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Lit is a world of alts. How many Lit identities have you posted under?

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    Votes: 378 78.6%
  • 2 - 3

    Votes: 86 17.9%
  • 4 - 5

    Votes: 7 1.5%
  • > 5

    Votes: 10 2.1%

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Have you run into a kink here that has shocked you? Have you gotten to know someone here and found out they have a kink you never would've expected based on what you have seen of them on the threads? Have you discovered a kink that turns your crank in a way you never imagined it could?
Somewhat to my surprise, I've not yet been shocked by anything that I've seen in my journey into kink. There are plenty of things that don't float my boat, but I seem to have assimilated quickly the ethos of most of the BDSM community of being non-judgemental about activities as long as mutual respect and safety are maintained. If I don't like it, then I just look elsewhere.

Similarly, I haven't really been surprised by the kinks shared by Litsters. Almost everyone that I've met in the kink community has been a warm and caring human being whom I'd consider to be "normal" if that weren't something of an insult in that context! As such, I don't tend any more to carry expectations about the way that someone might behave (or not) in their sex life.

My wife and I are finding out a lot new things about ourselves and each other during our venture together into kink. Whilst there are some activities that we have ruled out due to strong feelings against them, there are others that we didn't think would appeal but we tried and found that they made our eyes light up. One of our ground rules now is to try as many things as we can without making assumptions about whether or not we'll like them. We've made some exciting discoveries that way! :D
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They make hands, paddles and hitachis for such occasions.

Plus the exhilaration of being watched.. lots of things really, to keep you up. :)

Oh my, this just gave me goose bumps. :devil:
Yep, my ability to hold still, just toss that out the window!
Tight knots are over rated anyways.
 
Oh my, this just gave me goose bumps. :devil:
Yep, my ability to hold still, just toss that out the window!
Tight knots are over rated anyways.

Breaks out the Boy Scout handbook. I wish they have told me the real life lessons for my knot tying merit badge.
 
So the Shibari Club is on???

Somebody take notes so I don't miss anything while I'm gone. :cattail:

Yowza! Okay. So I had my own reservations about being able to sit still for Shibari, but like everyone else in the room, this v convinced me! :eek:

They make hands, paddles and hitachis for such occasions.

Plus the exhilaration of being watched.. lots of things really, to keep you up. :)
 
Oral? I'm down. As in GOING down. See what I did there?

....

I'll be going now.
 
So the Shibari Club is on???

Somebody take notes so I don't miss anything while I'm gone. :cattail:

Yowza! Okay. So I had my own reservations about being able to sit still for Shibari, but like everyone else in the room, this v convinced me! :eek:

There are a couple of local shibari clubs and it seems they are always looking for models, but I always chickened out from going. :eek:
I'm not worried about being able to sit still, but I do worry about the rigger's experience and potential nerve damage.

Of course now there is the little issue of hubs not being ok with it :(
 
Fisting is one thing I don't get. I just don't understand. Sounding. That's another. Fuck.

I do like talking with people who share similar interests as mine. It's quite interesting when someone introduces you to something you're surprised you like.
 
There are a couple of local shibari clubs and it seems they are always looking for models, but I always chickened out from going. :eek:
I'm not worried about being able to sit still, but I do worry about the rigger's experience and potential nerve damage.

Of course now there is the little issue of hubs not being ok with it :(

Really? Hmmm. You're not in my area though....

Oral? I'm down. As in GOING down. See what I did there?

....

I'll be going now.

Ba dum tss! :D
 
Yes. I don't have sex because it's icky and I don't want kids.

There are alternatives...just sayin'.;)

I think lady vaginas scare him.


Oral? I'm down. As in GOING down. See what I did there?

I think this is a cry for pussy eating pics. As supreme ruler in charge when Papa C isn't here, I will have to see what I can do about that.


Fisting is one thing I don't get. I just don't understand. Sounding. That's another. Fuck.

I do like talking with people who share similar interests as mine. It's quite interesting when someone introduces you to something you're surprised you like.

Those are the best surprises! :nana:
 
There are a couple of local shibari clubs and it seems they are always looking for models, but I always chickened out from going. :eek:
I'm not worried about being able to sit still, but I do worry about the rigger's experience and potential nerve damage.

Of course now there is the little issue of hubs not being ok with it :(

Hmmm.. Texas is only a hop and a skip away. ;)
 
The oral sex pic posting Suz_anne asked me, her fellow deputy, to post the question today.

A lot of us have come here to explore parts of ourselves that we didn't know existed. Some things turn us on that are a bit out of the ordinary. I mean, someone mentioned having sex with a girl from behind and my mind was blown!!! But oddly, it sounded like maybe it could be fun.

Anyway, the question is this... Of the fantasies you explore here, how would they translate into real life? Are they better kept fantasy? Or do they translate into reality? How much of your fantasies here have you been able to bring into real life? Did they go as planned? Or would they have better been left in the fantasy world?
 
omg.. we had ONE intellectually founded discussion thread in the playground. I go away for a little while and..
 
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