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Lit is a world of alts. How many Lit identities have you posted under?

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  • 4 - 5

    Votes: 7 1.5%
  • > 5

    Votes: 10 2.1%

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Ok you two....if you don't behave I feel that chains is around the corner waiting for his debut....
 
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"Oh yeah Ruby, spank me harder...mmm yeah feels so good, give it to me."

Thank you, Love.
I have you know I've got a mean backhand with the feather duster.. *pouts*

Ya know, I tried to learn the whole wielding end of the whip, as it were, and I'm too strong-handed.
She was like here, try this.. then she said "Ow, that's not how you do it."

I was like, "Um the whole time you two were swatting away at me, I don't recall saying "Ow, you're not hitting me properly."

:rolleyes:

 
Ahahaaaa I don't know what made me laugh more, Chains cop hands down his pants or Rubes being too forceful with the whip and getting a tongue lashing.

You two are funny.
 
I'm an engineer and those jobs are so similar I don't think I'd be switching over any time soon. I mean, the similarities are striking.
 
For the topic to be porn related, the derailment wasn't anywhere near as bad as I had anticipated :rolleyes:

When I brougbt up Christmas candy a few days ago, many of you told us of a childhood memory that you hold dear. As I read those I was reminded of those who had no such memories. That some people had difficult childhoods and memories often times are something far different than crawling into Daddy's lap to share a box of chocolates.

No question today but rather the reminder that for some Chfristmas isn't full of new bikes, toy trains, and candy. And that our first Christmas dollars ought to be spent helping create better Christmas memories for some children out there today, not our last.

(apologies for the somber mood, unicorn parades will resume tomorrow)
 
And that our first Christmas dollars ought to be spent helping create better Christmas memories for some children out there today, not our last.

(apologies for the somber mood, unicorn parades will resume tomorrow)

While I wait for the unicorn parade...

Mother&Child Shelters are a wonderful place to donate...$$$, food, clothing, toys, and essentials. Many have left their homes with only the clothes on their backs & anything is appreciated.

Another thought...not just during this "giving" season...the gift of courtesy & friendliness to your fellow human. How hard is it to hold a door, say a kind word, just smile...be kind to each other.

Yeah...too early for a sleep in day...I gotta find the snarky thread.
 
Yeah, maybe an actual topic would be a good thing :)

I will admit that I don't have an "answer" for this question but I'll ask it anyway. All the people we know in RL, for the most part, we know who they are and the kind of person they are. That's not to say we don't get surprised/fooled/shocked when we learn of something about them that seems out of character for the person we thought we knew. So in Lit, it's much tougher to get a sense of who a person is. Sure we can read their posts, exchange PMs and even talk to them in person. But we don't know them as well as an RL person, my opinion of course.

Knowing all that, we accept that the Lit people we come to know we only know X% of who they are. Compared to RL friends, what is that X% for you. Do we know Lit friends only 50% as well as our RL friends, for example?
 
Do we know Lit friends only 50% as well as our RL friends, for example?

Whether real life or on Lit, I feel that we are only able to know another as much as they are willing to show themselves and be known, not forgoing that we must also be open and receptive to knowing them. Vulnerability and curiosity are both very important factors in being known and knowing another well.

Thank you for the reminder that there are many who don't share the most wonderful childhood memories. Children are precious. They should be cherished always, and especially this time of year. :rose:

*clears throat*

Am I the only girl on here that actually likes the "oh yeah baby, give it to me daddy" stuff in porn? Try amateur; it's phenomenal! :cool:
 
I think some of the people I know here I know better than some I know in RL. Lit is difficult to compare with Rl In that sense for me. I guess knowing someone is what proves to be difficult to define.
 
I tend to make assumptions about the character of people in RL in the first two minutes of meeting them. If they're in my life for any length of time, then I'm quite often surprised by what I learn about them later.
On Lit I think you're forced to make a more measured assessment: there's still people on this thread I don't understand but maybe they want it that way? The only Litsters I make snap judgements on are sexists and racists.
 
Whether real life or on Lit, I feel that we are only able to know another as much as they are willing to show themselves and be known, not forgoing that we must also be open and receptive to knowing them. Vulnerability and curiosity are both very important factors in being known and knowing another well.

Thank you for the reminder that there are many who don't share the most wonderful childhood memories. Children are precious. They should be cherished always, and especially this time of year. :rose:

*clears throat*

Am I the only girl on here that actually likes the "oh yeah baby, give it to me daddy" stuff in porn? Try amateur; it's phenomenal! :cool:
it sounds better when I say it..,just sayin'

Lol;)

About your question, Chained...
No one, and I mean no one can know more than you allow them to. So, I think online or offline, all people we interact with are guarded in some respect.

