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[FelicityJohns]

Yes, do tell us Papa C.



Me too.



Me too. Luscious, gooey, triple chocolate... Yum.

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/78/89/43/788943f6ea71186978837809b8034fb1.jpg

Jeepers. Did a faceplant into my monitor there....

 

[ViciousTease]

Me too. Luscious, gooey, triple chocolate... Yum.

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/78/89/43/788943f6ea71186978837809b8034fb1.jpg

I choose to believe that is a brownie, with dark chocolate chunks throughout, covered in a not-too-sweet icing, and then a very thin layer of hardened chocolate. Yep, that pictured inspired a full on food fantasy. Thanks, LS

 

[All_4_Love]

Instant gratification, filling your desire or want for something pleasurable. So, you either have the ability to do that in the here and now or you don't. If you have the ability to do that in the here and now, then by all means, do it.

If there is reticence, then that's a different situation. And I'm assuming there would be reticence, as then the question of patience comes up. For one to feel they need to be patient, then there's a reason for that, in which I would accept the reticence because it's telling me something; it's not for me at that time.

I mean, why else would the feeling of needing to temper gratification with patience even come up? Because there's uncertainty, right? Or because one believes by waiting, the end result will be better? In which case, why would there be inner conflict?

In the chocolate scenario, regardless of how bad I wanted triple chocolate decadence, I'm going for the candy bar.

From a sexual standpoint, I would take a quickie over waiting all day for the night to come so I could have more time.

But then, that takes us to an issue of settling versus holding out for what you really want, and that's something totally different.

Haha! I'm completely unable to answer this question. I am a patient person in all aspects of life but if there's an opportunity for instant versus delayed gratification, unless there was a reason, I'm going with instant. What can I say? Maybe I'm an extremely patient hedonist.

 

[Little_Sister]

Jeepers. Did a faceplant into my monitor there....

I licked mine.

I choose to believe that is a brownie, with dark chocolate chunks throughout, covered in a not-too-sweet icing, and then a very thin layer of hardened chocolate. Yep, that pictured inspired a full on food fantasy. Thanks, LS

No prob VT. I was right there with you. Some days you just need a big chocolate penis in your life.

 

[DarkSimian]

I licked mine.



No prob VT. I was right there with you. Some days you just need a big chocolate penis in your life.

*no comment*

 

[Paul_Chance]

Hmmmm, is it wrong that I am now contemplating chocolate penis? No, no it's not dammit.

Nothing wrong with being a hedonist! I think the difference is simply one of approach and satisfaction. I'd forward that if a person is overall satisfied in this life, then the dilemma between fast and slow satisfaction is pretty non-existent. You can have both by simply choosing which to have when.

The dilemma only arises when their is fear that it is instant gratification or none. If the choice is between gratification in this instant or gratification in a later instant, then it is far easier to make the choice based on desire.

So yes, you can have your chocolate penis, eat it now AND eat it later.

 

[FelicityJohns]

Hmmmm, is it wrong that I am now contemplating chocolate penis? No, no it's not dammit.

Nothing wrong with being a hedonist! I think the difference is simply one of approach and satisfaction. I'd forward that if a person is overall satisfied in this life, then the dilemma between fast and slow satisfaction is pretty non-existent. You can have both by simply choosing which to have when.

The dilemma only arises when their is fear that it is instant gratification or none. If the choice is between gratification in this instant or gratification in a later instant, then it is far easier to make the choice based on desire.

So yes, you can have your chocolate penis, eat it now AND eat it later.

^^^ This makes good sense. Now hand over the penis.

 

[SomeoneFamiliar]

Discovery. Sometimes the act of discovery is better than the actual discovery itself. Maybe you had no intention of discovery and yet there it is, present in all its glory. Sometimes it's there for your immediate enjoyment other times patience might be required. There are times when I'm incredibly patient and times when I'm not. Tempering the two has always been a struggle. When you discover something pleasure able tha reunites patience how do you cope? How do you control the need for instant gratification?

Well. I think I'd go with hoping that maybe the eventual outcome is going to be worth the wait?

Instant gratification is overrated. Sometimes. Lol

 

[Paul_Chance]

I think Little Sister's chocolate penis is big enough to share!

LOL - I can see the party question now: "So, is your little sister bringing her famous chocolate penis?"

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

Well. I think I'd go with hoping that maybe the eventual outcome is going to be worth the wait?

Instant gratification is overrated. Sometimes. Lol

I waited until the big chocolate cock was gone. I call that patience!

 

[All_4_Love]

Hmmmm, is it wrong that I am now contemplating chocolate penis? No, no it's not dammit.

