you?

 

[Starblayde]

I don't wanna know about your one-night, bisexual 4 way experience. I don't wanna know about your sexperience with a trojan-spiked client and a sink hose in the back of your "Beauty and the Beast" salon. I don't wanna know about the preggies whose husband can't hold a pickle to the three slaves you work on the side, or the neighbor's horse in the next barn.

But I had so many stories still to tell!


so many stories....

 

[Artina Heartflash]

But I had so many stories still to tell!


so many stories....

Then why are you wearing a WHITE carnation?

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

I don't wanna know about your one-night, bisexual 4 way experience. I don't wanna know about your sexperience with a trojan-spiked client and a sink hose in the back of your "Beauty and the Beast" salon. I don't wanna know about the preggie whose husband can't hold a pickle to the three slaves she works on the side, or the neighbor's horse in the next barn.

I want to read from the folks who have had a long-term affair (or are in a long term one currently). Something meaningful that lasts more than 6 months. How long has it been and what keeps it alive for the two of you?

Well pal, you've pretty much narrowed it down to hearing from 1, maybe 2 people on Lit. Good luck.

 

[Starblayde]

Re: Re: long term affairs

Then why are you wearing a WHITE carnation?

umm....because it quite blatantly wasn't my wedding

 

[Artina Heartflash]

Starblayde

well, hon. You can PM me with a few stirries if you'd like. We can all learn something from each other. Feel free to fire when ready... <peeking from under my blindfold>

 

[carrie-on]

Well,I have had a relationship with a very special lady for 11 yrs now. Yes our husbands know,they sometimes participate, sometimes watch but most of the time when we see each other,it is just the two of us.
What makes it so special? I'm not sure,except for the fact that I love her very much and I'd hate to think of what my life would be like without her in it! She is a very sexy lady and I love to watch her walk!

 

[weed]

I think you're more likely to hear about the one night stands. The "meaningful" relationships tend to be a bit more private.

Though it's nice to know their are those like Carrie who can make things like that work in their life.

 

[Artina Heartflash]

Thanks, Carrie.

Nice av, Weed. What's the title and story with that pic? Should I change my av to the one below? Maybe it would scare away any fellow less than a god. Ha.

 

[Temptress_1960]

It's been almost 2 years.

Yes, my husband knows.

What keeps it alive? We love each other.

 

[weed]

Thanks, Carrie.

Nice av, Weed. What's the title and story with that pic? Should I change my av to the one below? Maybe it would scare away any fellow less than a god. Ha.

Good to be picky.

Mine is "The Siren and the Fisherman"

Don't know much more about it than that.

 

[pc_2000_ky]

An interesting subject, to say the least.

My lover and i have been involved for over two years now. Both our marriages look fine from the outside, but in truth, they are are emotionless, sexless and basically dead. But not for the love of our children and the desire to keep a family unit in tact for them, we'd both certainly end our respective marriages.

We're deeply in love, and struggle most days to find the time to meet. We're occasionally blessed with a night out of town when we can both feign a business trip. Most days, its an hour (if we're lucky) after work for a drink. The sexual chemistry is incredible, and we've been known to shag in the back of a car, in our offices or anywhere else we can pull it off. Its been a great two years, and I long for many more years together.

But its not been without hardships. Lots of emotionally tough times, having to watch the other socialize without you, dealing with the other's family trips, and the holidays apart are tough too. We both know its part of the deal right now, but emotionally, it doesnt make it any easier.

There are ups and downs, some days I know I couldnt live without her. There are other days when I wonder how much longer I can live 2 lives.

What else did you want to know.

 

[Artina Heartflash]

pc_2000_Ky

A man with a heartbeat!

What else do I wanna know? How long you've been married (same for your lover) and idea of your ages.
And how long you knew her before you became intimate?