I abhor percentages, btw. Accounting is always asking me for percentages.. I tell them I'm a qualifier not a quantifier. :D

So, percentages will vary depending on who you are referring to..
 
Whether real life or on Lit, I feel that we are only able to know another as much as they are willing to show themselves and be known, not forgoing that we must also be open and receptive to knowing them. Vulnerability and curiosity are both very important factors in being known and knowing another well.

Thank you for the reminder that there are many who don't share the most wonderful childhood memories. Children are precious. They should be cherished always, and especially this time of year. :rose:

*clears throat*

Am I the only girl on here that actually likes the "oh yeah baby, give it to me daddy" stuff in porn? Try amateur; it's phenomenal! :cool:

Very well said. Vulnerability is probably the most ominous word I know. It's a constant struggle for me.


Children are our most precious gifts. We as adults owe them the chance to live and enjoy life to the fullest.


I'm glad you had the courage to speak out about your porn preferences. I haven't seen many girls do that. :)
 
it sounds better when I say it..,just sayin'

Lol;)

About your question, Chained...
No one, and I mean no one can know more than you allow them to. So, I think online or offline, all people we interact with are guarded in some respect.

I abhor percentages, btw. Accounting is always asking me for percentages.. I tell them I'm a qualifier not a quantifier. :D

So, percentages will vary depending on who you are referring to..

This^^^
 
Very well said. Vulnerability is probably the most ominous word I know. It's a constant struggle for me.

As it should be, perhaps.

Women are something to be grateful for in this sense. It comes to us much easier. If you ask me, just the fact that you are aware of the deeper meaning of vulnerability makes you very much a man, even if you never get any further than that. Maybe you struggle with it because men just weren't made that way. Who knows?

Thank you again for your kind words. :rose:
 
As it should be, perhaps.

Women are something to be grateful for in this sense. It comes to us much easier. If you ask me, just the fact that you are aware of the deeper meaning of vulnerability makes you very much a man, even if you never get any further than that. Maybe you struggle with it because men just weren't made that way. Who knows?

Thank you again for your kind words. :rose:
The fear of vulnerability in men is the reason for much of the woes of the world: Putin must have swallowed a whole bucket of vulnerable as much as any homophobic playground bully. I feel sorry for men that are forced to wear an emotional straight-jacket from an age when their own fathers told them to 'shape up, show 'em who's boss, big boys don't cry... blah blah" and to be fair, mothers do it too.
Of course there is a flip side to the touchie-feelie philosophy, because sadly we need men to go fight wars or hunt down terrorists, because the other side is filling their boys head's with the same bullshit.
It'll never end, will it? It's like that line in Terminator

On a lighter note
https://33.media.tumblr.com/e19a1fcb5036ba90fa1136331ec47a78/tumblr_n0lsq6atav1qas1mto1_1280.jpg
Knickers that glow :eek: How cool are they?!
 
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There's a thinly veiled joke in there about a black-light........
Good job I'm not crude enough to make it. *ahem*

I want those glowy universe panties!
Where are they from?!
 
It's absolutely breathtaking, RA. I would love to read more of your writing. :rose:
thank you, I can't finish anything. I get a little ADD..:eek:
And I'm a wee bit perfectionist, so it's got to be perfect the first time. Takes me a long time to word stuff.


Men should be vulnerable. I tell my boys to suck it up, but if I had girls, they'd hear the same thing. :)
 
Yeah, maybe an actual topic would be a good thing :)

I will admit that I don't have an "answer" for this question but I'll ask it anyway. All the people we know in RL, for the most part, we know who they are and the kind of person they are. That's not to say we don't get surprised/fooled/shocked when we learn of something about them that seems out of character for the person we thought we knew. So in Lit, it's much tougher to get a sense of who a person is. Sure we can read their posts, exchange PMs and even talk to them in person. But we don't know them as well as an RL person, my opinion of course.

Knowing all that, we accept that the Lit people we come to know we only know X% of who they are. Compared to RL friends, what is that X% for you. Do we know Lit friends only 50% as well as our RL friends, for example?

How well do you really know anyone?

How many times has someone you thought you knew surprised you?

People reveal what they choose to reveal and there are reasons why they do so. At the risk of sounding preachy, it's not about you, it's about them although it affects you. You can't really put a percentage on what you *know* about someone online. More often, it is easier to drop those walls and be honest about your feelings, your thoughts to someone who you're not going to have to face tomorrow. Someone whose opinion of you isn't going to cloud how they treat you the next day. On the other hand, the connection, the attachment builds and the confusion becomes quite the conundrum as to where online ends and real begins.

You bring with you who you are. At least for me, that's how it's always been. Anything less is a waste of time, effort and energy.
 
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