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[Endless_Night]

Isn't it time for the nightly picture derail?

I am bored.

 

[ViciousTease]

http://41.media.tumblr.com/97d622c9b57fcab7664ecc7e671d8e49/tumblr_nr3g3nMRRV1tkxbkso1_1280.jpg

It made me giggle.

 

[Endless_Night]

^^^^^Awwwwwwesome!

I love you, VT.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I think the next scene in 'date night' is this.

http://41.media.tumblr.com/6100545b78e153b8ba2a19156f3f8959/tumblr_nw45wea7ke1uqan5ho1_500.jpg

 

[Mayberrygirl]

Your gonna make me get all emotional now. shhhh.

It's ok to very and get emotional over memories of days past and our current lives. That is a big part what keeps us human in this crazy day and age... I cry and get teary eyed quite a bit. Do not misunderstand...I am tough as nails on the outside...but..well you know..

I am not a huge fan of sweets, but will indulge every now and then... especially at Christmas. I have got to vote for my Aunties homemade "Heath" toffee bites...OMG!! Gastronomically orgasmic experience...Mmmm...yummmmy! They have been a part of her "goodie platters" for as long as I can remember..she is 83 and gearing up for another massive goodie making session!

 

[Mayberrygirl]

So apparently yesterday's question was not A material. Definitely true based on the lack of replies. i'll and do better.

Today is Veteran's Day or Rememberance Day or Armistice Day for the old timers and we'll read the words "never forget" countless times. The reality of it is we will forget. By definition the fact that we have to remind ourselves to not forget is an admission that we will. Pearl Harbor Day, mostly forgotten. The Treaty of Ghent definitely forgotten. World War I is barely acknowledged any more. And that's okay, we remember best what we experience. And for what we have all experienced we won't ever forget. So today isn't a question, it's a challenge. Dig into your history books and remember a war, a veteran, a hero that's most likely been forgotten and let it live inside of you at least for today. So many gave so much, it's the least we can do.

A sincere and respectful Thank You to the Veterans and their families who have given the ultimate sacrifice for our Country. Again a sincere and represpectful Thank You to those in the past who have given so very much and to those in the present who, at this very moment in time, are in Service. I, for one, do not forget.

 

[ChainedUp]

Ropes and restraints, such a lovely image they make. Oh and proper rope makes the best imagery, but restraints are way easier to use. Maybe that's way we love the rope, maybe it shows us the extra effort someone is willing to make.

Isn't that true about almost anything. The extra effort, whether it's needed/requested or not, makes us feel special. It doesn't even have to be perfect, or even close, but it's the effort we crave. It's the attention we want, the awareness that someone is willing to do that for us.

The question? Are you making that extra effort? Are you making someone feel special because you are giving more than you "have" to? If not, why not?

 

[Endless_Night]

Great question!

Once fully engaged, I go all out. To hear pleasure at some unexpected effort on my part brings me my own little sense of joy. They are special. I want them to know I see them that way. Even seemingly quite small efforts can make a difference, bring a smile, cause a little flutter.

For myself, I gravitate towards men that, ahem, recognize how unique and special I am.

If I’m not making the effort it probably means I’m not interested, I'm going through a bad patch with that particular partner, or I’ve lost interest.

If I don’t see that effort from another, I absolutely assume they're not really interested in me.

On a related note, I think attractions occasionally fall down from lack of understanding. More than once I’ve watched friends dance with potential partners only to move on because one or the other didn’t get a sense of genuine interest from the other party. Yet, as an observer, it was quite clear to me that both parties were quite enamored. I suppose it comes down to perception. One person’s extra effort may come across as inadequate, or even disinterest to another.

Ropes and restraints make everything better!!!

Errr.... Just saying.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Ropes and restraints, such a lovely image they make. Oh and proper rope makes the best imagery, but restraints are way easier to use. Maybe that's way we love the rope, maybe it shows us the extra effort someone is willing to make.

Isn't that true about almost anything. The extra effort, whether it's needed/requested or not, makes us feel special. It doesn't even have to be perfect, or even close, but it's the effort we crave. It's the attention we want, the awareness that someone is willing to do that for us.

The question? Are you making that extra effort? Are you making someone feel special because you are giving more than you "have" to? If not, why not?

For those who are important to me, I try to make them feel special

I would like to thank Papa C for making me feel special. He sent me a PM wondering when I would come back to the thread, since he missed me so these last few days.

I mean, all of you ladies that messaged me meant a lot too. But nothing like a warm message from C Diddy.

 

[Endless_Night]

Reeeeeeeeally. Should we start calling you two P Diddy and C Diddy?

 

[Scout44]

For those who are important to me, I try to make them feel special

I would like to thank Papa C for making me feel special. He sent me a PM wondering when I would come back to the thread, since he missed me so these last few days.

I mean, all of you ladies that messaged me meant a lot too. But nothing like a warm message from C Diddy.

