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I have you know I've got a mean backhand with the feather duster.. *pouts*"Oh yeah Ruby, spank me harder...mmm yeah feels so good, give it to me."
Thank you, Love.
lolOk you two....if you don't behave I feel that chains is around the corner waiting for his debut....

Ok you two....if you don't behave I feel that chains is around the corner waiting for his debut....
And that our first Christmas dollars ought to be spent helping create better Christmas memories for some children out there today, not our last.
(apologies for the somber mood, unicorn parades will resume tomorrow)
Do we know Lit friends only 50% as well as our RL friends, for example?

it sounds better when I say it..,just sayin'Whether real life or on Lit, I feel that we are only able to know another as much as they are willing to show themselves and be known, not forgoing that we must also be open and receptive to knowing them. Vulnerability and curiosity are both very important factors in being known and knowing another well.
Thank you for the reminder that there are many who don't share the most wonderful childhood memories. Children are precious. They should be cherished always, and especially this time of year.
*clears throat*
Am I the only girl on here that actually likes the "oh yeah baby, give it to me daddy" stuff in porn? Try amateur; it's phenomenal!![]()

it sounds better when I say it..,just sayin'
Lol

Whether real life or on Lit, I feel that we are only able to know another as much as they are willing to show themselves and be known, not forgoing that we must also be open and receptive to knowing them. Vulnerability and curiosity are both very important factors in being known and knowing another well.
Thank you for the reminder that there are many who don't share the most wonderful childhood memories. Children are precious. They should be cherished always, and especially this time of year.
*clears throat*
Am I the only girl on here that actually likes the "oh yeah baby, give it to me daddy" stuff in porn? Try amateur; it's phenomenal!![]()
Oh!
Uhh...
I feel a sin coming on...
Damn, your signature line is hawt!!! Whew!
I write occasionally.. Lol

it sounds better when I say it..,just sayin'
Lol
About your question, Chained...
No one, and I mean no one can know more than you allow them to. So, I think online or offline, all people we interact with are guarded in some respect.
I abhor percentages, btw. Accounting is always asking me for percentages.. I tell them I'm a qualifier not a quantifier.
So, percentages will vary depending on who you are referring to..
Very well said. Vulnerability is probably the most ominous word I know. It's a constant struggle for me.

The fear of vulnerability in men is the reason for much of the woes of the world: Putin must have swallowed a whole bucket of vulnerable as much as any homophobic playground bully. I feel sorry for men that are forced to wear an emotional straight-jacket from an age when their own fathers told them to 'shape up, show 'em who's boss, big boys don't cry... blah blah" and to be fair, mothers do it too.As it should be, perhaps.
Women are something to be grateful for in this sense. It comes to us much easier. If you ask me, just the fact that you are aware of the deeper meaning of vulnerability makes you very much a man, even if you never get any further than that. Maybe you struggle with it because men just weren't made that way. Who knows?
Thank you again for your kind words.![]()
thank you, I can't finish anything. I get a little ADD..It's absolutely breathtaking, RA. I would love to read more of your writing.![]()
Yeah, maybe an actual topic would be a good thing
I will admit that I don't have an "answer" for this question but I'll ask it anyway. All the people we know in RL, for the most part, we know who they are and the kind of person they are. That's not to say we don't get surprised/fooled/shocked when we learn of something about them that seems out of character for the person we thought we knew. So in Lit, it's much tougher to get a sense of who a person is. Sure we can read their posts, exchange PMs and even talk to them in person. But we don't know them as well as an RL person, my opinion of course.
Knowing all that, we accept that the Lit people we come to know we only know X% of who they are. Compared to RL friends, what is that X% for you. Do we know Lit friends only 50% as well as our RL friends, for example?