Nothing wrong with being a hedonist! I think the difference is simply one of approach and satisfaction. I'd forward that if a person is overall satisfied in this life, then the dilemma between fast and slow satisfaction is pretty non-existent. You can have both by simply choosing which to have when.

The dilemma only arises when their is fear that it is instant gratification or none. If the choice is between gratification in this instant or gratification in a later instant, then it is far easier to make the choice based on desire.

So yes, you can have your chocolate penis, eat it now AND eat it later.

Nice. I was hoping you'd weigh in on this one.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Nice. I was hoping you'd weigh in on this one.

Thanks (I'm full from all the chocolate penis now so I am getting lethargic)

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'm patient. It pays off. I have usually gotten what I want in the end. So, that positive reinforcement has led me to be okay with not requiring instant gratification.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Chocolate cocks are so 2015. Get with the times and chew on some chocolate assholes.

http://www.thisiswhyimbroke.com/edible-chocolate-anus

This is for you Suzanne. I know how you always rave about arse eating.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Our new user Name

There's a beauty in ageing and wisdom. Many people are not afforded either, you are blessed to continue to have both.

We have been afforded the chance to grow older but are far from wise. Yet we have grown together as one. We often know what the other is going to say or think before it happens. We are far from wealthy but rich beyond our drreams.

In all the years my husband has joined groups he wasn't smart enough not to use our names. Here he became LIVINRFANTASIES in hope family and friends don't find out about our secret lives and those fantasies that came true.
As someone once said "fairy tales can come true". Ony we aren't faries!

One user name is enough.

 

[All_4_Love]

Thanks (I'm full from all the chocolate penis now so I am getting lethargic)

A lesson in instant gratification? Hehe

 

[Suz_anne]

Chocolate cocks are so 2015. Get with the times and chew on some chocolate assholes.

http://www.thisiswhyimbroke.com/edible-chocolate-anus

This is for you Suzanne. I know how you always rave about arse eating.

Finally - an asshole that I would actually eat. Woot! Now Pmann can stop calling me an ass-ist.

But let's be clear, I ain't down with Giardia. So y'all keep your assholes out my mouth.

 

[ChainedUp]

So help me, if this goes into an anal bleaching conversation it will be citations for the lot of you. Whether you contribute or not.

 

[ViciousTease]

So help me, if this goes into an anal bleaching conversation it will be citations for the lot of you. Whether you contribute or not.

I'm guessing you'd have to make that one out of white chocolate??? I'm not eating it either way.

 

[rubydlite]

I'm guessing you'd have to make that one out of white chocolate??? I'm not eating it either way.

*snicker*

 

[Little_Sister]

Asshole bleaching? Why? Isn't the back strip of the brazilian enough torture? ? I mean really you are paying a small Chinese womam to rip tiny hairs out of your ass crack while you are on your knees spreading your ass cheeks... and we PAY for this level of hell... *sigh*

I think I need more chocolate cock please.

 

[SomeoneFamiliar]

Asshole bleaching? Why? Isn't the back strip of the brazilian enough torture? ? I mean really you are paying a small Chinese womam to rip tiny hairs out of your ass crack while you are on your knees spreading your ass cheeks... and we PAY for this level of hell... *sigh*

I think I need more chocolate cock please.

As long as it's not assholes, white or dark or milk chocolate. I want no part.


Can I have chocolate balls though?

 

[rubydlite]

Asshole bleaching? Why? Isn't the back strip of the brazilian enough torture? ? I mean really you are paying a small Chinese womam to rip tiny hairs out of your ass crack while you are on your knees spreading your ass cheeks... and we PAY for this level of hell... *sigh*

I think I need more chocolate cock please.

Did you know anal bleaching thins the skin around the area causing it to rip? Can we say ouch?

I choose chocolate penis too!

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

So help me, if this goes into an anal bleaching conversation it will be citations for the lot of you. Whether you contribute or not.

Don't blame us, we don't like anal. However we do love chocolate and my wife's been caught eating penis shaped chocolate in public.
Or was that a penis?
Besides if you drive a Citation you'll never catch us!

 

[dutchrain]

Of course I had to check why Little Sister licked her screen, and I have to say, I licked mine too and my lips as well.

Pmann's chocolates didn't look very appetizing to me though. I wouldn't eat them, lick them or even look at them a second time.

I could have such a craving for chocolate but if those were put in front of me, it would pass. That would teach me a lesson about wanting to have immediate gratification.

I am an impatient person, but I have learned patience. I can do it. I can wait, I am able work towards a goal, I am able to concentrate on what is in the back of my mind and keep part of me focussed on it while thousand other things need/want/deserve a place in the spotlight. The (small/smallish/biggerish/bigger/biggest) gratifications I get from those things keep me at peace and quite happy.