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[ChainedUp]

Shall I leave a parting gift........?

Of course I shall. What is it about your favorite Litster you wouldn't want them to ever lose? Is that trait something you don't have in RL, maybe that's why they're your favorite. How similar/different are the traits of your favorite Litster when compared to your favorite RL person (not including your partner)?

 

[SmileyGirl]

Their ability to touch my heart without actually being in the same place. Their ability to calm my storm. They believe in me even when I doubt myself. How their fantasies blend with mine. Their kind, caring, loving nature. How they never fail to make me laugh. How they accept me even though we are very different, they never try to change me. How they have opened their heart to me and let me in. They "found" me and it so feels like "home".

I always look for honesty, integrity and kindness in my RL. For me it's not any different online. That may be naive but I can't change my way of thinking.

 

[sunshinegirl05]

My favorite litster has shown me compassion, love, forgiveness, joy, openness, support. They make me laugh and smile. They see me as their equal. Like Smilers said, "their fantasies blend with mine".

In "real life", my favorite person - well, I look for the same things.

 

[jameslewis]

Shall I leave a parting gift........?

Of course I shall. What is it about your favorite Litster you wouldn't want them to ever lose? Is that trait something you don't have in RL, maybe that's why they're your favorite. How similar/different are the traits of your favorite Litster when compared to your favorite RL person (not including your partner)?

It's not really just about them - it's about US. It's the connection, the ability to share, completely. To listen without judgement, to ask tough questions that make me think things through, and to let me do the same. It's the certainty that no matter the answers to her questions, or mine, the caring for each other isn't going to change. It's being able to talk about anything, share anything. It's the mental and emotional intimacy, true intimacy.
That's pretty much the same thing for people in real life. The only addition is physical intimacy.

 

[Endless_Night]

That’s a toughie. My favorite litsters rather eerily mimic my favorite RL relationships. I value honesty, intelligence, an open mind, humor. People who think outside the box. People I can converse with without using my filter.

I suppose the only real difference for me on Lit is that I’m more open sexually. I’m attracted to people I can establish enough emotionally intimacy with to explore or discuss those previously hidden facets of myself.

Valuable stuff. I would hate to lose it.

 

[Endless_Night]

Ooooops! Forgot to say:

Happy Halloween!

 

[barefootgirl69]

I don't have just one favorite. The ones who are my absolute favorites here are the ones I laugh and tease with in messages, where we share things, both good and bad, and encourage one another. Trust and honesty are important to me, and I tend to leave when people can't be counted on. It's no different than RL.

 

[Lord Pmann]

So Pmann, it's yours for safe keeping for a week. I'm pretty sure you can handle the task. I'll have my eye on you.........all of you

Oh Papa Chained, I won't let you down!!!! I will keep an eye on this thread. If anyone starts to have fun, I will squash it like a bug. You have my word.

Here is a paparazzi pic from earlier when C Diddy crowned me temporary thread king. Yeah, it was a pretty good event. Everyone was there. Everyone of importance.

http://i1161.photobucket.com/albums/q518/pmann83/FIN_zpsj8pszgky.jpg

 

[Lord Pmann]

Shall I leave a parting gift........?

Of course I shall. What is it about your favorite Litster you wouldn't want them to ever lose? Is that trait something you don't have in RL, maybe that's why they're your favorite. How similar/different are the traits of your favorite Litster when compared to your favorite RL person (not including your partner)?

I like the ability to talk without judgment. Just to open up and share anything and never have it questioned.

Also, tits.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

** gasps **
Is this masterpiece drawing to scale?!
Covering my, errr...

 

[Ginmill72]

** gasps **
Is this masterpiece drawing to scale?!
Covering my, errr...

Now hat would a sight to see, just for, curiosity sake.

 

[boomer177]

It's no different than RL.

You got it.

The RL-Online distinction is merely a rationalization for 'anything goes here,' one of Literotica's most unendearing features.

 

[ChainedUp]

Looks in. Other than a grossly inaccurate coronation depiction (I'm much taller than that) there appears to be a lacking of desire to manage this place in my absence. Maybe open auditions might be a better way.

So cum one, cum all, why should you get to manage the room?

 

[Endless_Night]

Looks in. Other than a grossly inaccurate coronation depiction (I'm much taller than that) there appears to be a lacking of desire to manage this place in my absence. Maybe open auditions might be a better way.

So cum one, cum all, why should you get to manage the room?

The boobs disturb me. Particularly the left one.......All the lefts ones. :/

I vote for Suz_anne. She's funny.

*crawls back under the covers*

 

[Lord Pmann]

I have been remiss in asking a question, Papa Chained. I'll blame it on the time change.

Suzanne is class, indeed. But she's too busy watching football and playing dress up.

I can ask questions if you need, C Diddy. But if you're holding auditions, I would love to see those. I think I could do a casting couch auditions...

 

[Lord Pmann]

Alright. As the freshly crowned king, I need to be asking questions. So listen up, peasants and serfs alike. Hear ye, hear ye, motherfuckers.