Awww, you guys are the cutest....

To answer the question. I try to and I hope those that I care most about know how much they mean to me. It's not always the grand gestures, it's the little things.

 

[ChainedUp]

For those who are important to me, I try to make them feel special

I would like to thank Papa C for making me feel special. He sent me a PM wondering when I would come back to the thread, since he missed me so these last few days.

I mean, all of you ladies that messaged me meant a lot too. But nothing like a warm message from C Diddy.

The PM:

"Yo dude, where the fuck you been, bro. Ya gotta lift a hand, man, I can't do this solo. I mean, dude,you know what I mean. Haul that stick ass back in, cause it aint looking too good hanging on its own. Thanks bro, on the flip side......"

 

[Lord Pmann]

Don't forget the fisting. Or what do the kids call it? The fist bump?

 

[tiny_tits]

Don't forget the fisting. Or what do the kids call it? The fist bump?

Ya I don't think that means what you think it means

 

[Endless_Night]

That PM was not quite what I expected....

I mean, where's the homoerotic undertones? The kissing gifs?

..............................

And then, Pmann brought things back on track.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Oh, I'm always a pleaser. I know you slunts are always wanting gay stuff. Even though I'm as Hetero as it gets and I'm out of Papa C's league, I am still a pleaser andI give you ladies what you want.

#WomanPleaser

 

[Suz_anne]

*captured right before Pmann and Papa's bareback ride*

http://www.artmajeur.com/files/hongtao/images/artworks/650x650/8185600_dsc-0378.jpg

 

[Mayberrygirl]

Oh God...I feel so all alone, and not special, and unloved...hohum... I guess I will just have to go eat dirt and play in the middle of the hiway with razor blades...*heavy sighs*..

 

[sweetsophie512]

Ropes and restraints, such a lovely image they make. Oh and proper rope makes the best imagery, but restraints are way easier to use. Maybe that's way we love the rope, maybe it shows us the extra effort someone is willing to make.

Isn't that true about almost anything. The extra effort, whether it's needed/requested or not, makes us feel special. It doesn't even have to be perfect, or even close, but it's the effort we crave. It's the attention we want, the awareness that someone is willing to do that for us.

The question? Are you making that extra effort? Are you making someone feel special because you are giving more than you "have" to? If not, why not?

Hello. I'm Sophie and I'm an overachiever.

I have the propensity to give more than I get. Throughout the years, I've learned that one shouldn't keep tabs or score when it comes to giving or making an effort. However, giving more than I get tends to drain me and so nowadays, I'm careful. If someone I'm giving my all to isn't putting forth the same (and they used to), I scale it back or just stop altogether. If not, resentment builds and the connection weakens.

I'm willing to give more than I get for as I know that the other person appreciates it. If they take it for granted, I'd rather devote that time, effort and energy elsewhere.

 

[ChainedUp]

If the place you escape to becomes where you are is really an escape? If you're full after having been hungry, were you really ever hungry? If there's zero risk, we do we talk about it as if there's a chance?

No, my medication hasn't changed, it's just my take on perspective and living in the moment. So much of what we do and who we are begin with the moment just passed. And yet we can't capture that moment, it's here and then it's gone, only a memory of what it was is left for us to use for the upcoming moment.

All that leading to this: how do you hang onto your moments? What do you do to keep the moment while using it to guide you? And what if you misremember the moment, how has your life changed due to a moment remembered not how it really was?

 

[ChainedUp]

Or maybe I should just ask if you got fucked last night?

 

[rubydlite]

A girl goes away for a bit and this thread goes haywire....wowzers...

When did Broke Back Papa Chained P Diddy happen?

...and the question....
No...not last night...

And the other question...
We all remember things differently. It's why lawyers were invented I'm sure. It's why people go back to past loves and why we eat the same cheesecake that made us sick last year. We forget the bad stuff and remember the good.

If that was a sarcastic question that I just tried to honestly answer I'm coming after you Chained.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I wish I could quit you.

 

[cowslinger64]

Hello. I'm Sophie and I'm an overachiever.

I have the propensity to give more than I get. Throughout the years, I've learned that one shouldn't keep tabs or score when it comes to giving or making an effort. However, giving more than I get tends to drain me and so nowadays, I'm careful. If someone I'm giving my all to isn't putting forth the same (and they used to), I scale it back or just stop altogether. If not, resentment builds and the connection weakens.

I'm willing to give more than I get for as I know that the other person appreciates it. If they take it for granted, I'd rather devote that time, effort and energy elsewhere.

I could have written the same thing. Well said.

 

[Suz_anne]

My memory is terrible. I blame it on the herbal refreshments that I thoroughly enjoyed during my college years.

So realizing that my recollection of detail is not great, I try to focus on the feeling instead. I may not recall the transcript of a conversation, but I remember how I felt while we were having it. And I also strongly associate people with music, so that plays a part, as well.

And yes, I did.