So this weekend some drama unfolded on the GB with some dickhead coming back here who allegedly (don't want to get sued for libel) fucked over a few girls here. Then some other asshole started chiming in and he (allegedly) had a checkered past by abusing some Lit girls or something. Either way, both guys are stinky doo doo heads. This is the truth.

But it leads me to my question... How much does someone's Lit past matter to you? Do you care if he/she has gotten around Lit? Do you only care if he/she was mean or untruthful in their Lit interactions? Do you want a Lit virgin like me? *adjusts halo* Or do you even like the idea of your chat partner flirting with other girls/guys? Does that kind of thing make you smile?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

If I meet a man outside of Lit, I do kind of assume that he's had other partners. (at my age, I PRAY he's had other partners) I judge people based on many things.. and certainly I consider how they treat other people. It doesn't just apply to how men handle themselves with other women though. I think that each of us needs to handle things with the same character that we'd expect from one another.
In L-O-L (life outside of Lit) - I'm not really friends with those who would drag their keys down cars, spray paint the names of worthless ex-partners on walls, or start petitions to ban people from social circles. I'm not about to start doing it here.

 

[Mindfondler]

But it leads me to my question... How much does someone's Lit past matter to you? Do you care if he/she has gotten around Lit? Do you only care if he/she was mean or untruthful in their Lit interactions? Do you want a Lit virgin like me? *adjusts halo* Or do you even like the idea of your chat partner flirting with other girls/guys? Does that kind of thing make you smile?

I'd say that history does matter, but within sensible limits. Past behaviour may provide some guide to the future, but people do change over time, so a posting that they made, say, five years ago may no longer reflect their situation and expectations (in some cases, that may even be true for five minutes ago). If someone is a serial offender, though, then I suspect that they're never really going to turn over a new leaf, even for someone who reckons that they're the one who can get them to change.

In short, your mileage may vary.
.

 

[Endless_Night]

I'm far more interested in how someone treats others than about past sexual partners, so Lit history does matter to an extent. People that regularly engage in whatever Lit drama that comes along, taking sides and pointing fingers reminds all too much of the less pleasant aspects of high school. No thanks. As for the sexual predators -

- Grow up!

Lits a big place with lots of people. Easy enough to find compatible someones without lies, meanness, hurtful behavior and general doucher-y.

Quoted for truth. VVVV

< In L-O-L (life outside of Lit) - I'm not really friends with those who would drag their keys down cars, spray paint the names of worthless ex-partners on walls, or start petitions to ban people from social circles. I'm not about to start doing it here. >

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Hanging out mostly in the playground, I don't see a lot of snarky trash talk going on. Yes, yes, sometimes an asshole posts a rude rubbish comment and it's either ignored or someone puts him/her in their place.
Ahhhh... the days and lives of a Lit member, this could be quite the soap opera. Someone's past matters a small bit, but then how do you ever find out what mischief they've made? I'm not one to go asking about so and so, but maybe some do some detective work, poking and prying.
**shrugs shoulders **
I think exclusive relationships are fine for some, others would veto that thought down quick like. And maybe one gets to a point with a play partner where they're content and don't feel like adding/juggling anyone to the mix. But then what to do with the others, they're not dropped off at the closest bus stop, that would be silly talk. Juggling, making sure no one is totally and completely ignored, as the string is still attached, but just grows longer.
And then a jealous playmate gets word and bitch skips the other and words fly...... see, soap opera I'm telling ya. Someone has to play the scorned lover.


Kudos to Pmann, you'd be proud Papa C. I foresee no mischief happening in your absence. Though I will rally the girls daily and see if we may derail the thread a tiny bit.

 

[barefootgirl69]

And then a jealous playmate gets word and bitch skips the other and words fly...... see, soap opera I'm telling ya. Someone has to play the scorned lover.

I had to laugh, this truly happens. Or someone isn't interested in them, and noses get out of joint.
It's not so comical, though, when you take into consideration that we all have feelings. We don't leave then in the entryway when we sign on. Much like we are 'who we are' in our chosing of friends, we tend to be the same kind of person with playmates. I like to find playmates for something long term, off other boards...or enjoy those that lurk.

 

[Lord Pmann]

For me, I don't so much care about a person's past. Unless, of course, they were with one of the four or five people who are just the splinter underneath my fingernail. And mainly because that just means that we likely have zero in common if you find one of those people attractive.

 

[TheSilverLining]

http://i1161.photobucket.com/albums/q518/pmann83/FIN_zpsj8pszgky.jpg

It makes me really sad to see that neither of you appear to have balls.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Kudos to Pmann, you'd be proud Papa C. I foresee no mischief happening in your absence. Though I will rally the girls daily and see if we may derail the thread a tiny bit.

Papa C did say he was cool with girls posting their boobs, if you all must derail the thread. He said that was the only exception and that I just maintain martial law if you girls don't obey.

 

[Lord Pmann]

It makes me really sad to see that neither of you appear to have balls.

It was really fucking cold in that room.

They retreated like a shadow seeing groundhog.